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"I personally dislike it intensely. That's not to say they shouldn't show them *as long as the woman involved has given full, informed consent*. It just means that we're unlikely to be compatible"
Oh completely agree is got to be with mutual consent. |
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"I personally dislike it intensely. That's not to say they shouldn't show them *as long as the woman involved has given full, informed consent*. It just means that we're unlikely to be compatible
Oh completely agree is got to be with mutual consent."
Do you find women are attracted by photos and videos of you with another woman? I'm just interested. |
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It's their own profile do what they like, dont listen to anyone's bullshit, there's some who will like it and some wont.
The one's who don't like it probably weren't up for meeting anyway and the one's who like it may be.
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"I personally dislike it intensely. That's not to say they shouldn't show them *as long as the woman involved has given full, informed consent*. It just means that we're unlikely to be compatible
Oh completely agree is got to be with mutual consent.
Do you find women are attracted by photos and videos of you with another woman? I'm just interested."
To be honest with you, that’s why I’ve asked the question because I don’t wanna put anyone off for having videos up.
Personally for me, I love to see single and couples put videos up, but just not sure as a single guy when they’re not I should have them on show |
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"It's their own profile do what they like, dont listen to anyone's bullshit, there's some who will like it and some wont.
The one's who don't like it probably weren't up for meeting anyway and the one's who like it may be.
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Who's giving him bull shit? |
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"It's their own profile do what they like, dont listen to anyone's bullshit, there's some who will like it and some wont.
The one's who don't like it probably weren't up for meeting anyway and the one's who like it may be.
Who's giving him bull shit?"
People give bullshit all the time on the forums, don't have this on your profile don't have that it's totally up to the individual IMO |
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"I personally dislike it intensely. That's not to say they shouldn't show them *as long as the woman involved has given full, informed consent*. It just means that we're unlikely to be compatible
Oh completely agree is got to be with mutual consent.
Do you find women are attracted by photos and videos of you with another woman? I'm just interested.
To be honest with you, that’s why I’ve asked the question because I don’t wanna put anyone off for having videos up.
Personally for me, I love to see single and couples put videos up, but just not sure as a single guy when they’re not I should have them on show"
I always think that by accurately representing yourself you'll attract people who are genuinely interested in you and are more likely to find compatible people.
I do think and this is my personal opinion only that some men put what they find attractive rather than thinking what might attract the people they're after.
You could always try without that content for a bit and see if it makes a difference.
Either way I hope you find what you're looking for  |
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"It's their own profile do what they like, dont listen to anyone's bullshit, there's some who will like it and some wont.
The one's who don't like it probably weren't up for meeting anyway and the one's who like it may be.
Who's giving him bull shit?
People give bullshit all the time on the forums, don't have this on your profile don't have that it's totally up to the individual IMO "
Of course it is but the op is asking for opinions |
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"It's their own profile do what they like, dont listen to anyone's bullshit, there's some who will like it and some wont.
The one's who don't like it probably weren't up for meeting anyway and the one's who like it may be.
Who's giving him bull shit?
People give bullshit all the time on the forums, don't have this on your profile don't have that it's totally up to the individual IMO
Of course it is but the op is asking for opinions"
Yes and that's my opinion  |
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"I personally dislike it intensely. That's not to say they shouldn't show them *as long as the woman involved has given full, informed consent*. It just means that we're unlikely to be compatible
Oh completely agree is got to be with mutual consent.
Do you find women are attracted by photos and videos of you with another woman? I'm just interested.
To be honest with you, that’s why I’ve asked the question because I don’t wanna put anyone off for having videos up.
Personally for me, I love to see single and couples put videos up, but just not sure as a single guy when they’re not I should have them on show
I always think that by accurately representing yourself you'll attract people who are genuinely interested in you and are more likely to find compatible people.
I do think and this is my personal opinion only that some men put what they find attractive rather than thinking what might attract the people they're after.
You could always try without that content for a bit and see if it makes a difference.
