FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Would you be put off having sex
Would you be put off having sex
Jump to: Newest in thread
with someone because of their music taste?
For instance someone comes to pick you up from the station and your on the way to the hotel and their playlist is dire.
What type of music would put you off or couldn't you care less? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I don't really see what their taste in music would affect in terms of chemistry.
I can tune out their dire tracks. I won't go to gigs with them. There's not much else it really interferes with surely. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By *essTTWoman 31 weeks ago
Birmingham |
I wouldn't get into a car with a stranger from here however music taste is subject
It wouldn't put me off at all, I know people who listen to heavy/screaming type metal and it doesn't bother me. They hate the music I listen to and I hate the music they listen to lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"As long as they don't play music when playing, I can't stand music playing with have sex , it's so off putting.
No happy hardcore trying to keep up with the rhythm then? 
Mr"
The only music I want to hear is the musical tones of mutual pleasure.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *abonWoman 31 weeks ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
When I was travelling, I spent the day heavily flirting with a tour guide. We agreed to meet for drinks later and he arrived in a heavy metal vest top with a skull and insects and tongues and worms on it. I really don't care what he listens to in his own time, but I couldn’t get past the genuine horror at his top  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Hmm.
This can be a problem for me, too.
I have very strong reactions to music, in terms of how it can alter my emotional state. (I don't pretend I'm a special flower in this regard, but I do know not everyone responds this way: I always have done, I don't know any differently, so I don't take credit for it lol)
There really are times I wish I COULD tune-out music I don't like but if I could, it might mean I'd lose the capacity to respond so strongly to the music I DO like. I wouldn't want that...
It's also a focus thing, because of this. Try as I might, my brain will sometimes 'lock-on' to that bit of music and do its best to drag me away from what's happening. Sometimes I get this with overheard conversations too, especially in groups of people, even though I'm not interested in whatever's being said! This can be very frustrating and create some awkward misunderstandings...
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Ravel's Bolero
(You have to be of a certain age to get that one). 
Oh I don't know, I used to have a crush on Jayne 
You reckon Chris has been there?  "
I'm pretty sure they confirm it has happened.
.
Although - I'm comment was aimed at a film called '10'. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Lou Reed, Metal Machine Music. A double LP, an hour and a half, of the guitar propped up against the loudspeaker and the volume turned up to max. Howling feedback without tune or rhythm, it's not music it's sheer pain. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"with someone because of their music taste?
For instance someone comes to pick you up from the station and your on the way to the hotel and their playlist is dire.
What type of music would put you off or couldn't you care less?"
---------------------
Fans of Skrewdriver would probably be an issue  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"with someone because of their music taste?
For instance someone comes to pick you up from the station and your on the way to the hotel and their playlist is dire.
What type of music would put you off or couldn't you care less?"
I couldn't care less. It's such an individual thing and doesn't relate to their sexual persona as far as I can see from experience |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"with someone because of their music taste?
For instance someone comes to pick you up from the station and your on the way to the hotel and their playlist is dire.
What type of music would put you off or couldn't you care less?"
Yeah I’ve been in a situation where someone has been playing distracting music before. Tbh it was so long ago that I can’t remember what it was, but it totally threw me off and made me not want to meet them again. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
