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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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I like a confident dominant man. But I believe a lot of men on here who think they are dominant are just abusive. For example i received an opening message today say i would love to destroy your asshole  I mean would you say that to a woman face to face when meeting for the first time!!
To me being dominant is being able to lead and take control. But someone you feel safe with |
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If you put dominant on your profile, to me it reads as if you take over the play time for your own enjoyment disregarding what we might want as a couple.
Perhaps better word for it would be confident. |
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"I like a confident dominant man. But I believe a lot of men on here who think they are dominant are just abusive. For example i received an opening message today say i would love to destroy your asshole I mean would you say that to a woman face to face when meeting for the first time!!
To me being dominant is being able to lead and take control. But someone you feel safe with "
Bloody hell who will like message like that!!!! That should be block immediately!!! |
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As well, for lack of a more accurate description or tactful way to cop so to speak.
i'm a very submissive cross dressing old school twink type. And my favorite style of Dom to control, instruct, use me for their sexual amusement...Is usually a older, more experienced, kinky man whom is more interest in how he is going to nourish the trust we will have to be developed. There is much to consider, the Dom may be more direct about what sexual tastes he is going enjoy from you.
But the D/s relationship, the successful interaction may have so much to learn, share...So mllll |
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I wish swingers would not use the word "dominant" and used "confident". The use of the word "dominant" tends to leach off a stereotype in BDSM, and is used without an understanding of modern BDSM.
My own view is that "dominance" related to bdsm is a personal interaction and relies on consent and negotiation with the person/people involved in the negotiation. It extends beyond the bedroom and is relationship based.
In my experiene most swingers tend to be "Sex Doms/subs" and it is about one off sexual enjoyment, rather than providing a deeper, wider personal experience which is D/s. |
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By *impcuckMan 31 weeks ago
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as my wife say's assertive men she likes best when it comes to sexual fun
she no longer use'se the word dominate as it means so many different thing to men from being a compleate asshole to bdsm no one seems to understand just being a normal sexual dom anymore there has to be extreme kinks or bdsm attached its perfectly ok to be a sexual dom with out bdsm or kinks too |
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"I like a confident dominant man. But I believe a lot of men on here who think they are dominant are just abusive. For example i received an opening message today say i would love to destroy your asshole I mean would you say that to a woman face to face when meeting for the first time!!
To me being dominant is being able to lead and take control. But someone you feel safe with "
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This is so accurate. Unbelievable some of the messages we have received so we had to set about writing an explanatory profile so those kind of people understood! |
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I’ve had a curry like that once before too.
"I like a confident dominant man. But I believe a lot of men on here who think they are dominant are just abusive. For example i received an opening message today say i would love to destroy your asshole I mean would you say that to a woman face to face when meeting for the first time!!
To me being dominant is being able to lead and take control. But someone you feel safe with "
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Not in all cases but in my experience people who say they are confident are usually insecure and people who are actually confident just go out about their business. As for being dominant some will like it some won’t a bit like that black sticky stuff |
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"I am confident dominant person who likes taking control in bedroom. Does it increase or reduce chances for meetings here?"
I doubt it makes much difference.
It simply depends on what others are seeking.
I'm not looking to meet men but uf I was I wouldn't be interested in anyone describing themselves as dominant. |
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Dominant would be off putting. 