You do seem a different to most, but the key is in sharing your uniqueness, your swinging relevance, as well as your sexual compatibility, all in a short space.
I'd say your profile needs more relating to your sexual qualities, and diminish the proportion of stuff about south park etc, which many could find of disinterest to them. Once it's biased towards sexual chemistry, then it's likely to be more revealing of what others are more likely to want to know and see.
I'd suggest photos be up to date, so that we can see who we might meet today, and also have a range of them, so that we get a good feel for your physical attributes and attractiveness.
It's likely to be a numbers game, as there are so many single guys, competing for a smaller crowd of others. Coupled with the more appropriately matched contacts that you make, email etc, then potential success is likely to increase. No effort, eg, mails = likely failure to be satisfied.
Keep working on your profile, and change it over time to match your progress. Whilst some mention your friends, then I can only say that I am a friend to many, of all sexes, and it does not relate to who I've fucked with. Likewise, at swinging clubs, I socialise with everyone, not just with those that have sexual attraction.
You could meet others socially, that way you could be verified in person, which would count for more than a virtual verification etc. Try out clubs, if you can, as you'll meet some great people.
Good luck!! |
