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I’m reading more and more on ladies profiles they are not keen on having a good pounding.
I’m keen to find out if this is a age thing, do women generally prefer to get a good pounding as a younger woman and prefer a more sensitive and sensual experience as a more mature woman or is it not as simple as that and the answer is always more complex than a yes no answer. |
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"I’m reading more and more on ladies profiles they are not keen on having a good pounding.
I’m keen to find out if this is a age thing, do women generally prefer to get a good pounding as a younger woman and prefer a more sensitive and sensual experience as a more mature woman or is it not as simple as that and the answer is always more complex than a yes no answer. "
I think that often women prefer the idea of sensual, erotic, and intimate sex over that of the aggressive, mechanical, and combative image that "pounding" suggests.
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"I think that often women prefer the idea of sensual, erotic, and intimate sex over that of the aggressive, mechanical, and combative image that "pounding" suggests.
Cal"
But not all.
Granted, pounding isn't an appealing term. But primal and combative usually sounds much more appealing to me than soft and sensual. |
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"I’m reading more and more on ladies profiles they are not keen on having a good pounding.
I’m keen to find out if this is a age thing, do women generally prefer to get a good pounding as a younger woman and prefer a more sensitive and sensual experience as a more mature woman or is it not as simple as that and the answer is always more complex than a yes no answer.
I think that often women prefer the idea of sensual, erotic, and intimate sex over that of the aggressive, mechanical, and combative image that "pounding" suggests.
Cal"
Thanks Cal.
It would be nice to near from some women about this
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"I’m reading more and more on ladies profiles they are not keen on having a good pounding.
I’m keen to find out if this is a age thing, do women generally prefer to get a good pounding as a younger woman and prefer a more sensitive and sensual experience as a more mature woman or is it not as simple as that and the answer is always more complex than a yes no answer. "
Yes, no, who knows it's all to complex
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"It's probably more complex bud.
I’m guessing body weight and how horny you are has a big impact on how you feel about this position 
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Body weight?"
Imagine you are a petit woman and have a heavy weight on top of you it’s going to be a lot of pressure on your body to get pounded |
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I dont really deal in absolutes ...sex by numbers or sex acts/moments out of context.....
rather than the reductive term *pounding* - I prefer to think of a development.. and an arc... a moment of climax, mounting frenzy and intensity..with the right person that can be magnificent
but I guess its easier and more efficient(for some)to use a buzzword or label
and its easier for me to say no thanks to buzzwords, labels, lists and the like |
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"It's probably more complex bud.
I’m guessing body weight and how horny you are has a big impact on how you feel about this position
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Body weight?
Imagine you are a petit woman and have a heavy weight on top of you it’s going to be a lot of pressure on your body to get pounded "
Guess petite girls should get pounded by short guys then. |
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I think there's a big difference between senseless, robotic, tireless pounding and "pounding" as in passionate animalistic and connected sex when you do everything you can to heighten the pleasure of both of you.
A lot of people seem to mistake one for the other in my opinion... |
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"I think there's a big difference between senseless, robotic, tireless pounding and "pounding" as in passionate animalistic and connected sex when you do everything you can to heighten the pleasure of both of you.
A lot of people seem to mistake one for the other in my opinion..."
Yea I do think guys do look at pounding like it a positive thing almost as if it was a position a bit like you wound consider a 69.
I seek out mfm and often get asked not by f they don’t want to get pounded by 2 guys which I fully understand why they don’t want it  |
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"I’m reading more and more on ladies profiles they are not keen on having a good pounding.
I’m keen to find out if this is a age thing, do women generally prefer to get a good pounding as a younger woman and prefer a more sensitive and sensual experience as a more mature woman or is it not as simple as that and the answer is always more complex than a yes no answer. "
Everyone is different and I agree, it's definitely more complex. I would say hard sex describing what you're talking about, a pounding sounds very detached... it's as if you're going to be used as a human sex toy. I hope that makes sense |
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"I’m reading more and more on ladies profiles they are not keen on having a good pounding.
I’m keen to find out if this is a age thing, do women generally prefer to get a good pounding as a younger woman and prefer a more sensitive and sensual experience as a more mature woman or is it not as simple as that and the answer is always more complex than a yes no answer.
Everyone is different and I agree, it's definitely more complex. I would say hard sex describing what you're talking about, a pounding sounds very detached... it's as if you're going to be used as a human sex toy. I hope that makes sense "
Yes it does.
Pounding sounds functional without intermacey, hard sounds passionate and intense but are they really the the same thing but different names |
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By *ornycougaWoman 23 weeks ago
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"It's probably more complex bud.
I’m guessing body weight and how horny you are has a big impact on how you feel about this position
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Body weight?
