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Partners who endup leaving you for someone they played with
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By *oroMale41 OP Man 24 weeks ago
Stockton on tees |
Hi everyone
How risky is swingers lifestyle?
Has a partner ever left you for or had an affair with a swinging partner?
I'm wondering if the saying "those who play together, stay together" is actually true. |
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I've been offered a few times. There are a lot of couples who really aren't that secure on here. But that's life in general too be honest. But I'm always getting approached by the female of the couple wanting to meet without him |
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By *oroMale41 OP Man 24 weeks ago
Stockton on tees |
"I've been offered a few times. There are a lot of couples who really aren't that secure on here. But that's life in general too be honest. But I'm always getting approached by the female of the couple wanting to meet without him"
This is when it gets dangerous I guess. Imagine explaining to someone why you broke up, we were swingers playing with another couple and then my wife ended up leaving me for him.
Some people say swinging makes their relationships stronger, but I guess that's just a way of proving to their self that what they are doing is right |
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"I've been offered a few times. There are a lot of couples who really aren't that secure on here. But that's life in general too be honest. But I'm always getting approached by the female of the couple wanting to meet without him
This is when it gets dangerous I guess. Imagine explaining to someone why you broke up, we were swingers playing with another couple and then my wife ended up leaving me for him.
Some people say swinging makes their relationships stronger, but I guess that's just a way of proving to their self that what they are doing is right"
It's the same with the safe sex brigade who ask to go bare the minute you get your clothes off |
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The great things about fab wives is that you can hand them back at the end of the evening.
I think if you are secure in your relationship then fab is great. If you have weaknesses then fab will find them out. |
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By *oroMale41 OP Man 24 weeks ago
Stockton on tees |
I have had male partners with erection issues message me to ask if I can fuck their wives as they can't fulfill the needs, these have been some of my best fucks. I think the feeling of the next man's wife ditching him for me is a turn on. Of course I'd never want to affect a couples relationship is real life though |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"If they're gonna cheat and leave you when you're swinging together, they definitely weren't going to be loyal and committed while pretending to be monogamous either  "
This is 100% correct. If they leave, they take their issues elsewhere! Move on and rebuild… and change the locks  |
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"I've been offered a few times. There are a lot of couples who really aren't that secure on here. But that's life in general too be honest. But I'm always getting approached by the female of the couple wanting to meet without him"
With a cock that big I'm not surprised!! but as a seriously devoted woman I just could not nor want to leave my husband. I'm ridiculously happy with our current set up. I love seeing him with other women and joining in. I'm not concerned my husband is going anywhere as he isn't the type of guy to even look at other women. Joining this lifestyle was all my idea as i came out as bi and wanted to have fun with ladies as I hadnt been with a woman before. I'm not even interested in playing with other men I'm that happy with him, he's a lucky man really x |
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"I've been offered a few times. There are a lot of couples who really aren't that secure on here. But that's life in general too be honest. But I'm always getting approached by the female of the couple wanting to meet without him
With a cock that big I'm not surprised!! but as a seriously devoted woman I just could not nor want to leave my husband. I'm ridiculously happy with our current set up. I love seeing him with other women and joining in. I'm not concerned my husband is going anywhere as he isn't the type of guy to even look at other women. Joining this lifestyle was all my idea as i came out as bi and wanted to have fun with ladies as I hadnt been with a woman before. I'm not even interested in playing with other men I'm that happy with him, he's a lucky man really x"
You flatterer. Sounds great |
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I'm half a couple and we both meet together and seperately.
Jack more than me, but that's my choice.
We've been together 8.5 years, never any cause for concern or drama.
He always tells me if he's chatting to someone or he'd want to meet them and I'm good with that. I'll even speak to the lady or couple to confirm it if they prefer to.
It may be different for us as we met on fab as singles and wanted to stay in the lifestyle. |
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By *oxy jWoman 24 weeks ago
somerset |
strong loving together couples are the core of swinging its only those who swing for the wrong reasons like trying to repair sex life or marriage that most often fail
swinging is not a trend its a lifestyle and for very together couples ... but as in vanilla life affairs will alway happen when things are missing within your relationship.... swinging repairs nothing it will expose those who are not quite together |
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By *hoirCouple 23 weeks ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"Hi everyone
How risky is swingers lifestyle?
Has a partner ever left you for or had an affair with a swinging partner?
I'm wondering if the saying "those who play together, stay together" is actually true."
I've had a few play pals who left their husband. It happens.
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