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Do guys share this wives with mates?
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By *asha86Couple 21 weeks ago
walsall |
"Mine tried to take her away from me "
"Tried"?
I can say in our relationship we both trust each other and know how this works just because she fucks someone doesn't mean she's leaving you for them. |
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By *ayd100Man 21 weeks ago
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"Mine tried to take her away from me
"Tried"?
I can say in our relationship we both trust each other and know how this works just because she fucks someone doesn't mean she's leaving you for them."
That's what he wanted her to do |
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We have an absolute Rule
Don’t ever fuck your friends
If you make friends on here / in the scene etc
Obviously that’s different
But our “ day to day ,vanilla life friends “
Even if some of them know what we do -( and some of our vanilla friends do know , and a couple of those might not decline if invited ) - but all veto’d as ever being prospects
It’s a
Don’t do business with family
Don’t mix business with pleasure
Don’t shit where you eat
kind of vibe for us
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By *uckcpl4biCouple 15 weeks ago
somewhere around there |
1st 2 guys were his mates n they were regulars until 1 of them started telling everyone which ain't cool, was amazing till then as loved them teasing him as I went upstairs with them or sucked them as he had 2 watch xx |
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My ex-wife and I swapped with our best buddies when we were in early 20’s.
It worked very well for many years, no problems at all. Weekly meets as a 4some and all permutations of 3somes. Wives and husbands would even swap houses for the weekend. Short holidays with the opposite partner as well.
A very unique situation and likely never happen again.
But looking back it probably wasn’t our best move.
If it works, it’s brilliant.
But of course, you never know until it starts to go wrong. And luckily, our situation improved as time went on. |
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By *enatton2Couple 13 weeks ago
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One of my mates has played with Tani. We worked together at the time but I’ve since moved on to another job. We’re still mates but just don’t see each other much. It didn’t cause any difficulties at all because we were all understanding of the boundaries.
Two other friends turned down the opportunity and although it didn’t cause any problems we’re no longer in touch but that’s just life.
We’re not planning on involving anymore friends  |
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I was out with a good long standing mate and his wife, we got d*unk ,and she instigated a 3som, which went fine till he freaked, and it cost me a friend. I think its better with meets of a site like this , where everybody is happy its just wonderful sex |
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"Does this really happen, none of my mates know me and the wife meet other guys for mfm....
Not sure what happens after he has fucked the wife, isn't that weird and can you still stay mates?"
I shared my Mrs with a work mate he fucked her every night on holiday after his Mrs went to bed |
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My missis has had sex with afew of my friends and not always one at a time lol. I love showing her off and she gets off on being shared like that. Usually happens after they at mine to watch a big boxing match and afew beers later we end the night with a bang (literally) lol |
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"A few mates and guys i know locally have fucked my wife but not in the knowledge that I know. We prefer that she is viewed as a straying wife rather than involve them in the fab world "
Doesn’t it annoy you that they are going behind your back (the “mates” I mean, not your wife) I’d find that really insulting. |
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"A few mates and guys i know locally have fucked my wife but not in the knowledge that I know. We prefer that she is viewed as a straying wife rather than involve them in the fab world
Doesn’t it annoy you that they are going behind your back (the “mates” I mean, not your wife) I’d find that really insulting. "
It’s a huge turn on. |
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"A few mates and guys i know locally have fucked my wife but not in the knowledge that I know. We prefer that she is viewed as a straying wife rather than involve them in the fab world
Doesn’t it annoy you that they are going behind your back (the “mates” I mean, not your wife) I’d find that really insulting.
