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Yesterday evening I was out with a FB and a few other Fab ladies and we got talking about orgasms and satisfaction generally on fab for lady's. I'd always assumed women on fab were having good sex with odd poor showing, but it appears I had my assumptions backwards. Fab is a woman's world and can play as much or little as they want so get a broader sample of quality.
But this still shocked me and I was wondering if that was indicative generally or just the poll of 4 women I was with, but it's not the first time I've heard similar from lady Fabbers.
That incoherent rambling was actually a question? But just interested. X |
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By *oxy jWoman 30 weeks ago
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fab is not a womans world if so why are there so many men yet so few women and lets be fair tho swinging is for all the corner stone is 100% couples lose them and you just have a sex site not a swinger site ...
ive learnt how to pic my meets over 30+++ years on sites before fab was even born and i got to say i very rarely get a bad meet i think that down to my own very select process of picking men and women ... i dont get let down cant remember the last let down and i meet very often ie weekly but i know so many hot guys who know how to please and at the same time know what they want that im never stuck for a meet... thats years of finding the correct way for me ill say me again...
never reward bad sex if i do meet a guy and the sex is awful then i stop the meet non of this oh well your here now cause that how those who give crap sex thrive by peoples ''oh well''
if couples and ladies and indeed men are always getting let down or having crap meets then they need to look at themselves why are they attracting these messers / crap lovers why blame everyone else when you dont put the correct effort in yourself...
also lets be very clear for every guy thats crap in bed there will be a woman too who has no clue just you dont hear it because there are so few women compared to so so many men i see couples and women having sex sometimes and i think wow why bother id rather watch paint dry than have boring sex .... quite often its those who think they matter / shit dont stink
men and women are capable of crap sex not just guys whos to say op that any of those women you were out with we not crap in bed themselves and indeed it was not the fault of the guys who they labelled crap.... none of this is one sided
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Fab isn't a the woman's paradise it seems.
1st they have to shift their way through endless dick pics
2nd after a polite no thank you have to deal with the "didn't wanna fuck you anyway fat cunt" & "why not I've got a 15" cock you are missing out" all that crap.
Then when they finally shift through the shit and meet we get John who rubs your left lip and asks if your enjoying yourself before giving 3 pumps and asks if that was the best you've ever had, he may even pull your hair and class himself as a kinky dom.
No, fab isn't a woman's paradise. |
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I rarely have disappointing sex.
But then I probably sleep with an average of 2 or 3 new people a year. So I'm pretty thorough in vetting for compatibility and potential for it be worth continuing with long term before getting to the sex  |
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By *essTTWoman 30 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"Yesterday evening I was out with a FB and a few other Fab ladies and we got talking about orgasms and satisfaction generally on fab for lady's. I'd always assumed women on fab were having good sex with odd poor showing, but it appears I had my assumptions backwards. Fab is a woman's world and can play as much or little as they want so get a broader sample of quality.
But this still shocked me and I was wondering if that was indicative generally or just the poll of 4 women I was with, but it's not the first time I've heard similar from lady Fabbers.
That incoherent rambling was actually a question? But just interested. X"
I have no idea why men on here think it's a woman's world looollll
Out of 100 men, you'll probably find 10ish attractive.
Out of the 10 probably 5ish will be respectful and actually speak to you like a human being instead of a hole with a body attracted.
Out of the 5, 2 will be fantasists with no intention of actually meeting.
And the remaining 2 will either be bad or selfish in bed
Leaving that 1, man in shining amour who will actually make you glad that you made the decision to meet him.
It's tough going on here for everyone involved
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By *essTTWoman 30 weeks ago
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"Fab isn't a the woman's paradise it seems.
1st they have to shift their way through endless dick pics
2nd after a polite no thank you have to deal with the "didn't wanna fuck you anyway fat cunt" & "why not I've got a 15" cock you are missing out" all that crap.
Then when they finally shift through the shit and meet we get John who rubs your left lip and asks if your enjoying yourself before giving 3 pumps and asks if that was the best you've ever had, he may even pull your hair and class himself as a kinky dom.
No, fab isn't a woman's paradise."
Pulling your hair and calling themselves a dom is so real LMAO |
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By *ornycougaWoman 30 weeks ago
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"Fab isn't a the woman's paradise it seems.
1st they have to shift their way through endless dick pics
2nd after a polite no thank you have to deal with the "didn't wanna fuck you anyway fat cunt" & "why not I've got a 15" cock you are missing out" all that crap.
Then when they finally shift through the shit and meet we get John who rubs your left lip and asks if your enjoying yourself before giving 3 pumps and asks if that was the best you've ever had, he may even pull your hair and class himself as a kinky dom.
No, fab isn't a woman's paradise.
