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Already had to give a local newbie a pep talk today to reassure her that this place isn’t entirely made up of abusive Neanderthals 
Interested to hear others’ experiences.
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By *layfulGentMan 33 weeks ago
Doncaster South Yorkshire |
Trying to find a partner in crime to attend clubs with as I’m a little shy to go it alone, otherwise 1 meet per month is keeping me active on here however like all the rest of the good gents on here would like to upscale that to at least 2-3 per month, hey I don’t want to be greedy  |
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By *iverstMan 33 weeks ago
Rossendale |
I have found the site a bit frustrating to be honest. You see a profile of a lady you find attractive and you feel you would make a nice match. You see they want more than just a one liner so you put the effort in and don’t even get a “no thanks” reply. I know ladies get lots of messages so understand they can’t reply to everyone, but no reply is difficult after the time and effort you put in. Its a pity there isn’t a way to reply to a message with a pre set response that is as easy to use as the delete button.
I don’t send too many messages as the ignored ones are disheartening, but I would probably try harder if I hadn’t found a club that I really enjoy attending. I have found the people who attend the club to be really nice, with my shyness being the limiting factor - but even just the social side is great. I find people meeting you face to face is a great way for them to see who you are rather than just a message.
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"Not too successfull due to the lack of experience and verifications.
Any advice?"
Think about why you bring to the lifestyle and what you want out of it.
Go to clubs and or socials. Get known and verified.
We know a few single guys on here having a great time and that’s their strategy |
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Not great, just impossible to get a decent reply after putting in the effort of reading profiles and something interesting rather than a ‘hi’ on profiles I think I’d match with. Any tips appreciated |
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Took our sweet time considering we joined 9 months ago lol but life got in the way I suppose, we are meeting up with a women in a couple of weeks so we can't wait but we think we will really enjoy going to clubs etc |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"Hello newbies how’s your fabbing going ? Any luck so far? Please share your thoughts xx"
It depends on who you are.
Women - will get loads of interest
Couples - same as above.
Males - hit and miss |
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Hit and miss, to be openly honest.
I get a lot of attention (not blowing my trumpet, it's just the way of the world on here!) and plenty of offers. Although because of our dynamic it's actually somewhat hard to get something arranged- even people who openly post on their profile they want the Mr to be cucked etc etc don't actually seem to want to follow through with it.
And some people of course just expect a couple of messages and they'll be round ripping clothes off, which doesn't happen.
We've had a couple of decent cam meets and our own sex life between us is even hotter than normal so not all bad!!!!
C xox |
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We've rejoined after a break of a few years, and have met a few lovely people so far.
What we have found, as the last time, for all guys think single girls and couples have it easy, the vast majority of guys messages we've received clearly show they've not read our profile, they don't make it easy for themselves.
That said, we've come back with our eyes open, where we used to find it very frustrating, now we just utilise the block button  |
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By *sj75Couple 33 weeks ago
castleford |
To be fair, as a newb, putting your age preference as 18-99 basically means you'll fuck anything. Can be off putting, especially from a 21 yr old. I'd teach you a few things if you were closer lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 33 weeks ago
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Thought me will easier to find w couple for a social and go from there’s would be nice to meet up with someone who’s got experience and could give us some tips  |
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"Hey we are in Leeds so not that far away fro you haha and would deffo would like to know some tips from your experience x"
My first tip would be to use the ‘reply & quote’ button so it’s easier to see who you’re responding to  |
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A mixed bag really.
The vast majority of people we have met are decent people. Some, the kind you’d happily be close friends with.
Then there are those who don’t even have the common decency to say “hey, thanks but you’re not our type”. They just block upon receiving your pics. That’s just rude and uncalled for. That said, it acts as a good filter as we wouldn’t want to play with people who treat people that way. |
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I tend to have a conversation going but I’m unsure if I should approach the chats like a dating app or, as this site would suggest, chat about sex and what they want… any advice would be appreciated |
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"Bookmarking…
Already had to give a local newbie a pep talk today to reassure her that this place isn’t entirely made up of abusive Neanderthals "
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I've had the same conversation myself this week with ³ newbies. |
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By *LR68Man 33 weeks ago
Peterborough |
Not too great to be honest, I've been on/off the site for many years but this time its a struggle just to get a reply.. I may go down the club/social route like I did last time I was on here .. which to be fair I did enjoy |
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"Hey we are in Leeds so not that far away fro you haha and would deffo would like to know some tips from your experience x"
There's a York social event coming up soon (listed in the meets and events section) why not pop along
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