I think there should be an option to be able to take a verification off a person as couple of times I have got to know the person more and would like to take my verification back
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you block them it hides the verification. However if you unblock them at any time the verification will show up again. "
thats very true .its one way of taking it off though.poppyxx
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"If you block them it hides the verification. However if you unblock them at any time the verification will show up again. "
thats my point I want to take it off them without blocking them would be easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A verification is like a reference. Did they meet you? where they on time? Did they look and present themselves in the way their photos show?
A verification means that they meet. Whether or not people they'll meet you or you'll have a good time with them is down to you.
This is the reason why I never pay any attention to what someone writes in a veri! I'll come to my own conclusions. Much safer.  |
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"If you block them it hides the verification. However if you unblock them at any time the verification will show up again.
thats my point I want to take it off them without blocking them would be easier "
Is the problem that you left a good veri or a bad one that you want to improve?
If the former and you now regret it - why would blocking be a problem?
If the latter - just right a new one! |
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just asking I didnt no blocking them removed my verification till it was posted so quiet happy to block them just found blocking ppl they have a second account so didnt see yhe point but I will now if it removes there veri |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"If you block them it hides the verification. However if you unblock them at any time the verification will show up again.
thats my point I want to take it off them without blocking them would be easier "
That's the only way that you personally can do it. |
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over a year ago
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I'm not being funny here, but, why would you want to 'take back a veri'? Did you perhaps say he has a big dick and subsequently found he hasn't? Or perhaps said he turned up on time, and found out later that your watch had stopped?
Surely the whole point of giving a veri is what happened 'on the day that it was for', and not to suddenly change our minds if we 'fall out with them'. They obviously did what your veri said they did. If we were allowed to take them back then i'm pretty sure half the site would suddenly find themselves tickless. |
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"I'm not being funny here, but, why would you want to 'take back a veri'? Did you perhaps say he has a big dick and subsequently found he hasn't? Or perhaps said he turned up on time, and found out later that your watch had stopped?
Surely the whole point of giving a veri is what happened 'on the day that it was for', and not to suddenly change our minds if we 'fall out with them'. They obviously did what your veri said thedid. If we were allowed to take them back theni'm pretty sure half the site would suddenlyfind themselves tickless."
because some people meet people on the strength of a good veri.we had people meet people we met on the strength of ours .sometimes if you won't do or meets as often as they like the relationship changes and people think you are still friendly with or recommending them o others which has not been the case with a few peope on here .some people change once they get their verification and show their true colours and intentions.hence you would yet want to put someone else through tht so lie to remove the veri.things aren't always clear cut.poppyxx   |
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"I'm not being funny here, but, why would you want to 'take back a veri'? Did you perhaps say he has a big dick and subsequently found he hasn't? Or perhaps said he turned up on time, and found out later that your watch had stopped?
Surely the whole point of giving a veri is what happened 'on the day that it was for', and not to suddenly change our minds if we 'fall out with them'. They obviously did what your veri said thedid. If we were allowed to take them back theni'm pretty sure half the site would suddenlyfind themselves tickless.because some people meet people on the strength of a good veri.we had people meet people we met on the strength of ours .sometimes if you won't do or meets as often as they like the relationship changes and people think you are still friendly with or recommending them o others which has not been the case with a few peope on here .some people change once they get their verification and show their true colours and intentions.hence you would yet want to put someone else through tht so lie to remove the veri.things aren't always clear cut.poppyxx "
Yeah, i see what your saying, and agree to a point. But, surely if his veri says he turned up, then that would mean he turned up. Thats what veris are for. Its nothing to do with whether him and his verifier has fallen out afterwards. |
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Yeah, i see what your saying, and agree to a point. But, surely if his veri says he turned up, then that would mean he turned up. Thats what veris are for. Its nothing to do with whether him and his verifier has fallen out afterwards."
This. Maybe more people should understand what verifications are actually for.
It is a "testimony" of sorts based on what happened on your arranged meet or cam session. So unless you are fibbing, it is/ was true at the time.
What the person becomes post verification doesn't change the validity of the verification given AT THAT TIME.
Simples. |
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"A verification is like a reference. Did they meet you? where they on time? Did they look and present themselves in the way their photos show?
A verification means that they meet. Whether or not people they'll meet you or you'll have a good time with them is down to you.
