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Why do single guys pretend to be in a couple
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"To get around the single men filters...
Bingo 
Same with single female profiles that are anything but that in reality
Yeah most single girls profile are fake lol
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I find most just turn out to be couples / fwb using the single fem account to get women that won’t meet single men.
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By *eedee27 OP Man 14 weeks ago
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"To get around the single men filters...
Bingo
Same with single female profiles that are anything but that in reality
Yeah most single girls profile are fake lol
I find most just turn out to be couples / fwb using the single fem account to get women that won’t meet single men.
Makes me chuckle "
Me to lol
I was in a couple with my ex on here but when we split up just told the regular people we met so they had a choice to keep in touch or not then changed my profile to single |
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It confuses the life out of me why guys do this from a personal experience spent weeks talking with a woman built upto a meet booked hotel traveled there one hour before meet up got a message saying basically I’m really a man but would love to still meet you
You can probably guess my response |
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By *eedee27 OP Man 14 weeks ago
cambridge |
"It confuses the life out of me why guys do this from a personal experience spent weeks talking with a woman built upto a meet booked hotel traveled there one hour before meet up got a message saying basically I’m really a man but would love to still meet you
Yeah a phone or video chat befor i meet now
You can probably guess my response "
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Very interesting that, as a couple where I the male do most of the "fabmin" to hear there's always people whinging about "fake couples".
Most of the time, it is single men doing the whinging. From our experience it's because they would just want to meet the female half of the couple and get annoyed when they either rarely get to chat or get told no they can't meet. I've very rarely seen another couple profile moan about "fake couple profile".
End of the day, most people especially in couples run their accounts on here as they see fit. Yes, I would agree mostly the male half of a couple has the majority of the access/chatting and the female may get involved if there is serious potential a meet may occur. That's how we and most couples we know on here do it. It filters out the desperate or the unsuitable. Some of us won't just fuck anyone just for the sake of it. |
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"Very interesting that, as a couple where I the male do most of the "fabmin" to hear there's always people whinging about "fake couples".
Most of the time, it is single men doing the whinging. From our experience it's because they would just want to meet the female half of the couple and get annoyed when they either rarely get to chat or get told no they can't meet. I've very rarely seen another couple profile moan about "fake couple profile".
End of the day, most people especially in couples run their accounts on here as they see fit. Yes, I would agree mostly the male half of a couple has the majority of the access/chatting and the female may get involved if there is serious potential a meet may occur. That's how we and most couples we know on here do it. It filters out the desperate or the unsuitable. Some of us won't just fuck anyone just for the sake of it."
As a genuine couple how would you know what's it's actually like.
Trust me it isn't just single men whinging.
I'm a genuine single female who has been on the scene and fab since 2016. I've witnessed alot on here and in clubs. It isn't about whether the male part of a genuine couple does most of the fab admin it's about fake profiles.
I am hounded by fake couple profiles on a daily basis were it's just a man.
It's so frustrating, disgraceful and makes genuine couples lives on fab harder.
Sadly it puts alot of us single women off. Because of my own experiences I don't want to engage with couples on here.
Which is deverstating for me as a bisexual women who absolutely adores exploring desires and being shared by a genuine loving couple.
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"To get around the single men filters...
Bingo
Same with single female profiles that are anything but that in reality
Yeah most single girls profile are fake lol
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No were not... We are just hiding away procrastinating over all the messages we get inundated with on a daily basis.
Trying to filter the fake profiles, wierdos, demanding a meet now or the down right rude.
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By *eedee27 OP Man 14 weeks ago
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"Very interesting that, as a couple where I the male do most of the "fabmin" to hear there's always people whinging about "fake couples".
Most of the time, it is single men doing the whinging. From our experience it's because they would just want to meet the female half of the couple and get annoyed when they either rarely get to chat or get told no they can't meet. I've very rarely seen another couple profile moan about "fake couple profile".
