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Why do people block you.
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Because they don't think you're compatible, and blocking means neither of you waste time forgetting and messaging again or having searches full of people that already know they're not the right fit.
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We generally do it when it’s clear people haven’t bothered reading the profile or when people are simply abrupt, rude, crass or arrogant.
Why do men think a message saying ‘I’d smash your lass’ is somehow worthy of a reply.
Most men on here don’t really understand what the site is about. |
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People block for all sorts go reasons op, but there generally is always a reason.
They decided you weren't compatible, or maybe realised the chat wasn't going anywhere.
Sometimes real life happens.
In regards to your profile, I'd remove your first pic as its off putting to have a dick there straight away.
Maybe take some other pics and add them. |
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Don’t take it personally fella, I block some people as if we’re not right, it saves time for both parties in the future! With your messages, make sure you read their profile, see their interests and see if yours align with theirs |
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They simply change their mind or they aren't getting an interesting vibe you'll get along from the messages, it literally can be anything and sometimes its easier mid convo to block as some* men don't easily except women changing their mind and often come back with abuse, insults or sarcasm or even worse begging. |
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"We generally do it when it’s clear people haven’t bothered reading the profile or when people are simply abrupt, rude, crass or arrogant.
Why do men think a message saying ‘I’d smash your lass’ is somehow worthy of a reply.
Most men on here don’t really understand what the site is about. "
Excatly the same as us |
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Do t worry to much about it, just be yourself... we block every male within a 10mile radius of us which is nothing personal to them it's just something we do.
People click for different reasons and we find ourselves blocked from people but we tend not to give it a 2nd thought as that's the choice and they must have there reason which is cool with us   |
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By *andKCouple 28 weeks ago
Wrea Green |
Change up your pictures, maybe something like you fully dressed but with your head covered or cropped out.
The comment about being clean & fresh and not smelly is a turn off. Hygiene is a must and doesn't need calling out.
You're one single guy amongst hundreds of others. Patience and perseverance are your friends. V
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We only used to block if people were rude/sending particularly explicit and uninvited messages etc.
However, people need to make better use of the notes function and keep track of those who have told you they aren't interested.
Getting a message and scrolling down and seeing you declined them 3 weeks ago, and again 3 months ago, and again 4 months ago etc gets pretty old.
Keep hounding us and you get blocked |
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By *oewes69 OP Man 28 weeks ago
wakefield |
Thank you all for the reply. I can deffo see what you mean about the profile pic lmao not im not on the loo aha. I dont take it to heart at all. Seems the best answer here is to do with filtering out profiles and not wasting time now or in the future. I will improve my profile by the suggestions you all have made. Thanks for the advise all. |
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By *oewes69 OP Man 28 weeks ago
wakefield |
"We generally do it when it’s clear people haven’t bothered reading the profile or when people are simply abrupt, rude, crass or arrogant.
Why do men think a message saying ‘I’d smash your lass’ is somehow worthy of a reply.
Most men on here don’t really understand what the site is about. "
Yeh im not one of them. Woildnt dream of putting anything like that. Im very respectful especially with couples. |
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By *ascaIMan 28 weeks ago
Cheshire Liverpool Manchester |
"You are never going to know why you were blocked OP, so no point worrying about it."
Pretty much this. They don’t need to justify why they’ve done it, it’s there to be used. Don’t worry, move on, have fun. |
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