If men can only meet during the day, never evening or weekend, it is a big red flag for me. As 99% of the time it means they are not actually single and are meeting behind their wife/partner's back. I get that it's not always the case, but that exception only confirms the rule. I have actually had people ask me to take a day off (I work during the day) to meet them! |
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"If men can only meet during the day, never evening or weekend, it is a big red flag for me. As 99% of the time it means they are not actually single and are meeting behind their wife/partner's back. I get that it's not always the case, but that exception only confirms the rule. I have actually had people ask me to take a day off (I work during the day) to meet them! "
99% OK....
Are you sure about that?
Shift patterns, night workers, single parents who only meet when kids are at school.
I used to meet a single woman only during the day due to her kids being at school
It was the only time I could meet her. Luckily I was on 3 long shifts followed by 4 days off at the time so it was very convenient set up for both of us.
Lots of people prefer to meet during the day whether that be during the week or at weekends.
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"If men can only meet during the day, never evening or weekend, it is a big red flag for me. As 99% of the time it means they are not actually single and are meeting behind their wife/partner's back. I get that it's not always the case, but that exception only confirms the rule. I have actually had people ask me to take a day off (I work during the day) to meet them! "
You seem to be implying that men only work 9-5 Mon to Fri.
Lots of people work weekends and evenings for example people that work in the hospitality industry , retail industry, care sector not to forget the emergency services.
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