Either way I hope you find what you're looking for "
I never used to have videos on my profile and as a single guy, it seem like it was a real struggle to attract anybody. I’m a very genuine guy and who is just looking to enjoy other peoples company but unfortunately the fab life is very hot on here for guys so I thought I’d put some videos up of me actually meeting nice people and enjoying their company. All I wanted to know was peoples things about it that’s all I wasn’t trying to start an argument. |
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"I personally dislike it intensely. That's not to say they shouldn't show them *as long as the woman involved has given full, informed consent*. It just means that we're unlikely to be compatible
Oh completely agree is got to be with mutual consent.
Do you find women are attracted by photos and videos of you with another woman? I'm just interested.
To be honest with you, that’s why I’ve asked the question because I don’t wanna put anyone off for having videos up.
Personally for me, I love to see single and couples put videos up, but just not sure as a single guy when they’re not I should have them on show
I always think that by accurately representing yourself you'll attract people who are genuinely interested in you and are more likely to find compatible people.
I do think and this is my personal opinion only that some men put what they find attractive rather than thinking what might attract the people they're after.
You could always try without that content for a bit and see if it makes a difference.
Either way I hope you find what you're looking for
I never used to have videos on my profile and as a single guy, it seem like it was a real struggle to attract anybody. I’m a very genuine guy and who is just looking to enjoy other peoples company but unfortunately the fab life is very hot on here for guys so I thought I’d put some videos up of me actually meeting nice people and enjoying their company. All I wanted to know was peoples things about it that’s all I wasn’t trying to start an argument."
You haven't started an argument |
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"I personally dislike it intensely. That's not to say they shouldn't show them *as long as the woman involved has given full, informed consent*. It just means that we're unlikely to be compatible
Oh completely agree is got to be with mutual consent.
Do you find women are attracted by photos and videos of you with another woman? I'm just interested.
To be honest with you, that’s why I’ve asked the question because I don’t wanna put anyone off for having videos up.
Personally for me, I love to see single and couples put videos up, but just not sure as a single guy when they’re not I should have them on show
I always think that by accurately representing yourself you'll attract people who are genuinely interested in you and are more likely to find compatible people.
I do think and this is my personal opinion only that some men put what they find attractive rather than thinking what might attract the people they're after.
You could always try without that content for a bit and see if it makes a difference.
Either way I hope you find what you're looking for
I never used to have videos on my profile and as a single guy, it seem like it was a real struggle to attract anybody. I’m a very genuine guy and who is just looking to enjoy other peoples company but unfortunately the fab life is very hot on here for guys so I thought I’d put some videos up of me actually meeting nice people and enjoying their company. All I wanted to know was peoples things about it that’s all I wasn’t trying to start an argument."
I don't see anyone arguing it's just opinions |
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"I personally dislike it intensely. That's not to say they shouldn't show them *as long as the woman involved has given full, informed consent*. It just means that we're unlikely to be compatible
Oh completely agree is got to be with mutual consent.
Do you find women are attracted by photos and videos of you with another woman? I'm just interested.
To be honest with you, that’s why I’ve asked the question because I don’t wanna put anyone off for having videos up.
Personally for me, I love to see single and couples put videos up, but just not sure as a single guy when they’re not I should have them on show
I always think that by accurately representing yourself you'll attract people who are genuinely interested in you and are more likely to find compatible people.
I do think and this is my personal opinion only that some men put what they find attractive rather than thinking what might attract the people they're after.
You could always try without that content for a bit and see if it makes a difference.
Either way I hope you find what you're looking for
I never used to have videos on my profile and as a single guy, it seem like it was a real struggle to attract anybody. I’m a very genuine guy and who is just looking to enjoy other peoples company but unfortunately the fab life is very hot on here for guys so I thought I’d put some videos up of me actually meeting nice people and enjoying their company. All I wanted to know was peoples things about it that’s all I wasn’t trying to start an argument.