Pulling your hair and calling themselves a dom is so real LMAO "
Lol. So true. I won't meet anyone with dom, daddy etc. in their username or who calls themselves one. Equally, anyone who tells me that they are going to rock my world or give me the fuck of my life won't. So I have always given them a wide berth too! |
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I actually find Fab quite a burden to administrate. It’s worth it when it all comes together but there are many times when Hubby and I question whether it’s worth it.
It can be quite a knock to one’s confidence when every meet is either a no show, or disappears after a social leaving you wondering if you’re actually attractive or not.
The high points where things come together are amazing but it’s certainly not easy for women on here. They absolutely have more choice, but that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s better x |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"Fab isn't a the woman's paradise it seems.
1st they have to shift their way through endless dick pics
2nd after a polite no thank you have to deal with the "didn't wanna fuck you anyway fat cunt" & "why not I've got a 15" cock you are missing out" all that crap.
Then when they finally shift through the shit and meet we get John who rubs your left lip and asks if your enjoying yourself before giving 3 pumps and asks if that was the best you've ever had, he may even pull your hair and class himself as a kinky dom.
No, fab isn't a woman's paradise.
Pulling your hair and calling themselves a dom is so real LMAO
Lol. So true. I won't meet anyone with dom, daddy etc. in their username or who calls themselves one. Equally, anyone who tells me that they are going to rock my world or give me the fuck of my life won't. So I have always given them a wide berth too! "
Exactly this, anyone who says I will be the best you have had, I can go all weekend! *yawn* yeah alright buddy lol |
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I'm aware of the different challenges. For women it's obvious volume of messages, but the no-show thing is all too real I'm aware, I met my FB from a no-show at a social I'm glad he didn't show but can't imagine getting to that point then bottling it. |
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I find it strange that when some women say they are having bad sex there is an automatic assumption that it's the man's fault.
Women are more than capable of picking and choosing the men they are attracted to but they are equally capable of having limited sexual skills and being poor in bed.
Anyone on here can be as fussy as they like but having great pics or a long queue of suitors doesn't necessarily mean they know what they are doing. |
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By *essTTWoman 30 weeks ago
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"I find it strange that when some women say they are having bad sex there is an automatic assumption that it's the man's fault.
Women are more than capable of picking and choosing the men they are attracted to but they are equally capable of having limited sexual skills and being poor in bed.
Anyone on here can be as fussy as they like but having great pics or a long queue of suitors doesn't necessarily mean they know what they are doing. "
If a man said he was having bad sex, would you assume it was the fault of the person he was having sex with or his own? |
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By *ornycougaWoman 30 weeks ago
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"I find it strange that when some women say they are having bad sex there is an automatic assumption that it's the man's fault.
Women are more than capable of picking and choosing the men they are attracted to but they are equally capable of having limited sexual skills and being poor in bed.
Anyone on here can be as fussy as they like but having great pics or a long queue of suitors doesn't necessarily mean they know what they are doing. "
Well I know I have had a lot of great sex because I have chosen well AND I put a shift in. So when the sex is crap it's either them, or we aren't sexually compatible |
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By *essTTWoman 30 weeks ago
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"I find it strange that when some women say they are having bad sex there is an automatic assumption that it's the man's fault.
Women are more than capable of picking and choosing the men they are attracted to but they are equally capable of having limited sexual skills and being poor in bed.
Anyone on here can be as fussy as they like but having great pics or a long queue of suitors doesn't necessarily mean they know what they are doing.
Well I know I have had a lot of great sex because I have chosen well AND I put a shift in. So when the sex is crap it's either them, or we aren't sexually compatible"
Unrelated but I adore your tan lines |
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"I find it strange that when some women say they are having bad sex there is an automatic assumption that it's the man's fault.
Women are more than capable of picking and choosing the men they are attracted to but they are equally capable of having limited sexual skills and being poor in bed.
Anyone on here can be as fussy as they like but having great pics or a long queue of suitors doesn't necessarily mean they know what they are doing.
If a man said he was having bad sex, would you assume it was the fault of the person he was having sex with or his own?"
It could be either.
There have been numerous forum comments and status updates from women about not being able to get repeat meets.
It can't always be someone else's fault. |
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By *essTTWoman 30 weeks ago
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"I find it strange that when some women say they are having bad sex there is an automatic assumption that it's the man's fault.
Women are more than capable of picking and choosing the men they are attracted to but they are equally capable of having limited sexual skills and being poor in bed.
Anyone on here can be as fussy as they like but having great pics or a long queue of suitors doesn't necessarily mean they know what they are doing.
If a man said he was having bad sex, would you assume it was the fault of the person he was having sex with or his own?
It could be either.
There have been numerous forum comments and status updates from women about not being able to get repeat meets.
It can't always be someone else's fault. "
Correct but if someone is bad in bed they aren't necessarily going to know are they?
If a couple have sex and the woman enjoys it and the man doesn't, it's safe to say the man will say that the women wasn't great in bed.
It's not gender specific, no one is on here acting like only men can be bad at sex |
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