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I wouldn’t and don’t reveal an approx body count to any future prospects. It’s my business. Exactly the same reason I don’t have my veris showing.
I did however give an indication in a d*unk convo with randomers at a boozer on Saturday night… (it was one of them late night adult conversations) I won’t be doing that again! |
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"Genuinely don’t think amy of my mates have been truthful about their body count to their partner, for different reasons too"
I do think quite a few are in anilla relationships if people are prim nd proper types |
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"I wouldn’t and don’t reveal an approx body count to any future prospects. It’s my business. Exactly the same reason I don’t have my veris showing.
I did however give an indication in a d*unk convo with randomers at a boozer on Saturday night… (it was one of them late night adult conversations) I won’t be doing that again! "
Opps to the pub and I get it's your business and no one else's,
And personally I love to see someone's body count on here I find it more attractive when I see a good number, lol
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By *rispyDuckMan 26 weeks ago
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I tell them what they want to hear  
Majority of times ‘vanilla folks’ think they can handle the truth but they can’t haha. And that’s why I don’t ask the same question either!
Their body count is their own private past & so is mine  |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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Nope. I would say if asked. But it would be a guess. Who remembers every detail and person. I remember my first. But after that it's a blur until more recent encounters. |
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No, I've always been honest. Mainly because the number is fairly boring. Neither interestingly high or low. Just standard mileage for my age haha
I do think it's something a partner has a right to know though. |
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"No, I've always been honest. Mainly because the number is fairly boring. Neither interestingly high or low. Just standard mileage for my age haha
I do think it's something a partner has a right to know though. "
Why? |
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As others have said its my business. I accept folk arent virgins when i meet them. I also agree body count worries are a vanilla world problem. I sometimes feel folk are judged on fab for having lots of meets/veri/being active. |
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I really don’t have a clue how many people I’ve had sex with! Clubs, groups, repeat meets and one on ones… I’m fairly certain that it’s over a hundred but i have no clue as to exact numbers.
If people don’t want to meet me or that puts them off, that’s their issue |
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"Has any of you ever lied to a partner, (this is probably more if it was a vanilla relationship) about the amount of sexual partners you have had??? I know have "
I did with my 2nd husband.. when he commented that a lady he knew had been with over 100 guys. I said it was more than him but not by many. I later enjoyed telling him that I may have greatly underestimated my figures
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"No, I've always been honest. Mainly because the number is fairly boring. Neither interestingly high or low. Just standard mileage for my age haha
I do think it's something a partner has a right to know though.
Why?"
Because people are allowed to care about and prioritise whatever facts they like in making the decision of whether to pair bond with you.
You have the right to say no, they have the right to ask. If that issue isn't going to have a satisfactory outcome by whatever method then you are two people who don't need to be together. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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I love the term body count!
I have been asked, I haven’t answered but I honestly don’t know! I would have to really think and even then probably forget some.
I remember being asked on a boozy work function once and I asked first ‘men or women?’ My boss laughed and said she didn’t need to know more. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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I've never really understood why anyone would keep a tally , to me it shows a complete lack of maturity and proves their more interested in racking up notches , also if anyone was to ask me they'd be told it's none of their buisness just as theirs is none of mine . |
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