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Why this hatred for young guys?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s.
Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40.
I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s? |
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Physical attractiveness doesn't reduce with age, as an almost 40 year old I prefer people around my own age.
Maturity and life experience does improve with age, I have a lot more in common with people around my own age.
I wouldn't meet a 20 year old, I'd rather meet someone around my age, someone that's had some experience, knows what they want and doesn't need to be taught, I have zero in common with a 20 year old. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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"The reason we have 30+ is we don't want to meet people who we intend to have sex with that are around the same age as our kids."
I see this a lot and it is of course your prerogative to choose who you want to meet. But do all guys younger than 30 look like your kid? Surely I don't? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger.
Including ourselves."
That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina. |
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"The reason we have 30+ is we don't want to meet people who we intend to have sex with that are around the same age as our kids.
I see this a lot and it is of course your prerogative to choose who you want to meet. But do all guys younger than 30 look like your kid? Surely I don't?"
I think it is more about association and life arena than looks... unless I missed the part where they mentioned physical resemblance. |
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s.
Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40.
I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s?"
OP you say this but your not exactly selling your best self on here either are you so maybe change your profile up a bit for some to be even interested in you |
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Not everyone is looking for the fittest, most chiselled guy. For some it's more about connecting with people that they click with, and to echo the sentiment of previous posts, quite often that comes with those in a similar age bracket. |
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s.
Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40.
I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s? OP you say this but your not exactly selling your best self on here either are you so maybe change your profile up a bit for some to be even interested in you "
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s.
Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40.
I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s?"
I prefer to connect on a mental and emotional level with my sexual partners. Someone in their 30s or 40s for me is often at a similar place in their career and with their family. They'll remember all the old nostalgia from my youth.
I've also found that - on average - I get treated much better by older gentlemen. The last conversation I had with a man in his 20s on Fab involved words to the effect of "I want to fuck you but I don't want to meet for a social because you're trans and my dickhead wee mates will take the piss". (I might have paraphrased a little here)
After that encounter I just changed my age preferences and haven't had any issues since.
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Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. "
Not for me (Flik) as I've always preferred older men as for me, older men are more attractive. |
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By *im28Man 20 weeks ago
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I tend to meet older as I find anybody under the age of 25 is just on here for a wank and never actually meets, I don’t want to tarnish everybody with the same brush but everybody over 30 seems to meet when they say they’re going to. |
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Absolutely remarkable act of self-sabotage and contradiction.
Arguing that you are mature by crying like a baby and lashing out at the attractiveness and capabilities of those older than you.
Complain about stereo-types and then list several about how younger guys are better at x, y & z.
You've done nothing but cement the feelings of those who have these preferences... |
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By *ustBoWoman 20 weeks ago
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If you can't understand preferences and why people don't want to meet certain people it shows a lack of maturity.
Also no quite a lot of people are not less attractive or have worse bodies than younger people just because they are older.
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"I bloody love fab forums, 4 weeks in and picking faults in people for having preferences
I salute you sir for making me laugh out loud in the pub garden  "
I can toys being thrown out of his pram as we speak  |
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By *B69Woman 20 weeks ago
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger.
Including ourselves.
That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina."
I disagree with everything you’ve said there apart from youthful,
There are many men on here older with amazing bodies.
Attractive faces that’s not down to age.
Stamina if you really knew about all there is to know about sex stamina isn’t always required.
Youthful makes me think of a teenager so not my preference.
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"That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina."
If this is true then what are you doing on here ! women should be throwing themselves at you ... ??
You have been on this site for 4 weeks and all you do is post wind - ups.
Keep smiling the sun is shining ...
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By *oxy jWoman 20 weeks ago
somerset |
"It's not a hatred, it's called preference "
this its so easy to be negative when your getting nowhere ... its a lifestyle scene swinging is about extras with people your attracted to and compactable with its not what quite a few see it as a sex site for free for all sex
look at all the post from guys too old too youing too tall to short beard no beard ts of kink no kink bi no bi its guys trying to find excuse's for why they are getting nowhere ... the number one issue for most men is there far too many of you compared to couples and women add in no ones going to meet you unless they want too then thats alot of disappointed men..
there zero point in being negative or blaming others you can only be you just as others can only be themselves ... this scene is very much a rejection scene first n formost as selection is very personal |
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s.
Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40.
I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s?"
Just because you aren’t what people are looking for, doesn’t mean they hate you. |
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I'm almost 50 & the idea of someone so much younger than me just isn't appealing.
It's not hatred at all, it's just I prefer men close to my age or older.
Many swingers will have children your age or older even, so it might not sit well with them.
There will be women who love a younger man, so concentrate on finding them. |
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger.
Including ourselves.
That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina."
And this right here is why I don't want to meet a guy in his 20's.
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger.
Including ourselves.
That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina.
