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Are you into rough sex?
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Rough sex is one thing but a guy knowing when it's reaching abuse level is another. Most ladies like to be fucked hard and thrown around a bit during sex but I had one guy pull my hair out from the roots on one meet and that did not end well for him. Guys need to realise when they are going to far rough wise. |
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"I do like rough sex not pain but rough.
I would like a rough outdoor group meet unlikely but I can dream. "
I don't mind the odd bruise or mark but not when it's been the force of play. For example I don't mind a bit of flogging but not to the point it gets painful or brakes the skin. One guy I meet was asked to do that to someone and he said NO. |
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Adore rough sex but only with people I trust and who know my limits.
Not into painful sex but dominant, rough, pinned down, neck holding, hair pulling, spanking, gripping, primal, fucking take me kind of sex - hell yes! 
Be prepared for a struggle though - I don't submit easily
S xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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I had never experienced it before but I meet a lady off a dating site that was into a bit of rough sex but not pain…i really enjoyed it it was nice to be rough but followed up by kissing and being sensual etc.. |
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I enjoy it, but there is a caveat it's for her arousal, and one word and it stops. Bit of hair pulling, spanking, hand over mouth ect and deep, hard fucking, that's fine, but slapping soft choking ect, I like that kind of role play but I'm always wary of harder play. It's not always all of those I'll already be aware of what she like from previous conversations and watch her reactions to make sure she's cool.
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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I met a girl (off here), who put her hand around my throat while I was on top of her. I done the same back, and we orgasmed together.. It was fucking heavenly! |
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It's good fun. But it's only good when it's discussed and everyone knows each others limits.
The amount of times I hear about guys who take it way to far and it ends up being anything but rough. I can understand why people are so reluctant towards having sex this way. |
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I like a bit of throat-grabbing, but only if it's my husband doing it, as actually he won't hurt me and knows exactly what my limits are.
I also like him slapping me around the face during sex, but - again - it's because I trust him and he knows how far to take it. |
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Love rough sex and more...
But always within defined limits..
and always with safe words or signals so both know if anything needs to stop..
And any goid dominant would stop even without safe words if they think a partner has taken to much! |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Very rough for us sometimes, hand round neck, lots of impact fun and being picked up/thrown about too"
good communication and boundaries are essential to allow all parties to ‘let loose’ |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Im usually more sensual, girl I was with liked choking and being ch. which I enjoyed but it makes me nervous. "
I listened to a news report about the dangers of choking in sex and how its easy to go wrong. Fine line between a hand round your neck and choking. It requires alot of trust that the person you are with knows the line.
I like a dominant man who is in charge... Spanking is great ... firm sex .... perhaps a little rough ...
But I was once slapped round the face during sex... it was not consensual ... I asked him not to do it again ... 2 minutes later he did it again .... 2 minutes later I was dressed and out the door.
So rough or firm or dominant requires communication and understanding of limits and consent. And trust. |
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By *eliWoman 25 weeks ago
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Yes I do. It's not something I'm interested in doing on a casual sex level though - for me part of the attraction of being so primal with another is that intimacy.
Being able to lean in to that with someone who truly desires me and feels comfortable enough to express that? Incredibly sexy.
I like that feeling of being thoroughly fucked, love the way my cunt eagerly clenches around someone's cock as they grip my hair that little bit tighter. How much more intense my climax is if I'm bitten at that sweet point of release, my body hyperaware and sensitive. Luckily for me I have quite a high pain threshold.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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And the ladies too
"Rough sex is one thing but a guy knowing when it's reaching abuse level is another. Most ladies like to be fucked hard and thrown around a bit during sex but I had one guy pull my hair out from the roots on one meet and that did not end well for him. Guys need to realise when they are going to far rough wise."
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We enjoy rough combined with slow and sensual. She likes to alternate between the two. One minute the guy is slowly building her up while kissing her all over and sensually touching, but without warning he switches to hard and rough, calling her names, pulling hair and pinning her down. If she is on her back, get a hand round her throat or if she is on her front, push her face into the bed. Switch it from caressing her to manhandling. And when she is squirting, she has a natural reflex to close her legs so it’s great when there are a few guys there to hold them by the ankles and knees to ensure they stay wide apart. But, never, never spit or slap her face. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Love rough sex! My ex once said could we have normal sex, I replied we do, he said no where I don’t kick you, slap you, spit at you etc I replied vanilla absolutely never |
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When I first met my little slut, she expressed to me that she likes it really rough. I was obviously like, "that's hot, no probs". I just didn't realise how rough. I know how to be dominant when needed but at the same time I'm also naturally very gentle and would never like to hurt anyone so it's still something I'm working on. My slaps are probably not firm enough and my grip around her neck is probably not tight enough. I fuck her very hard though and she loves it.
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"How rough has it got and what would you like to try but haven't yet.
“I fucked her like I hated her & kissed her like I loved her” "
Love that! Definitely how we do it. Unless she's asked me to spit in her face/mouth lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Met somesome years sgo and they said they liked it rough, and i thought oh a little slap here and there and tie her up, oh no it was a whole new term to rough that i found out and it sure opened my eyes and its something ive been slowly working on but again everyone is different on how rough they like it |
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I think there are lots of different levels of what people think of as rough. For example people have said that the guy in my videos is rough but I definitely won't say it was anything like rough sex.
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I like sex that’s enjoyable but it can depend on the guy or girl. Big macho bloke then I’d expect him to be assertive and manhandled me a bit. A more feminine guy less so.
I have played rough with female partners including derogatory language. But in each case it had built up over several occasions and getting to know her.
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"As long as everyone participating is SSC and RACK aware 
Other than that, just fuck hard."
SSC is a absolute MUST.
Surely the anyone participating in rough play should be RACk aware because if not then they shouldn't be participating. |
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