Imagine you are a petit woman and have a heavy weight on top of you it’s going to be a lot of pressure on your body to get pounded "
Speaking as a very petite woman - this is rubbish. I like the primal big guy throwing me around and pounding me. But he also needs to mix it up with sensuality. As others have said... Each woman will be different and to try to boil it down to age or size is banal, overly simplistic and shows no understanding of women |
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"It's probably more complex bud.
I’m guessing body weight and how horny you are has a big impact on how you feel about this position
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Body weight?
Imagine you are a petit woman and have a heavy weight on top of you it’s going to be a lot of pressure on your body to get pounded
Speaking as a very petite woman - this is rubbish. I like the primal big guy throwing me around and pounding me. But he also needs to mix it up with sensuality. As others have said... Each woman will be different and to try to boil it down to age or size is banal, overly simplistic and shows no understanding of women"
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic.
Very interesting from a small woman’s perspective  |
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"I think the concept of being pounded is like many, many other sexual tastes; the fantasy is not the reality. "
I disagree with that.
A pounding is a reality and some people seek a pounding out and not have it as a fantasy.
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"I think the concept of being pounded is like many, many other sexual tastes; the fantasy is not the reality.
I disagree with that.
A pounding is a reality and some people seek a pounding out and not have it as a fantasy.
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Sure, I mean to say that the fantasy to some may not address some of the logistics. There’s been a few examples mentioned already above. |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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OP Definitely not a weight thing
And not an age thing other than the older I get the more confidence I have in asking fir what I want than just pleasing my sexual partner..... plus the older my sexual partners are the better their sexual repertoire...that is beyond just a pure pounding |
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"OP Definitely not a weight thing
And not an age thing other than the older I get the more confidence I have in asking fir what I want than just pleasing my sexual partner..... plus the older my sexual partners are the better their sexual repertoire...that is beyond just a pure pounding "
We said but I’d say that age isn’t a factor in sexual repertoire the youngsters are more than capable of doing more than a pounding  |
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"Just a pounding - no thank you.
A mix of sensual and primal then yes please.
So many blokes just wanna pound away without giving the women's pleasure much thought."
Are there really a lot of men who just pound and have very little else to offer? |
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As a woman, no I don't like a "good ponding". Being fucked harder towards the end when he's close to cumming, sure, go for it, but I don't want to spend my entire time getting humped like a sack of potatoes.
Also there's a lot of men who talk the talk and can't walk the walk. Nothing worse than someone giving it the big "I am" then can't deliver.
C xoxo |
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"As a woman, no I don't like a "good ponding". Being fucked harder towards the end when he's close to cumming, sure, go for it, but I don't want to spend my entire time getting humped like a sack of potatoes.
Also there's a lot of men who talk the talk and can't walk the walk. Nothing worse than someone giving it the big "I am" then can't deliver.
C xoxo"
Thanks for your reply makes sense to me
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"Just a pounding - no thank you.
A mix of sensual and primal then yes please.
So many blokes just wanna pound away without giving the women's pleasure much thought.
Are there really a lot of men who just pound and have very little else to offer?"
Many, many, many, many men!
Hence becoming a vagiterian. |
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"Just a pounding - no thank you.
A mix of sensual and primal then yes please.
So many blokes just wanna pound away without giving the women's pleasure much thought.
Are there really a lot of men who just pound and have very little else to offer?
Many, many, many, many men!
Hence becoming a vagiterian."
And are we talking all ages and sizes? |
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"Just a pounding - no thank you.
A mix of sensual and primal then yes please.
So many blokes just wanna pound away without giving the women's pleasure much thought.
Are there really a lot of men who just pound and have very little else to offer?
Many, many, many, many men!
Hence becoming a vagiterian.
And are we talking all ages and sizes?"
Ages yes, and generally in my experience the larger the cock the lesser effort.
Only my experience others maybe different. |
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"Just a pounding - no thank you.
A mix of sensual and primal then yes please.
So many blokes just wanna pound away without giving the women's pleasure much thought.
Are there really a lot of men who just pound and have very little else to offer?
Many, many, many, many men!
Hence becoming a vagiterian.
And are we talking all ages and sizes?
Ages yes, and generally in my experience the larger the cock the lesser effort.
Only my experience others maybe different."
Tbh I’ve been told that hung men tend to rely on there size and have little else in their locker so to speak.
I suppose a big dick does lend its self to the pounding positions
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"Just a pounding - no thank you.
A mix of sensual and primal then yes please.
So many blokes just wanna pound away without giving the women's pleasure much thought.
Are there really a lot of men who just pound and have very little else to offer?
Many, many, many, many men!
Hence becoming a vagiterian.
And are we talking all ages and sizes?
