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By *om and Lisa OP   Couple  over a year ago

gateshead

Hi!

Okay, so, we started off opening up our sex life a few years ago when we were involved in a fmf/ffm threesome.

Recently we started going to clubs, but just to watch. Although Lisa has kissed/touched fems.

We're really close together, and would be happy expanding our boundaries. I know that it's a fantasy for both of us to have a mfm or even mmf threesome. But we've never pushed the boat out. ~

At the minute, it's quite easy to tell other couples that we are only voyeurs/exhibitionists.

When starting out, how is it best to go? What rules are easily agreeable and doesn't it kill the mood setting out rules?

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By *ady4ladyWoman  over a year ago

liverpool

Rule one, make sure you are both agreed on exactly what your boundaries are.......and stick to them.

Dont let anyone push them.

Take it slowly and enjoy x

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You're in an exciting position and good luck with your adventure. I've been in a few mmf and for me, ground rules and expectations in advance make the actual encounter all the more relaxing as I'm not always wondering 'can I do this?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Only you know the rules that are easily agreeable from discussing with your partner and the person joining you. We've never found that having friendlies in place spoils things it enhances things when you know just how far you can go, it frees you from worry.

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Saying "rules" is a bit harsh and cold..

Respect the boundaries of evryone involved and dont be afraid/shy to say NO at any time....

"Genuine" people will respect that...

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