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Couples what do you look for??
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By (user no longer on site) OP 24 weeks ago
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Something we have noticed/discussed recently as a couple so thought we would throw it out to the offer fab world
As a couple when you look for men women or other couples do you look for someone or people similar to your husband/wife or do you look for someone that is very different to them?
Are you attracted to someone different or do you look for someone that you think reminds you in some way of your partner whatever that might be? Interested to hear what people think? |
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To tell you the truth we tend to mix it up with ages, genders and looks etc.
Some of the best sex we've had has been with people that we wouldn't have gone for when we first started in the lifestyle, you can just never tell.
Saying that you still have to have a connection for it to work. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 24 weeks ago
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"To tell you the truth we tend to mix it up with ages, genders and looks etc.
Some of the best sex we've had has been with people that we wouldn't have gone for when we first started in the lifestyle, you can just never tell.
Saying that you still have to have a connection for it to work."
We have varied things up as well but had a chat the other night about a lady on here that was very very similar to mrs and we laughed saying it would be like being in bed with sisters and then it sparked the question would we prefer people similar to each other or completely different…..
Doesn’t really bother us either way but it was an interesting conversation.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 24 weeks ago
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"Mainly good vibes, same interests and mutual attraction, we are definitely far from vanilla so the kinkier the better for us but we won't turn down fun with the right couple xx"
Absolutely wanting them to have similar interests and desires x |
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We lay it all out there on our profile. It's lengthy but if someone can't spare 5 minutes to read, then how do they expect an hour or so of our time. It's actually helped curb the amount of messages we were getting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 24 weeks ago
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"We lay it all out there on our profile. It's lengthy but if someone can't spare 5 minutes to read, then how do they expect an hour or so of our time. It's actually helped curb the amount of messages we were getting. "
We get what people but on pricked etc meant in a way if does mrs like men on here that are similar to mr and does mr like ladies similar to mrs or do you look for someone very different to what’s already at home? |
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In relation to this, Mr likes woman similar to Mrs.. curvy, busty, dominant all massive turns on for him, Mrs likes to find the opposite.. dominant, built/dad bod ect.. I find meeting someone different to Mr helps with the submissive side of it xx |
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"We lay it all out there on our profile. It's lengthy but if someone can't spare 5 minutes to read, then how do they expect an hour or so of our time. It's actually helped curb the amount of messages we were getting.
We get what people but on pricked etc meant in a way if does mrs like men on here that are similar to mr and does mr like ladies similar to mrs or do you look for someone very different to what’s already at home? "
I mean there are differences, there has to be, but virtues and interests need to align. The meets we have had so far have had little similarities to my husband. They've created different experiences and that is what matters. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 24 weeks ago
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"We lay it all out there on our profile. It's lengthy but if someone can't spare 5 minutes to read, then how do they expect an hour or so of our time. It's actually helped curb the amount of messages we were getting.
We get what people but on pricked etc meant in a way if does mrs like men on here that are similar to mr and does mr like ladies similar to mrs or do you look for someone very different to what’s already at home?
I mean there are differences, there has to be, but virtues and interests need to align. The meets we have had so far have had little similarities to my husband. They've created different experiences and that is what matters."
Interests have to align of cause or the fun won’t be as fun! |
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Mainly someone we can get on with! The social side is what will get us in to bed.
If they only want to talk filth with us 24/7 it's not going to happen, we like to be able to vibe and connect with someone before we jump in to fucking with them. Can't say we look for those who look like us as most of our meets have been very different people appearance wise to us, as long as we find you attractive then from that point of view its a go. |
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For us we love to meet other couples that can make good conversation and have a laugh.
Age isn't the biggest concern for us. Of course there should be a physical attraction but as long as we all get on then we can all have some fun  |
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We mainly prefer couples although we will meet single ladies and and convincing Tgirls, we don’t mind stubble on male halves but not beards, we like to have a laugh and get on with others and hopefully find them as kinky as we can be. |
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