"Has anyone come across rude replies to a first opening message?
I’ve had a couple over the last few days. "
Not sure what defines rude in this context OP. And what the opening message was.
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Not replying isn’t rude in my eyes… as a couple and a woman on here I can imagine the amount of message received can be huge so a reply to every one isn’t doable.
So I have said… hey hope you’ve had a great day and have made the most of the glorious weather, attached 2 face pictures
I’ve had a
“not fucking interested”
“I’m not interested”
“ Put some effort in to your messages!”
I class all 3 as rude. |
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"Not replying isn’t rude in my eyes… as a couple and a woman on here I can imagine the amount of message received can be huge so a reply to every one isn’t doable.
So I have said… hey hope you’ve had a great day and have made the most of the glorious weather, attached 2 face pictures
I’ve had a
“not fucking interested”
“I’m not interested”
“ Put some effort in to your messages!”
I class all 3 as rude. "
out of curiosity, what would have made the “I’m not interested” polite?
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"Not replying isn’t rude in my eyes… as a couple and a woman on here I can imagine the amount of message received can be huge so a reply to every one isn’t doable.
So I have said… hey hope you’ve had a great day and have made the most of the glorious weather, attached 2 face pictures
I’ve had a
“not fucking interested”
“I’m not interested”
“ Put some effort in to your messages!”
I class all 3 as rude.
out of curiosity, what would have made the “I’m not interested” polite?
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Maybe a little more polite about it… after all we are all human.
I’m not interest but thanks maybe a bit more polite |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"I think you’re missing the point in the other 2 and focusing on this 1.
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Well you did state all three are rude. Two seem plausible. The other one is a bit more difficult to understand how that’s classed as rude and I response is tolerable. |
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"I think you’re missing the point in the other 2 and focusing on this 1.
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I mean using the word fucking is up to them really but don’t see anything wrong with the rest of the responses. They’re not rude |
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By *4bimMan 15 weeks ago
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anything you get that you consider rude just delete it and block the profile.
posting about it on the forum will not help and likely get ridiculed for it.
so delete/block and move on. not another thought. |
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"anything you get that you consider rude just delete it and block the profile.
posting about it on the forum will not help and likely get ridiculed for it.
so delete/block and move on. not another thought."
Haha I will do from now on… lesson learnt |
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"Has anyone come across rude replies to a first opening message?
I’ve had a couple over the last few days. "
Remember a % of profiles are blokes getting kicks out of pretending to be women or a couple I would suggest rude replies are probably from them.
If you were friendly and polite and didn’t message if you didn’t read the profile I can’t see why you’d get a rude reply.
Remember no reply is a no thank you it’s in the group advice bit
Block smile and move on |
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"Not replying isn’t rude in my eyes… as a couple and a woman on here I can imagine the amount of message received can be huge so a reply to every one isn’t doable.
So I have said… hey hope you’ve had a great day and have made the most of the glorious weather, attached 2 face pictures
I’ve had a
“not fucking interested”
“I’m not interested”
“ Put some effort in to your messages!”
I class all 3 as rude. "
We've had 19 first time messagers today talking about the weather, it gets a bit old.
"Not Interested" is to the point and quick. Block and move on if you're not happy.
1000's more on here. Block the ones who annoy you, make it easier for yourself x
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"Has anyone come across rude replies to a first opening message?
I’ve had a couple over the last few days. "
Sorry you’ve had that. But what was your opening message?
I’ve given a few rude replies before. I feel they were well deserved though. |
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Talking from personal experience we have only had a good response to a polite no thank you.
On occasions we don’t reply if we have too many messages and just delete the messages that have clearly not read the profile or just sent very lazy messages.
But on occasions we have politely said no and then for days and days after are send rubbish messages, so you can see why people get frustrated and snap a response.
We try to give people a chance before just blocking them.
If you get this response from lots of different people it could be you and not entirely them. |
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