And this right here is why I don't want to meet a guy in his 20's.
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Too much stereotyping..then goes on to stereotype in the same sentence. |
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger.
Including ourselves.
That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina."
Fella it's comments like that with an attitude that puts older couples off |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s.
Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40.
I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s?"
attractiveness is more than just the physical side of a person.
I'm a different person to who I was when I was 25. Life does that. Dealing with your shit does that. Tbf I didn't know that at 25.
In my experience (self brag) people who have soft preferences may flex, and if they like you they will reach out. If not, qué sara sara. |
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger.
Including ourselves.
That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina."
Why do you think people in their 40s, 50s and older are seeking youthfulness in our sexual partners? I've been young and fucked plenty of young men. Now I'm middle aged I want men who are middle aged. |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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Attraction can go beyond the exterior. I find myself not interested in younger men because we wouldn’t have much in common, generally, as we are in different stages of life. This includes: experiences as a result of chronological age, lifestyles, sexual experiences, and more.
Certainly, there are outliers but it would be like digging through a haystack for a needle. Someone could also say what about a younger man who has has an abundance of sexual experiences. Fair enough, that could very well be true but I’m also cognisant of what sex with 20 years old was like, because I too was a 20 year old, at one point sleeping with 20 something year olds. Sexual maturity isn’t simply absorbed through osmosis by having multiple partners. Sexual maturity takes times. |
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Less hatred, more preference.
You answered it yourself on the people who day we don't want to fuck people the same age as our kids. That's the reason. Right there.
I prefer older people because I'm generally more attracted to and compatible with people my age or older. I don't have kids. But the idea of fucking someone young enough to be my kid is still pretty ick to me.
If someone isn't attracted to you, stomping your foot and throwing a little hissy fit over or isn't going to make you suddenly attractive to them |
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This must've been one of the funniest threads to read recently. Hatred?!  just because you don't fit someone's preferences doesn't mean you're hated. There's people that prefer older, others younger and others same age! Just because you don't fit with people's preferences doesn't meant they hate you even if clearly bruises your ego
Honestly, just do your best to try and find people that resonate with you and you'll see you'll have a better time.
Resentment, bitterness and "pick me" behaviour really isn't sexy |
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Also, dragging older guys isn't going to win you many friends here. There's enough fun to go round for everyone, don't worry about others and moan about how much better you are than them, this just reinforces the stereotype of young guys being immature. I used to do well here and on other sites when i was younger, so not everyone "hates" younger guys. Theyre just discerning about who they choose to connect with. Just put your best foot forward and try to imagine how others might perceive you, based on your profile and forum posts, and you might get somewhere |
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So this is how this comes across to me -
Guy in 20's claiming to me mature but spits dummy out because of "hatred" (preferences) shouts but "we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina" why won't you pick me? "I don't look nothing like your kids" "older people aren't attractive anyway you've aged, have mediocre bodies & no stamina!" "but I still wanna fuck you" he walks off & sits in corner sulking.
Mature dude really mature! |
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By *8on33Man 20 weeks ago
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger.
Including ourselves.
That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina."
I guess it's tough for most guys on here not just 24 year olds ,no point complaining about it just keep on messaging people who are interested in meeting you ,good luck . |
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"So this is how this comes across to me -
Guy in 20's claiming to me mature but spits dummy out because of "hatred" (preferences) shouts but "we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina" why won't you pick me? "I don't look nothing like your kids" "older people aren't attractive anyway you've aged, have mediocre bodies & no stamina!" "but I still wanna fuck you" he walks off & sits in corner sulking.
Mature dude really mature!"
It does come across as very that |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"So this is how this comes across to me -
Guy in 20's claiming to me mature but spits dummy out because of "hatred" (preferences) shouts but "we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina" why won't you pick me? "I don't look nothing like your kids" "older people aren't attractive anyway you've aged, have mediocre bodies & no stamina!" "but I still wanna fuck you" he walks off & sits in corner sulking.
Mature dude really mature!"
Nicely said |
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"It's not a hatred, it's called preference "
This! I'm here for my pleasure, not to teach someone how to pleasure a woman. I'd much rather meet an older gentleman as I know they had (hopefully!) enough time to gain experience and learn, and (again, hopefully!) not get all their knowledge from porn. Saying that, I have met exceptional younger men since I started swinging but overall prefer men around my age or older. |
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger.
Including ourselves.
That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina."
And tons of arrogance, by the sound of it!  |
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By *essTTWoman 20 weeks ago
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s.
Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40.
I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s?"
1 it's not hatred it's preference
2 the fact that you think people should chose you over a man in his 40s based solely on your physical appearance is very
3 this post isn't helping you beat the "25 year old aren't immature" allegations |
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Theres plenty of people on here that would meet someone younger. Like others have said, everyone has a preference. You also have to look at the age demographic of fab and guys like us in our 20’s are most likely the same age as a lot of people’s children which could understandably put them off!
