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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago
Bridgwater - Somerset |
Recognise the point just before the point of no return then stop or back off.
Wear an extra thick condom? Use a delay spray (local anaesthetic to reduce feeling) - lots of possibilities.
Failing that, imagine something or someone unpleasant - Margaret Thatcher always worked for me 
Or even start counting backwards from 100 (in your head - not out loud...) |
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Try these, G used to cum too soon when he was much younger and with a new girlfriend:
1. Keep on going, you might be able to stay hard until you cum again.
2. Tell her she's so sexy you couldn't hold back, have a cuddle and start again.
3. Pull out when you feel you're nearly there and go down on her, then carry on after a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I pull out slightly stopping for about a minute. I always nibble her neck at this point. Then I start thrusting really fast but I only put it in a little. This usually makes them gush. |
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"Recognise the point just before the point of no return then stop or back off.
Wear an extra thick condom? Use a delay spray (local anaesthetic to reduce feeling) - lots of possibilities.
Failing that, imagine something or someone unpleasant - Margaret Thatcher always worked for me
Or even start counting backwards from 100 (in your head - not out loud...)"
I did hear that putting a little on your cock does the job. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Failing that, imagine something or someone unpleasant - Margaret Thatcher always worked for me
Lol, I thought sex should be enjoyable.  "
If that fails then you're going to end up thinking about Thatcher in mid-spuff... sounds risky  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Easiest tip of all, make yourself last longer. Sounds ridiculous but just deny yourself orgasms for as long as you can keep it up, even if it means denying hers. Longest I ever went without shooting was 5 hours but that will leave you in pain as will anything over the 2 hour mark. Total blue balls. Try for an hour! |
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By *essex1 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I find when I'm on top I can cum really quickly. Any other position and I can go for a lot lot longer. Sometimes not even cum at all...
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same, with a woman on top i can last a lot longer. I also find I come quicker if ive been sucked beforehand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. Masturbate beforehand to get rid of any nervous tension.
2. When you feel you're about to cum, pull out, take deep breaths and continue. Thrusting slowly at first.
3. Exercise your Kegal muscle everyday to prevent ejaculation at will.
4. Find a position which prolongs the sex.
Silk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find when I'm on top I can cum really quickly. Any other position and I can go for a lot lot longer. Sometimes not even cum at all...
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being on top can be tricky to last ages because all the strain is on you. Your body,arms,mind etc. If your on the bottom you feel more relaxed as there's no pressure  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1. Masturbate beforehand to get rid of any nervous tension.
2. When you feel you're about to cum, pull out, take deep breaths and continue. Thrusting slowly at first.
3. Exercise your Kegal muscle everyday to prevent ejaculation at will.
4. Find a position which prolongs the sex.
Silk "
This 
Also try and practise the art of breathing during sex,helps alot. Deep breaths and releasing helps calms your body as your body needs to breath. just like swimmers,runners cos without the breathing technique..theyd be fucked lol
im no porn star myself but after research geting better well i like to think i am LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if its to go longer to make her cum why not just play with her first, g spot dildo and a vibe on the clit always gets them screaming and squirting, bit of licking, fingering, etc.
when you can see they've had an amazing time then you start with the sex to finish her off,
but if just want to be able to go for ages just pull out and rub your cock on her clit or give her a little massage, or dildo for 2 min then start again with the sex.
steven. |
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Failing that, imagine something or someone unpleasant - Margaret Thatcher always worked for me
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Funny, Wayne Rooney always works for me, and I'm a Man U fan 
Thinking of Maggie would be no good because I loved her so much. AND PROUD OF IT |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"practice the art of edgeing, u have more fun and so does ur lady, and when u do eventually cum , wow, we love it "
My thoughts exactly ...do much better all round |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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C always gets me to the point where im gagging for his cock and on the edge of orgasms myself before he fucks me... Then if he cums also it aint so bad if i have too... But i also take it as a comiment if a guy cums quick as i know ive turned them on bad.... As long as they fuck me good in round 2 xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to have this problem as a lot of men do, especially being young and excited....
The main thing i learnt was that it was all in my mind, and i worked it out from a documentary i watched about porn stars (Louis Theroux). The porn actors in the film would find it extremely difficult to cum because of the pressure of the cameras and everyone looking. This seemed to be the complete reverse to what premature ejaculation. So i learnt not to think about it much and instead tried cumming by putring myself under pressure. This would be in a group watching and even trying to cum at a set time (works better after a couple if goes). At around the same time i started learning tantric sex techniques (of which there are some excellent videos online and courses to help breathing etc)
Now i can last for about 45mins to an hour non stop sex - The thing is when you relax into it, the time just flies....most of all its about learning how your body and mind are linked...i got taught this at medical school it helps patients with similar problems
Hope this helps,,,,, |
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"try concentrating on getting the woman to come, controversial I know, then you tend to forget about your own orgasm. When the woman's done think about your own and bingo, works for me"
it's because we care about the woman's orgasm that we try to last longer! |
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Relaxing your pelvic muscles is the key. When people think about other things this is essentially what they are doing. When we are turned on we tighten them.
Good foreplay works well for me as well. As long as she pulls the foreskin right back and runs her hand/tongue over the head a lot it helps to desensitise.
If you find you are going to cum even with all this pull out or push in but hold the movement while you kiss her deeply use this as a chance for sexual intimacy. Once it subsides carry on.
Changing position buys you time as well.
I normally last 1-2 hours using these methods.
Oh and try and master oral and fingering try and get her to cum while all of this is going on as well! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Relaxing your pelvic muscles is the key. When people think about other things this is essentially what they are doing. When we are turned on we tighten them.
Good foreplay works well for me as well. As long as she pulls the foreskin right back and runs her hand/tongue over the head a lot it helps to desensitise.
If you find you are going to cum even with all this pull out or push in but hold the movement while you kiss her deeply use this as a chance for sexual intimacy. Once it subsides carry on.
Changing position buys you time as well.
I normally last 1-2 hours using these methods.
Oh and try and master oral and fingering try and get her to cum while all of this is going on as well!"
Good point, it should be about the variation inbed rather than thinking about yourself only..... |
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