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Should people tell you they’re high before a meet?
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By *im28 OP Man 27 weeks ago
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Is it just me but maybe a lot of people I’ve gone to meet on here have been high when I’ve got there. I have no issue if that’s what they want to do, each to their own. I personally have no interest in it though and have had to walk away from meets before they’ve even started. Do I going forward have to ask if they’ve smoked a spliff or done a few lines before I jump in the car to head over. |
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Hmm maybe try make judgment before meeting. If you feel they could be a user of some sorts then question it but if your un sure anyway can always ask. I suppose its something thats hard to know until your their. Personally id just make a u turn leave and block. |
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"Maybe add to your profile that you are not interested in meeting people who are under the influence."
Anyone partying in sexual activity under the influence can technically be classed as being sexual assaulted! |
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By *im28 OP Man 27 weeks ago
loughborough |
Half of my problem is I’ve snuck away from work for a bit of lunchtime action, I can’t go back into the office for meetings with clients smelling like a spliff.
But I’ve gone before and they’ve had so much they can barely talk let alone get hard, immediate no and I’ve walked out the door. The messaging was impeccable though so I had no idea until I got there. |
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By *im28 OP Man 27 weeks ago
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"Maybe add to your profile that you are not interested in meeting people who are under the influence. this is a good thing to do"
Do you think? It’s not something I’d ever feel the need to put on my profile, surely fabbers that are “chem friendly” should write it on theirs! |
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"Half of my problem is I’ve snuck away from work for a bit of lunchtime action, I can’t go back into the office for meetings with clients smelling like a spliff.
But I’ve gone before and they’ve had so much they can barely talk let alone get hard, immediate no and I’ve walked out the door. The messaging was impeccable though so I had no idea until I got there. "
deffo not ideal mate. I would state you dont meet smokers, smokers or other users. Put foot down and make it clear to them when messaging. Its still difficult ill admit as they may lie. I would try do all i could though before arranging to make it clear. Sorry i cannot give anymore advice. |
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I won’t meet anyone under the influence of drugs. Maybe if they have had a drink or two but not smashed out their head. As others have said, that could potentially be sexual assault if any action took place. What if they regretted it after when they were sober?.. |
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When I left vetting up to the ex we ended up meeting a lot of people who were clearly less than sober.
It makes me uncomfortable. It is not something I've continued to tolerate since embracing single life  |
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