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over a year ago
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"Oral is a sexual act, therefore if you suck cock, your bisexual. "
I have to disagree, mr naughty is orally bi, he does not fancy men, kiss men or have anal sex.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oral is a sexual act, therefore if you suck cock, your bisexual.
I have to disagree, mr naughty is orally bi, he does not fancy men, kiss men or have anal sex.. "
So he just sucks their cock instead!! I remember the days when a good hand shake sufficed!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oral is a sexual act, therefore if you suck cock, your bisexual.
I have to disagree, mr naughty is orally bi, he does not fancy men, kiss men or have anal sex.. "
I have to agree....dictionary states:
Definition of bisexual
adjective
1sexually attracted to both men and women.
2 Biology having characteristics of both sexes.
noun
a person who is sexually attracted to both men and women.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oral is a sexual act, therefore if you suck cock, your bisexual.
I have to disagree, mr naughty is orally bi, he does not fancy men, kiss men or have anal sex..
I have to agree....dictionary states:
Definition of bisexual
adjective
1sexually attracted to both men and women.
2 Biology having characteristics of both sexes.
noun
a person who is sexually attracted to both men and women.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oral is a sexual act, therefore if you suck cock, your bisexual.
I have to disagree, mr naughty is orally bi, he does not fancy men, kiss men or have anal sex.. "
Genuine question ....so what does he get out of sucking a guy off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oral is a sexual act, therefore if you suck cock, your bisexual.
I have to disagree, mr naughty is orally bi, he does not fancy men, kiss men or have anal sex..
I have to agree....dictionary states:
Definition of bisexual
adjective
1sexually attracted to both men and women.
2 Biology having characteristics of both sexes.
noun
a person who is sexually attracted to both men and women.
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But surely if he has an attraction to sucking cocks there's your sexual attraction as in Definition No1.
Therefore he's sexually attracted to sucking cocks, sorry but whichever way you want to shake up the dice, like it or not it lands on bi.  
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I guess it's some kind of continuum in which one can be 'a bit bi' or 'very bi' or anything inbetween with the added complication of 'sometimes' or 'all the time'.
Bisexual is a label and not a very good one but the best I had to choose from.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's a hard on really, I got a message from a guy, straight on his profile, but all his pics were if him sucking cock or with cum in his mouth. I asked him about it and his reply was his mistress told him to do it. So he still classed him self straight, where as I classed him as bi.
I've done a lot of thinking about it since and I now don't like the sexuality labels, I class myself as open minded & go with the flow and if either were an option I'd pick one if them over the conventional labels x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A persons sexuality is so much more than physically having sex with someone.
I know lots of gay guys who don't like having sex with men, as your sexuality is about as much as the emotional than that of the physical.
But as always on this site and in the real world people are so obsessed with labels that feel they need them to define themselves or others, which is really sad that you can't just accept people for who they are!
Another point MOST straight porn actors have to do gay porn before to help them break into the industry. But then there only doing for the money which proves that sexuality isn't defined by the physical act of having sex with someone of the same sex. |
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I personally don't think a man who is "playful" in a threesome (mmf) orally as being bi. If they have no attraction to a man and would not meet a man alone it is purely just a kink.
Also don't believe the argument above must be attracted to a cock to suck it, I don't believe that to be the case, more going with the flow and doing something considered to be deviant.
Hate labels! As people rarely fit them so then comes about confusion. |
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"He enjoys knowing it excites me and turns me on... Would only ever happen in a threesome situation never him alone "
Agree totally....perhaps the term bi-playful rather than bi-sexual or bi-curious says more about guys who like stroking/wanking/sucking other guys in a 3 sum or 4 sum scenario? |
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"Oral is a sexual act, therefore if you suck cock, your bisexual.
I have to disagree, mr naughty is orally bi, he does not fancy men, kiss men or have anal sex.. "
I really struggle with this as to me ANY same sex act means you enjoy BOTH sexes, ergo bisexual.
I have a friend that will go balls deep with playmates, will enjoy a good rogering in turn, but because he doesn't kiss them (he finds that repulsive...go figure )or want a same sex relationship, he's straight!
Yeah...right...ok...whatever! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Bi curious has to be when your not sure if you like it and are just dipping your toes in...
Once you realise that you like it, then you are Bi sexual. It just then depends on what your limitations are and what you enjoy doing or have done to you... Kissing, rimming, anal ( mmmm) and what about guys who like to have toys used on them, are they Bi??
