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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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It can depend! Sometimes it's really hot to be very intimate and romantic and sweet; sometimes it can be very hot to take what you want and stare them down daring them to cum first  |
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"It’s a must for me what about everyone else and if not why not ? "
its not a must for me with casual sex.. on fact I actively avoid it.. love kissing just not a random sex partner. It doesn't do it for me x
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I can fuck someone without love, but my desire to kiss someone is definitely linked to my emotions towards them, so although I won't rule it out completely, I have very little desire or enthusiasm to kiss anyone I don't have feelings for - Hubby's kisses set fireworks off in my body whereas everyone else is just disappointing...You also have the issue that unless you're an EXCEPTIONAL kisser, it's likely to turn me off. So I do prefer not to... |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.
Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything?? "
Everything I would have thought? |
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"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.
Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??
Everything I would have thought?"
nope... why would there be any correlation...
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"I love kissing as part of sex, however I had a MMF recently where that was reserved solely for her man and I found it so erotic to watch them kiss while I fucked her from behind…"
Yeah that's hot |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.
Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??
Everything I would have thought?nope... why would there be any correlation...
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Is the act of kissing a prelude to advancing intimacy. It’s called fore play I think? |
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"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.
Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??
Everything I would have thought?nope... why would there be any correlation...
Is the act of kissing a prelude to advancing intimacy. It’s called fore play I think?"
There are many, many forms of foreplay, it's not mandatory to partake in all of them or even any if you don't want to. |
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"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.
Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??
Everything I would have thought?nope... why would there be any correlation...
Is the act of kissing a prelude to advancing intimacy. It’s called fore play I think?"
I have more tools in my box that one method of foreplay.... I manage very well without kissing for casual partners...
And I still don't see the corelation to oral ... which I normally skip receiving from men .. they don't seem to complain when I use my hands / fingers and mouth on their bodies and cocks... just not to kiss |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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It depends on the type of sex the location , the dynamics of the sex. There is a lot of factors to consider.
It would be very boring to have the same sex every time just to incorporate kissing.
I have had amazing sex where there has been no kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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What if you are in a sex swing?
The one I have it's very difficult to get close enough to kiss.
What about when you are being fucklicked ?
Then any kissing would be part of the foreplay not the sexy act.
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If it's a private 1-on-1, 2-on-1 encounter then I find I need to kiss to get me going.
If I'm observing a couple having a genuine (and by that I mean not the fake moaning some women put on when being observed) horny encounter and I'm invited to join in then kissing isn't necessary for me to be turned on. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.
Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??
Everything I would have thought?nope... why would there be any correlation...
Is the act of kissing a prelude to advancing intimacy. It’s called fore play I think? I have more tools in my box that one method of foreplay.... I manage very well without kissing for casual partners...
And I still don't see the corelation to oral ... which I normally skip receiving from men .. they don't seem to complain when I use my hands / fingers and mouth on their bodies and cocks... just not to kiss "
Perhaps there is a perception that performing oral sex has a greater degree of intimacy than kissing?
Or am I being simplistic? |
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"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.
Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??
Everything I would have thought?nope... why would there be any correlation...
Is the act of kissing a prelude to advancing intimacy. It’s called fore play I think? I have more tools in my box that one method of foreplay.... I manage very well without kissing for casual partners...
And I still don't see the corelation to oral ... which I normally skip receiving from men .. they don't seem to complain when I use my hands / fingers and mouth on their bodies and cocks... just not to kiss
Perhaps there is a perception that performing oral sex has a greater degree of intimacy than kissing?
Or am I being simplistic?"
That may be your perception. It isn't everyone's |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.
Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??
Everything I would have thought?nope... why would there be any correlation...
Is the act of kissing a prelude to advancing intimacy. It’s called fore play I think? I have more tools in my box that one method of foreplay.... I manage very well without kissing for casual partners...
And I still don't see the corelation to oral ... which I normally skip receiving from men .. they don't seem to complain when I use my hands / fingers and mouth on their bodies and cocks... just not to kiss
Perhaps there is a perception that performing oral sex has a greater degree of intimacy than kissing?
Or am I being simplistic?
That may be your perception. It isn't everyone's"
I did qualify the statement? |
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"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.
Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??
Everything I would have thought?nope... why would there be any correlation...
Is the act of kissing a prelude to advancing intimacy. It’s called fore play I think? I have more tools in my box that one method of foreplay.... I manage very well without kissing for casual partners...
And I still don't see the corelation to oral ... which I normally skip receiving from men .. they don't seem to complain when I use my hands / fingers and mouth on their bodies and cocks... just not to kiss
Perhaps there is a perception that performing oral sex has a greater degree of intimacy than kissing?
Or am I being simplistic?
That may be your perception. It isn't everyone's
I did qualify the statement?"
You did. My response was a way of saying 'yes, in my opinion to are being simplistic ' |
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By *abonTedCouple 35 weeks ago
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To be lost in that moment, wanting to eat that mouth, to drink and consume every part of them. Mouths open, hungry, wanting and being explored by tongue.
Other times it might be fingers pushing past lips and feeling and leading the body by mouth.
Other times might just be talking
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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I love kissing! If someone’s kiss doesn’t make me want more I don’t do more!
Doesn’t mean I need to kiss my play partner the whole time during sex but it’s always got a place. |
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caveat with the fact we are FFM only, but its definitely a must for wifey - she loves the intimacy of kissing other women and is a huge turn on for her as part of foreplay.
I would forego the pleasure with the other woman if she didnt want to (beards turn people on or off...) but preference would definitly be to kiss our 3rd party as well.
Just something incredibly erotic about 3 way kissing...especially after lots of oral.... |
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