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Honest Advice needed - Black male
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By *-BLXCK OP Man 37 weeks ago
luton |
Hey all,
I’ve been on here a couple of months now, had a meet or two and attended a party but haven’t had much success in 1-1 meets.
Could you take a look at my profile and tell me what it’s lacking?
All constructive criticism accepted  haha
Happy fabbing x |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Hey all,
I’ve been on here a couple of months now, had a meet or two and attended a party but haven’t had much success in 1-1 meets.
Could you take a look at my profile and tell me what it’s lacking?
All constructive criticism accepted haha
Happy fabbing x"
I'm no expert but looks a well made profile mate & a couple meets & party in 2 months is good going |
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Hi op, some more pics would be good.
You can get rid of the bit saying your height, as it already shows on your profile.
Maybe a bit about what it is you're into and offering meets too, sell yourself.
You already have a verification which is great.
Good luck |
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It seems you’re doing well. I’d remove all the “ha” “lol” and “” type things. It comes across as immature, and I think people on here seem to respond best to confidence and maturity.
Also don’t be afraid to state exactly what it is you’re looking for. You’ll be surprised how effective it is being direct (as long as you’re not rude about it).
But overall it’s a good profile and you look good too. |
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By *impcuckMan 37 weeks ago
edge of taunton |
so youve had a couple of meets and a party invite and you onlu been here 3 months most men on here dont get that in 5 or 6 years or ever.
your doing great mate dont mess with what ever your doing its ckearly working and looks like you'll be one of those rare guys who wont struggle |
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Hey OP 
Lovely, well written bio
More pics needed
If you've had meets via fab then display your verification summary, doesn't have to be the individual veris, but the summary would show you're a real person who does meet.
We generally only meet verified profiles, this may be a reason you're not having success 1 on 1- just a thought
S xxx |
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"Thanks mate, I deffo was half hearted when i initially wrote that so I’ll deffo change that up"
Little tip OP.....
When replying to someone in the forums hit the reply and quote button in the bottom right and we can see who you're replying to  |
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By *-BLXCK OP Man 37 weeks ago
luton |
"Thanks mate, I deffo was half hearted when i initially wrote that so I’ll deffo change that up
Little tip OP.....
When replying to someone in the forums hit the reply and quote button in the bottom right and we can see who you're replying to "
Haha thank you, I feel like today I’ve learned a lot about fab…I wish I posted sooner |
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"Thanks mate, I deffo was half hearted when i initially wrote that so I’ll deffo change that up
Little tip OP.....
When replying to someone in the forums hit the reply and quote button in the bottom right and we can see who you're replying to
Haha thank you, I feel like today I’ve learned a lot about fab…I wish I posted sooner "
Welcome to the forums OP |
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By *-BLXCK OP Man 37 weeks ago
luton |
"Thanks mate, I deffo was half hearted when i initially wrote that so I’ll deffo change that up
Little tip OP.....
When replying to someone in the forums hit the reply and quote button in the bottom right and we can see who you're replying to
Haha thank you, I feel like today I’ve learned a lot about fab…I wish I posted sooner
Welcome to the forums OP "
Hehe..no looking back for me now |
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By *-BLXCK OP Man 37 weeks ago
luton |
"I think it is us single men who should be asking you for profile advice you sir are winning at the fab game"
Haha thanks, I suppose compared to the masses it’s not the worse start but I know it can get better. |
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By *-BLXCK OP Man 37 weeks ago
luton |
"I’d want the veris showing to prove you’re legit.
As a girl who only meets single men, mostly black single men, there’s too many 6ft3 idris Elba profile pictures who are fully verified. "
Haha yeah I fully hear you on that, it seems to be mixed on how people seem to view veris on here. |
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"I’d want the veris showing to prove you’re legit.
As a girl who only meets single men, mostly black single men, there’s too many 6ft3 idris Elba profile pictures who are fully verified.
Haha yeah I fully hear you on that, it seems to be mixed on how people seem to view veris on here."
The problem is, lots of fake profiles are verified!
They tend to message clubs girls and remind them of how nice they looked at the latest event after that chat… and then they veri them even though they can’t remember exactly which they were!
So I don’t need veris for detail, I just like to know someone half decent physically played with them not just seen them ha xx |
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By *essTTWoman 37 weeks ago
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Don't show your verifications if you don't want to.
Some people would prefer if you at least showed your verification summary
And as others have said maybe more pics, and remove public toilet pics |
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By *-BLXCK OP Man 37 weeks ago
luton |
"I’d want the veris showing to prove you’re legit.
As a girl who only meets single men, mostly black single men, there’s too many 6ft3 idris Elba profile pictures who are fully verified.
Haha yeah I fully hear you on that, it seems to be mixed on how people seem to view veris on here.
The problem is, lots of fake profiles are verified!
They tend to message clubs girls and remind them of how nice they looked at the latest event after that chat… and then they veri them even though they can’t remember exactly which they were!
So I don’t need veris for detail, I just like to know someone half decent physically played with them not just seen them ha xx"
Damn that is actually crazy lol, I’ve read a couple of veris like that too so I fully get it - a lot of them aren’t really saying much bust I suppose it’s all about that green tick . |
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By *-BLXCK OP Man 37 weeks ago
luton |
"Good start but you need more pics and a bit more about what you like , where you hang out etc just so couples can feel more comfortable with you
Good luck "
Thank you, yeah I agree more pics would probably do some good so I can change hag right away as well as the content.
All the best for you too |
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By *-BLXCK OP Man 37 weeks ago
luton |
"Don't show your verifications if you don't want to.
Some people would prefer if you at least showed your verification summary
And as others have said maybe more pics, and remove public toilet pics"
Yeah I’ll deffo make sure my summary is on and get rid of that gym pic too - thanks again |
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