It’s a huge turn on."
but would I nit force yiu to confront the fact that some if these men ain't yiru friend if yiru wife goes to them with primus of fucking yiu over it means most yiur mates are OK with fuckin you over yeah I get it may be turn on just be carful as it if it was me I'd be smiling in their face but know how they really treat uiu if given a chance ( but its horses for courses) |
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"A few mates and guys i know locally have fucked my wife but not in the knowledge that I know. We prefer that she is viewed as a straying wife rather than involve them in the fab world
Doesn’t it annoy you that they are going behind your back (the “mates” I mean, not your wife) I’d find that really insulting. "
No it does not annoy me, i find it quite complimentary that they want to fuck her. Also understand that most guys would find it very difficult to resist a women who is offering it to them rather than them making a play for her. I find it very erotic when someone I know has fucked her rather than a complete stranger but realise not all would feel that way. |
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"A few mates and guys i know locally have fucked my wife but not in the knowledge that I know. We prefer that she is viewed as a straying wife rather than involve them in the fab world "
And has no one ever told you that your wife's fucking around? |
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Completely away from fab a good friend of mine wanted me to fuck his wife, (neither of them know about my fab life) she'd fancied me for years and had told him as much, he used to ask her who she was thinking about when they had sex and she'd say me. Anyway one day out the blue we were chatting and he just asked me if I wanted to have sex with her, she's an attractive woman and he's always told me she's filthy in bed so naturally i did! I was abit taken back at first but he said don't worry I'll set up a chat group for us three and we can arrange it. Sure enough we got to chatting about it on the group chat but she started messaging me directly, it became evident she wanted to fuck me but didn't want him involved!! It put me in a difficult situation between them and I told him what she wanted which obviously he wasn't into. Ended up causing drama and a fall out. Long story short no I wouldn't fuck around with a friends partner it's not worth the potential drama, once bitten twice shy.  |
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Yes this is how I was introduced to swinging. A good friend asked me to fuck his wife whilst we were in the pub. I thought he was joking and it was the drink talking. Anyway it ended up with great threesome sex which lasted about 3 years until they moved. They wanted someone they could trust.This was over 25 years ago. Happy days. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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I was friends with the guy my wife started an affair with. When I found out I told her to keep going and if he ever asked, she should tell him I know. Made for some really kinky chats with him down the pub. Shame that ended |
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One of our best cuckolding periods was when my wife and a best friend started fucking and he was her lover for a while, usually with me watching and helping, but they would enjoy their own time together too. We went back to being just God mates after he stated a new relationship and we're all good with some great memories. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Mr here, would be interested to speak with cucks who have shared their partner with friends.
We've often felt that it maybe too close, but there is my best mate who we've both fatasised about Mrs playing with. |
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I did this many moons back and it was a bad mistake. After it happened he keep touching her like he owned her and that was not the plan she said and I said to him about it and it caused a big problem.
Lost contact with him and then split my partner 2 years later. |
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"Does this really happen, none of my mates know me and the wife meet other guys for mfm....
Not sure what happens after he has fucked the wife, isn't that weird and can you still stay mates?"
Not at all. Real world friends are very different from friends here & as yet we haven’t had any crossover. Real world friends who are into swinging are kept away from playing. If swing friends become real friends then that is a different matter. |
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Go for a few drinks back to their place a bit of porn on the telly and he gets snogging his lovely wife and beckons us across.
It would be churlish to decline such an invitation and soon his lovely wife is the moaning recipient of many mouths, hands and very soon all of our cocks. |
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"A few mates and guys i know locally have fucked my wife but not in the knowledge that I know. We prefer that she is viewed as a straying wife rather than involve them in the fab world
And has no one ever told you that your wife's fucking around? "
I am sure it is well known that she fucks around, but no one has actually told me, as they say I would be the last to know lol |
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Mine did when we first got together. Think he liked showing me off as i was younger, had a few 3somes with him and his mates, but as soon as we got serious it was a no go and he was jelous wen the mates that had fucked me came round, in the end he stopped speaking to them |
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I think it is all part of the fun, especially if you consider why we do swinging, yes people have different reasons but yours was for fun and pleasure with others, however I think if it was a close mate and regular, there could be problems |
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"Does this really happen, none of my mates know me and the wife meet other guys for mfm....
Not sure what happens after he has fucked the wife, isn't that weird and can you still stay mates?"
That's exactly how I started swinging all those years ago. My wife and best friend fancied each other; we talked about it and I was happy for them to go ahead. I was in the house but not joining in when he visited and loved fucking my wife after he had left. We stayed friends but he moved away, then we experimented with others and it all took off...... |
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