For us, it's all about the fun, opening your eyes and playing with what is in front of you... Lol but at the end if the day, if you enjoy it then happy days as long as those you are with know what you like xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was bi curious until a few year ago when i sucked my first cock ! Now i love it so guess im bisexual ! If youre curious it means you havent tried it yet am i correct ??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am Bi sexual and happy to admit so
does that make greedy ??? ---- Yes
does it mean im a perv?? ---- No
What it does do however is make me very picky on who i meet
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By (user no longer on site)
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In the heat of the moment a straight guy might suck another if the other really wanted it and it seemed a horny thing to do. That does not appear to make him attracted to him, just performing an act? Or is that daft? |
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"I was bi curious until a few year ago when i sucked my first cock ! Now i love it so guess im bisexual ! If youre curious it means you havent tried it yet am i correct ?? "
According to some you're still straight because you haven't gone to Ikea to pick out your soft furnishings or shared a candlelit dinner...or have you?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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guys who like to have toys used on them, are they Bi??
What? A WOMAN using toys on a MAN? Are you seriously asking if that makes the man bi?!!
Really?!! "
Lol... I know that isn't really the case, but just thought I would throw it out there... Over the years have met many guys who are Bi in small ways ie just touching or just oral.. But as most toys/strap ons are imitation cocks, what is the difference with them taking a real cock... |
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guys who like to have toys used on them, are they Bi??
What? A WOMAN using toys on a MAN? Are you seriously asking if that makes the man bi?!!
Really?!!
Lol... I know that isn't really the case, but just thought I would throw it out there... Over the years have met many guys who are Bi in small ways ie just touching or just oral.. But as most toys/strap ons are imitation cocks, what is the difference with them taking a real cock... "
Ask two lesbians using a strap on if they're really hetero! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There should be a new label for men who don't really desire sex with other men, but will gladly do it if it pleases their female partner. We know loads who would fit into this category:
Bi-ButOnlyWhenSheWantsToSeeMeDoIt? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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guys who like to have toys used on them, are they Bi??
What? A WOMAN using toys on a MAN? Are you seriously asking if that makes the man bi?!!
Really?!!
Lol... I know that isn't really the case, but just thought I would throw it out there... Over the years have met many guys who are Bi in small ways ie just touching or just oral.. But as most toys/strap ons are imitation cocks, what is the difference with them taking a real cock...
Ask two lesbians using a strap on if they're really hetero! "
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"There should be a new label for men who don't really desire sex with other men, but will gladly do it if it pleases their female partner. We know loads who would fit into this category:
Bi-ButOnlyWhenSheWantsToSeeMeDoIt? "
But has to please both doesnt it?
If one of us doesnt want to do something then we dont do it...no questions or ifs or buts...if your both not comfortable then the fun doesnt work...for us anyway.
PS Great profile photos by the way!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There should be a new label for men who don't really desire sex with other men, but will gladly do it if it pleases their female partner. We know loads who would fit into this category:
Bi-ButOnlyWhenSheWantsToSeeMeDoIt?
But has to please both doesnt it?
If one of us doesnt want to do something then we dont do it...no questions or ifs or buts...if your both not comfortable then the fun doesnt work...for us anyway."
Agree completely, it must please both. But it's about getting pleasure from pleasing someone else. If it's abhorrent to you, then you don't do it, of course, but it's quite possible to do something without greatly 'desiring' it for oneself. Well, it is for us  |
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"There should be a new label for men who don't really desire sex with other men, but will gladly do it if it pleases their female partner. We know loads who would fit into this category:
Bi-ButOnlyWhenSheWantsToSeeMeDoIt?
But has to please both doesnt it?
If one of us doesnt want to do something then we dont do it...no questions or ifs or buts...if your both not comfortable then the fun doesnt work...for us anyway.
Agree completely, it must please both. But it's about getting pleasure from pleasing someone else. If it's abhorrent to you, then you don't do it, of course, but it's quite possible to do something without greatly 'desiring' it for oneself. Well, it is for us "
Suppose so...we all have our favourite things,our likes alot, our likes a bit, and OK,s. |
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"I personally don't think a man who is "playful" in a threesome (mmf) orally as being bi. If they have no attraction to a man and would not meet a man alone it is purely just a kink.
Also don't believe the argument above must be attracted to a cock to suck it, I don't believe that to be the case, more going with the flow and doing something considered to be deviant.
Hate labels! As people rarely fit them so then comes about confusion."
I think I was thinking of saying something like this, but now it's said so well there's little point. Aesthetic pleasure is so much more complex than just liking or disliking something, and labels just simplify (and make communication possible). |
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Bi-curious is a straight guy who fancy sucking t-girls cock but wont suck other guys cock make it bi-sexual or straight guys cock. Sometimes, they are kind enough to give their bum! Technically, they are still into girls.
Bi-sexual is a guy who fancy sucking other guys cock apart from t-girls themselves and do what other gay blokes do lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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to me staight means going with oppossite sex only!
If u are 100% straight u would not go with same sex even if just orally.
more bisexual guys about nowadays yet most say still straight.
A guy who is 100% straight does not do anything with a guy no matter what. |
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