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By *otry OP Man 30 weeks ago
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We have spoke about swinging before mainly another man or woman to pleasure her mainly. She's abit self conscious but is up for it when she's ready. we like to travel once a year without the kids.
Anyone ever stumbled across a beach or bar/club that things escalated naturally rather than planning a head etc. |
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"Yeah I know. Was more along the lines of any bars or clubs that ppl frequent but not necessarily a club ubhave to join. Either uk or abroad. Been toying with the idea of PDI "
You could always try a social event to start with or if you want to visit a club without paying membership attend on an event night as generally then you only have to pay the entrance fee
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By *otry OP Man 30 weeks ago
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We have. We are all full steam ahead 100% it's happening then when it's time to plan something or book something thats when the cold feet start. Thought maybe if we could stumble or naturally attend something that isn't obvious to begin with so she can warm to it feel less self conscious |
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"We have. We are all full steam ahead 100% it's happening then when it's time to plan something or book something thats when the cold feet start. Thought maybe if we could stumble or naturally attend something that isn't obvious to begin with so she can warm to it feel less self conscious "
Have you thought of setting up a couples profile ?
Just if it was an event night, she could see and interact with the Guestlist and they generally have a chat group too - may calm her nerves talking to other people before the event.
Socials are no pressure, we love them for meeting like minded people - no play happens at them so they are a great introduction into the lifestyle
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We enjoy Bristol Gardens Health Spa in Brighton. You can simply enjoy the naturist spa facilities downstairs or, if you’re feel a little more adventurous, head upstairs to the playrooms. It means you can take things at your own pace and should you feel not quite ready to try the the playrooms, you can at least relax in one of the hot tubs/jacuzzis. We’ve met lots of lovely people there. |
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Playa del ingles in gran canaria is a swingers paradise. There's a whole shopping centre full.of swinger clubs there. Get yourself there you'll have a great time. May, October and November are the months to go |
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"We have spoke about swinging before mainly another man or woman to pleasure her mainly. She's abit self conscious but is up for it when she's ready. we like to travel once a year without the kids.
Anyone ever stumbled across a beach or bar/club that things escalated naturally rather than planning a head etc."
PDI !!
How you gonna explain that when you arrive?
If she’s happy when’s she’s ready, then talk together and figure out what that means.
We wouldn’t recommend going for a “quiet drink” at club that just happens to be a swingers club either |
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"We have. We are all full steam ahead 100% it's happening then when it's time to plan something or book something thats when the cold feet start. Thought maybe if we could stumble or naturally attend something that isn't obvious to begin with so she can warm to it feel less self conscious "
Would she know you were stumbling or naturally attending one of these events?
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By *agusMan 30 weeks ago
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"Playa del ingles in gran canaria is a swingers paradise. There's a whole shopping centre full.of swinger clubs there. Get yourself there you'll have a great time. May, October and November are the months to go"
Good to know, I'm going there soon, now I'm even more excited |
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