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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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looking for soe porn to get my mrs a bit more relaxed and maybe bring her into swinging if i can get that far! Is there any porn that turns women on more than normal or a specific site targeted at women? Maybe a scenario that is more aimed at ladies etc.... |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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Some women do not like porn at all. And why would you use it to manipulate someone anyway?
Try talking to her. If she's not interested, don't push it. Not if you value your relationship. |
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"Wasnt using it to manipulate her, more the situation where by we could turn conversation around to it! "
If you get talking about the type of porn she likes you might be able to.open the subject up a bit. Your wife is an individual though, just like all women and there is not one generic woman porn that will instantly turn us all on.
I say it every time but how do you think asking people who don't know you let alone your wife will help? I understand that it's a difficult subject to raise but that's the only way you're going to find out. |
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Also how do you think your wife will feel when she sees your profile?
I would be beyond angry to discover that my partner had shared his desire to get me involved in swinging before he had discussed it with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A successful swinging relationship is based on trust and honesty. Just saying."
Now that's funny... after reading through this thread, something similar was going through my mind too... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can see that point but that will come when or if we embark on swinging together! If i have an oppertunity to discuss it then maybe we would take a step further. If not for us then i would probably try to call it a day on these sites.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can see that point but that will come when or if we embark on swinging together! If i have an oppertunity to discuss it then maybe we would take a step further. If not for us then i would probably try to call it a day on these sites. "
Think the question you should be asking yourself is why you embarked on swinging on your own, without your wife, in the first place... and that ought to lead to a rather frank conversation between the two of you...
Seen this scenario so many times and, in the majority of cases, it always ends up in the same place. The Divorce Court. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dont ask her to swing, ask when in loving mood what turns her on may be ask if she ever wanted to watch other people making love etc dont just ask if she wants to jump in bed with someone else |
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"I can see that point but that will come when or if we embark on swinging together! If i have an oppertunity to discuss it then maybe we would take a step further. If not for us then i would probably try to call it a day on these sites. "
As has been said for swinging you need a rock solid relationship with complete trust and being open with each other. You should be able to discuss your sex likes and dislikes together as a starting block. if you have to find a suitable moment then you are probably not there yet. Also you being on here alone sort of shows that the relationship is not solid enough yet for swinging probably.
Even if you kill your profile and then search here with her you may well come unstuck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id have to make sure my profile disappears before we searched on here. Maybe find another site to introduce her to"
Your playing a very dangerous game - soooooooo many people have been caught out by being underhand.
No disrespect intended, you live your life in whichever way you choose, but always remember, the truth has a very funny way of getting out at some point in time ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"dont ask her to swing, ask when in loving mood what turns her on may be ask if she ever wanted to watch other people making love etc dont just ask if she wants to jump in bed with someone else"
Yes, might be a way forward
As for swinging....id loosely call it that. Not exactly made a lot of meets due to other commitments. Maybe just a fantasy for me that has got me close to the swinging world. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chuck on some mmf threeway porn and be all like, here luv how'd you fancy a spit roast for dinner, know what I mean darling? Wink wink."
Lol! Worth a try!!   |
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