End of the day, most people especially in couples run their accounts on here as they see fit. Yes, I would agree mostly the male half of a couple has the majority of the access/chatting and the female may get involved if there is serious potential a meet may occur. That's how we and most couples we know on here do it. It filters out the desperate or the unsuitable. Some of us won't just fuck anyone just for the sake of it."
Im more than happy to just chat to the male half if thats how there profile works but if your a couple i expect to meet them as a couple not just the guy |
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"Been chatting to a couple but can clearly tell its just a guy, why do they do this??
Esp as i would meet a single guy "
They get a sexual kick out of exchanging sexy messages with other gullible Men. They have a wank, log off, then do it all again later. Some profiles delete their account and come back with the same photo's they were using 5 years ago. |
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I just assumed everything online is ai and bots nowadays. Soon we will have to return to the old ways.
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/oct/28/its-quite-soul-destroying-how-we-fell-out-of-love-with-dating-apps |
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By *oxy jWoman 14 weeks ago
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because its what they want what they desire and know they cant have for what ever reason ...
the fake profile have always been here its the internet and that for many means pure fantasy and that means wanking and nothing else..
at the end of the day swinging relationships are rare in the real world and thats because so few ladies want that lifestyle plus we live in a world where many ladys are happy single that leaves a lot of pent up men with bery very little option ....
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"Very interesting that, as a couple where I the male do most of the "fabmin" to hear there's always people whinging about "fake couples".
Most of the time, it is single men doing the whinging. From our experience it's because they would just want to meet the female half of the couple and get annoyed when they either rarely get to chat or get told no they can't meet. I've very rarely seen another couple profile moan about "fake couple profile".
End of the day, most people especially in couples run their accounts on here as they see fit. Yes, I would agree mostly the male half of a couple has the majority of the access/chatting and the female may get involved if there is serious potential a meet may occur. That's how we and most couples we know on here do it. It filters out the desperate or the unsuitable. Some of us won't just fuck anyone just for the sake of it."
I would disagree. I've been here 8 years and at least 90 percent of the couples I have spoken to have been female led and it's only the woman I have chatted to.
Most of the remaining 10 percent have just sent me lists of demands or instructions and then got pissy when I said no.
I've spoken to "couples" where after a period of time the woman has admitted they haven't been meeting as a couple in a few years or that her partner wasn't even aware that the profile existed.
I've also seen a profile where the couple had a very public falling out and she then advertised for a replacement.
She then amended the profile slightly to reflect her new partner and continued on as before while still displaying 50-60 verifications she had accumulated with the other guy.
Anyone looking at the profile would naturally assume those verifications applied to the current couple.
In recent months I've had messages from couples who aren't actually couples.
They are single women profiles that have been changed to couples profiles by admin but every verification they have is as a single woman.
It also allows them to bypass my age filters as these women were all years below my lower age preference but whatever glitch there is when admin change a profile in that way, age filters don't apply.
To balance these points, I am also one half of a couples profile here and we both share the fabmin and have never been called fake . |
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When we 1st joined (on my couples profile) I wrote the profile and was accused of being a single bloke because apparently the profile was clearly written by one 
I deal with 90% of the messages and you know what, turn a guy down and they'll call you fake, or a bloke, we told a couple we weren't interested in we didn't want to video call because well we weren't interested and again we we're fake or clearly a bloke
Our verifications speak for themselves.
I've yet to speak to a couple where it's only the guy, I'm sure it happens but far less than the forums make out, in our case it's been because people don't take well to a no thank you or you won't send pics & indulge their ego boost sex talk.
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By *oxy jWoman 14 weeks ago
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"I just assumed everything online is ai and bots nowadays. Soon we will have to return to the old ways.
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/oct/28/its-quite-soul-destroying-how-we-fell-out-of-love-with-dating-apps"
its already happening alot of swingers have ditched the internet and back to private parties where you must be in the know to know this is getting bigger and bigger with couples for sure its been gathering speed since covid ... this is why couples are diapering or not meeting via online ....
the swinging scene has always remained fairly big in the private world it never really went away as most did not want the masses of men pestering |
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