This is the reason why I never pay any attention to what someone writes in a veri! I'll come to my own conclusions. Much safer. "
^^^^This!!! |
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"I'm not being funny here, but, why would you want to 'take back a veri'? Did you perhaps say he has a big dick and subsequently found he hasn't? Or perhaps said he turned up on time, and found out later that your watch had stopped?
Surely the whole point of giving a veri is what happened 'on the day that it was for', and not to suddenly change our minds if we 'fall out with them'. They obviously did what your veri said thedid. If we were allowed to take them back theni'm pretty sure half the site would suddenlyfind themselves tickless.because some people meet people on the strength of a good veri.we had people meet people we met on the strength of ours .sometimes if you won't do or meets as often as they like the relationship changes and people think you are still friendly with or recommending them o others which has not been the case with a few peope on here .some people change once they get their verification and show their true colours and intentions.hence you would yet want to put someone else through tht so lie to remove the veri.things aren't always clear cut.poppyxx "
That's why I find it bizarre using what a total stranger has said in deciding whether or not I take another stranger into my bed!
I meet socially, see the whites of their eyes and make my decision. No one I've met for a playmate has wasted my time etc.
Something to using your own judgment! |
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I think people read too much into verifications. What do they really tell you? Who has been shagging who? Even that is a bit suspect in some cases. The only ones that really count IMO are the ones that show someone is a liar i.e. a "straight" guy that has veris from other guys or veris written by someone you know personally. |
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over a year ago
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Veris usually tell you who's shagged who..
At least you know the person is real if they have several different meets from the ppl that have verified them ! |
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over a year ago
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I look at veri's to see that the person I am planning on meeting actually turned up. I don't hold any weight to cam ones.
What happens after that is not my concern. Nor do I want to know.
I've had emails saying ohh you know so and so and I do too, wanna fuck?
My answer is always no.
If I come across a profile and its veri's from the same person over and over, I walk away, If it's socials then I dont mind a long list, however if they have loads of veri's in a short space of time from loads of different people
Not for me.
If they dont show any I ask them too, or why they wont.
What the veri actually says though, well I dont really read it, I just use it to see that they arranged something and turned up. I will make it clear when I leave one if it was just socially seeing them, or more, but without any real details |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not being funny here, but, why would you want to 'take back a veri'? Did you perhaps say he has a big dick and subsequently found he hasn't? Or perhaps said he turned up on time, and found out later that your watch had stopped?
Surely the whole point of giving a veri is what happened 'on the day that it was for', and not to suddenly change our minds if we 'fall out with them'. They obviously did what your veri said thedid. If we were allowed to take them back
theni'm pretty sure half the site would suddenlyfind themselves tickless.because some people meet people on the strength of a good veri.we had people meet people we met on the strength of ours .sometimes if you won't do or meets as often as they like the relationship
changes and people think you are still friendly with or recommending them o others which has not been the case with a few peope on here .some people change once they get their verification and show their true colours and
intentions.hence you would yet want to put
someone else through tht so lie to remove the veri.things aren't always clear cut.poppyxx
Yeah, i see what your saying, and agree to a point. But, surely if his veri says he turned up, then that would mean he turned up. Thats what
veris are for. Its nothing to do with whether him and his verifier has fallen out afterwards."
If you think that's all they are you are sadly mistaken.its not just showing up .people look at them as a character reference and if you know someone is a bit nuts. Your not going to want to put other people through that .so its not the falling out forget that .we let those people keep them its more the ones that clearly aren't sane and rude and can be intimidating and head work.so character is very thing .remember this is a fun site not pof. |
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Some members try hard to make meets work. They turn up on time, are clean and presentable and try to ensure the meeting goes well. If the person or people you meet with give you a good veri it is well deserved.
Subsequent failures should not affect the success of the original. But people, please be honest with veris.  |
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"Some members try hard to make meets work. They turn up on time, are clean and presentable and try to ensure the meeting goes well. If the person or people you meet with give you a good veri it is well deserved.
Subsequent failures should not affect the success of the original. But people, please be honest with veris. "
i disagree what if the reason you verified turns into an absolute nightmare and with threatening behaviour or stalky behaviour,i would block that person as i would not want another person going through that, we have had on one occasion telephones calls at three in the morning twenty un replied texts,ten unrelied messages and five unanswered phone clls on one day.yes I think I got them wrong.would I like a veri to stand no.and yes we would report them too,but they just join again even with the same user name and you have to block them again.there are always reasons to remove veries.and you don't have to be the bitch to do it. |
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