Ages yes, and generally in my experience the larger the cock the lesser effort.
Only my experience others maybe different.
Tbh I’ve been told that hung men tend to rely on there size and have little else in their locker so to speak.
I suppose a big dick does lend its self to the pounding positions
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Personally I like my cervix intact, average is good for a pounding
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"Just a pounding - no thank you.
A mix of sensual and primal then yes please.
So many blokes just wanna pound away without giving the women's pleasure much thought.
Are there really a lot of men who just pound and have very little else to offer?
Many, many, many, many men!
Hence becoming a vagiterian.
And are we talking all ages and sizes?
Ages yes, and generally in my experience the larger the cock the lesser effort.
Only my experience others maybe different.
Tbh I’ve been told that hung men tend to rely on there size and have little else in their locker so to speak.
I suppose a big dick does lend its self to the pounding positions
Personally I like my cervix intact, average is good for a pounding
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By *oxy jWoman 23 weeks ago
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getting pounde by a great lover is fantastic sadly not many are great lovers more porn wham bam shoot n fuck off and thats why many women say they dont want to be pounded .... quite simple really 
i love hard sex but only with a couple regulars who know me inside out and i know them inside out ..
a guy who knows what hes doing would not even bring the topic up he would just know by how the meet goes read the body not watch the porn |
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"getting pounde by a great lover is fantastic sadly not many are great lovers more porn wham bam shoot n fuck off and thats why many women say they dont want to be pounded .... quite simple really
i love hard sex but only with a couple regulars who know me inside out and i know them inside out ..
a guy who knows what hes doing would not even bring the topic up he would just know by how the meet goes read the body not watch the porn"
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Tbh I’ve been told that hung men tend to rely on there size and have little else in their locker so to speak.
I suppose a big dick does lend its self to the pounding positions
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To be honest give had some excellent lovers who are hung ... and some thoroughly mediocre "regular" sized pounders .... so it's more the person behind the dick that makes the difference than the size. |
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"I’m reading more and more on ladies profiles they are not keen on having a good pounding.
I’m keen to find out if this is a age thing, do women generally prefer to get a good pounding as a younger woman and prefer a more sensitive and sensual experience as a more mature woman or is it not as simple as that and the answer is always more complex than a yes no answer. "
Pounding a little I guess but prefer a slow and prolonged |
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"I’m reading more and more on ladies profiles they are not keen on having a good pounding.
I’m keen to find out if this is a age thing, do women generally prefer to get a good pounding as a younger woman and prefer a more sensitive and sensual experience as a more mature woman or is it not as simple as that and the answer is always more complex than a yes no answer.
Pounding a little I guess but prefer a slow and prolonged "
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By *andb69Couple 23 weeks ago
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"I think there's a big difference between senseless, robotic, tireless pounding and "pounding" as in passionate animalistic and connected sex when you do everything you can to heighten the pleasure of both of you.
A lot of people seem to mistake one for the other in my opinion...
Yea I do think guys do look at pounding like it a positive thing almost as if it was a position a bit like you wound consider a 69.
I seek out mfm and often get asked not by f they don’t want to get pounded by 2 guys which I fully understand why they don’t want it "
If you see "pounding" as a positive thing then I'll go out of my way to avoid you. Good sex is about going with the flow and responding to the situation, not having some preconceived and often misguided idea of what it should be.
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"I think there's a big difference between senseless, robotic, tireless pounding and "pounding" as in passionate animalistic and connected sex when you do everything you can to heighten the pleasure of both of you.
A lot of people seem to mistake one for the other in my opinion...
Yea I do think guys do look at pounding like it a positive thing almost as if it was a position a bit like you wound consider a 69.
I seek out mfm and often get asked not by f they don’t want to get pounded by 2 guys which I fully understand why they don’t want it
If you see "pounding" as a positive thing then I'll go out of my way to avoid you. Good sex is about going with the flow and responding to the situation, not having some preconceived and often misguided idea of what it should be.
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My husband has a larger than average cock and I love a good pounding from him. The feeling of it hitting the top and the pleasant pain that comes from it makes me feel weak and small. Or feminine and vulnerable if you like but in a good way. I'm 43 years old. I didn't used to like it but sometimes I don't want more sensual slower sex but it's rare. Most of the unicorn s we've played with live a good pounding too x |
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"My husband has a larger than average cock and I love a good pounding from him. The feeling of it hitting the top and the pleasant pain that comes from it makes me feel weak and small. Or feminine and vulnerable if you like but in a good way. I'm 43 years old. I didn't used to like it but sometimes I don't want more sensual slower sex but it's rare. Most of the unicorn s we've played with live a good pounding too x"
Thanks for sharing your experience and knowledge with us on this issue |
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