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By *0X4 OP Man 5 days ago
Bedford |
I'm looking at attending a club when I get back from my holiday this year probably around late August.
What I'm thinking is...is it worth single guys going to clubs? Are we looked at as unwanted? Any male friendly clubs recommended? |
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Mate it's definitely worth going to clubs, but go with the right attitude, treat it like going down the pub and having a social, don't get too pissed and don't have any expectations and you will have a great time,then if anything happens it's a bonus. |
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Yes, single guys are a welcome addition to clubs, as long as they are respectful and don't follow women/couples everywhere.
Be near the social areas and talk to people.
What Woman Want profile hold events for non members of vanilla alternative club, so this could be a good starting point for you OP.
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As has already been said, just go with no expectations, treat it like a social and it's an absolute bonus if you end up having fun
I've been to quite a few clubs but unfortunately I've not been lucky enough to have any fun,but they have been great nights anyway, would of been even better if I'd of been lucky enough to have had some fun |
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By *0X4 OP Man 5 days ago
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"Mate it's definitely worth going to clubs, but go with the right attitude, treat it like going down the pub and having a social, don't get too pissed and don't have any expectations and you will have a great time,then if anything happens it's a bonus. "
Thanks for the advice mate  |
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By *0X4 OP Man 5 days ago
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"Yes, single guys are a welcome addition to clubs, as long as they are respectful and don't follow women/couples everywhere.
Be near the social areas and talk to people.
What Woman Want profile hold events for non members of vanilla alternative club, so this could be a good starting point for you OP.
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I guess it's like being followed around by a zombie  Thanks for the advice with What women want profile, I'll look them up x |
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My wife always looks for guys looking nervous and sat of their own at a club
We both vape and go into the smoking garden within 10 minutes she has invited single guys to come and sit with us
I’ve even known her to invite two
Within 20 minutes asking questions
She’s invited them to play with us
So don’t worry about going to a club alone! Someone will always find you
It’s the cocky guys who just walk up and down pestering people we don’t like in a club |
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Single men who are respectful and have good social skills are very welcome. By this I mean making conversation the same way you would at any venue, not following people around, not standing too close, not touching without being invited. |
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"Single men who are respectful and have good social skills are very welcome. By this I mean making conversation the same way you would at any venue, not following people around, not standing too close, not touching without being invited. "
Crimson's advice is spot on |
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By *0X4 OP Man 5 days ago
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"My wife always looks for guys looking nervous and sat of their own at a club
We both vape and go into the smoking garden within 10 minutes she has invited single guys to come and sit with us
I’ve even known her to invite two
Within 20 minutes asking questions
She’s invited them to play with us
So don’t worry about going to a club alone! Someone will always find you
It’s the cocky guys who just walk up and down pestering people we don’t like in a club "
Thanks for this too, I'm so not cocky so hopefully I'll be accepted  I'm feeling much more confident about going now x |
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By *0X4 OP Man 5 days ago
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"Single men who are respectful and have good social skills are very welcome. By this I mean making conversation the same way you would at any venue, not following people around, not standing too close, not touching without being invited. "
I'm going to treat it like I was in a normal bar then, if I click with someone..great x |
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"Single men who are respectful and have good social skills are very welcome. By this I mean making conversation the same way you would at any venue, not following people around, not standing too close, not touching without being invited. I'm going to treat it like I was in a normal bar then, if I click with someone..great x"
That’s exactly the right approach. |
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By *oxy jWoman 5 days ago
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if there were no single guys at clubs we would not go ... most of the guys in my little black book are from meeting in clubs ...
at the end of the day its tour choice on how you behave to how you get on if you become one of the guys who chase follow wank pester wont take no as a answer then it will be grim if your just a nice guy chatting and behaving then you'll be fine |
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