Just take it easy and enjoy yourself OP |
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Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. "
Firstly... different people are attracted to different things, and as we get older we become less shallow and more interested in personality.
Secondly, getting older is the very definition of gaining maturity, and this thread is quite a good demonstration of the type of maturity and respect that is often lacking from younger folk.
Ultimately, if you have the personality, maturity and respect that is required by any individual then they will see that. Telling them that their preference is wrong is both immature and disrespectful.
Obviously age is just a number and not an accurate measure of personality traits, but it's the closest thing we have on here.
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I don't see and conclude the same IP. I see people having preferences, based on their tastes and experience.
They would not be fun you.
So, put your attention and energy elsewherez into those who don't hold those preferences.
Yes can try to justify why people like you should logically be included in their scope of interestsm that ship sailed. You are not.
Men like this should simply focus, based on attaining their objectives. Wonderfully clear photos that reveal the truth of their argument. Razor sharp focused profile text that truly convinces others of their certain qualities, to the extent that they'd be awash with throngs of the fanny fluttering epidemic underway. |
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Perfect opportunity for us oldies to give you some advice " grow up " I'm only joking fella
At least you can get older , us oldies can't get younger unless we were to lie about our age .....and that's dishonest and frankly useless |
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By *r_LickCouple 20 weeks ago
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger.
Including ourselves.
That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina."
Well there you go, at least you will have something to look forward too when you grow up like us less youthful less attractive faces and less stamina folk lol |
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By *orny PTMan 20 weeks ago
Peterborough |
Birds of a feather flock together.
OP, are your drinking buddies the same age as you, or are some of them in their 40s, 50s, 60s etc? That might help to answer your question
Now, that you've entered your twenties, how do you react when you see underage drinkers in your local pub or club? Do this make you think, that they just can't handle their booze etc and are a bit childish?.
So, apart from shagging stamina, what else can you bring to the party?
Charisma, great conversational skills (being shy sucks, I get that) some kink skills will always find a home if well honed.
This is very important when it comes to getting invites to private house parties, socials and maybe hotel meets. Discretion is key in this game. The thought of a younger guy bragging to his mates, is a real fear that others have.
Being able to accommodate/pay for hotel rooms and not living at home are all bonuses. swinging is not a cheap lifestyle
I also have preferences. I am not looking for men or TVs, so is that a sign of bigotry? Thought not.
So how young is too young for you? As you get older, that age will change too. It's a natural progression that just happens.
As said all of the forums the imbalance of males to females, is a very real thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger.
Including ourselves.
That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina."
Therein lies part of the problem, you are focusing on aesthetics. This alone shows your youth. Plenty of women want maturity and unfortunately not all young men have it. |
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when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina."
Utter bollocks. Plenty of men, myself included have good bodies better than a lot of guys in their 20s. |
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I see this a lot and it is of course your prerogative to choose who you want to meet. But do all guys younger than 30 look like your kid? Surely I don't?"
Hard to tell most of single guys have got no face photos anyway ?????? |
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By *orny PTMan 20 weeks ago
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when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina.
Utter bollocks. Plenty of men, myself included have good bodies better than a lot of guys in their 20s."
and a tux photo too! Women like men, who dress well. |
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By *ayd100Man 20 weeks ago
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s.
Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40.
I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s?"
take no notice of what people are saying |
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger.
Including ourselves.
That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina."
In that case your profile pic isn't showing you in best light, tbh I thought that at your age but isn't absolutely true and I'd wager you thought you were going to get meet after meet on here but that's not the case for most guys no matter what age, always someone fitter, better stamina, better looking, bigger cock and many guys don't get any meets, welcome to fab it chews arrogance up and spits it out. |
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By *abioMan 20 weeks ago
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s.
Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40.
I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s?"
Most people have some sort of boundaries… even you mr”18 to 60” 
See what I did there………
Anyway plane truth is that some people are not comfortable playing with some people young enough to be their son or daughter…… conversely some people are not comfortable enough to play with people old enough to be their mum or dad!
So if you want people to respect your boundaries may I suggest you respect theirs… cause moaning about it isn’t the greatest first impression you want to give out there! |
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"Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina.
I think I speak for myself when I say LOL"
A joke init like being in the play ground all over again |
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By *hipdaleCouple 20 weeks ago
Greenhithe |
Rather go for personality than fitness anyday, plus if you look on fabs Sible guys out number single women and couples , mature couples and males have more in common with eachother and as said before why would you want to meet someone tge same age as your kids ?? |
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s.
Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40.
I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s? OP you say this but your not exactly selling your best self on here either are you so maybe change your profile up a bit for some to be even interested in you "
OP I’m glad you took note your profile is much better now happy swinging  |
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