I don't see anyone arguing it's just opinions "
Apologies maybe I worded that wrong. Anyway, it was just to see how people felt about him that’s all |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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It is a massive turn off for us because as it is a single male profile we wonder if the pictures or the videos are put up with the consent of the other person involved.
Each their own obvs, but that's our 2p worth |
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"It is a massive turn off for us because as it is a single male profile we wonder if the pictures or the videos are put up with the consent of the other person involved.
Each their own obvs, but that's our 2p worth"
Yeah I completely agree with you about mutual consent about posting and unfortunately there are far too many bad apples here on fab that do that without consent. So I do see where you’re coming from. |
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"They do nothing for us but if there's bareback photos on there we wouldn't meet "
I do agree with you I do you play safe however once I’ve built up a rapport with one person and we basically FWB then sometimes it is without however, if we both ever go off and play with others, we had a mutual agreement that we would get tested before playing with each other again.
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I sometimes show videos and photos having sex with someone else, with full consent from them.
I don’t give a flying fig if that puts people off, I do it for me and to satisfy my exhibitionist side.  |
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"It is a massive turn off for us because as it is a single male profile we wonder if the pictures or the videos are put up with the consent of the other person involved.
Each their own obvs, but that's our 2p worth"
Same for us, big red flag and if they’ve messaged us we let them know. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Regarding consent and it’s all directed at single males like we’re some kind of criminals already convicted in the public courts of fab.
Do all females and couples have this consent too? I guess we’ll never know and have to take it on face value same as everyone else. |
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Personally I always think that the women in the photos or vids probably have no idea they are being displayed on a swinging site for everyone to see, so for that reason it's a put off.
I don't need to see who you've been fucking just need to see you as it's only you that I'd be playing with.
This isn't me giving you 'bullshit'  it's just my opinion on the question you've asked
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We personally don't care what people put up on their profile but it's our choice if we choose to engage with them though ? and some will like it and some won't ! the joys of being on a site like this ? and we'd prefer not to see lots of so called sex videos as not our thing but each to their own likes ordislikes though xx |
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My 2p worth
If you want them up, put them up.
I don't have videos myself, not having site supporter, I do have pictures with that subject matter (obviously).
In my case, each of the pictures were picked by the lady involved, and not everyone I have met has a picture up. I cropped and hid any identifying marks, usually with their input too.
Again personal opinion, if it puts anyone off, those people were highly unlikely to have wanted to have met anyway, so it just helps to filter. |
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By *batMan 35 weeks ago
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"It is a massive turn off for us because as it is a single male profile we wonder if the pictures or the videos are put up with the consent of the other person involved.
Each their own obvs, but that's our 2p worth"
Same for couples who show a third person or group shots.
In fact, same for couples. Who’s to say that the couple are still a couple? Who’s to say that both parties consent to the latest pics being on display?
But it’s usually just single guys that have the suspicious finger pointed at them.
Just my 2p worth.
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"It is a massive turn off for us because as it is a single male profile we wonder if the pictures or the videos are put up with the consent of the other person involved.
Each their own obvs, but that's our 2p worth
Same for couples who show a third person or group shots.
In fact, same for couples. Who’s to say that the couple are still a couple? Who’s to say that both parties consent to the latest pics being on display?
But it’s usually just single guys that have the suspicious finger pointed at them.
Just my 2p worth.
Gbat "
I do agree with this a bit too, men get slated for it more than anyone else.
Tbf, I don't like any profiles that show more of other people than the poster though, be that men /couples.
I can't comment on women as I'm straight.
I'm half a couple and with some couple profiles you can't tell who the actual couple are, because it's full of other men and women in various poses.
So how would I have any idea if I'd find them attractive?.
I guess it's up to each person /couple how they choose to run their accounts, as long as all parties in the pics know and approve. |
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It depends on the profile and the photo.
It’s much the same as the single ladies profiles showing them with a guy really.
In cases like mine - as a hothusband - it’s probably more relevant as a “not the wife” photo, much like you see “not the hubby” ones on hotwife profiles.
But for a single person it serms less relevant.
And as said above, it does seem that there are a lot that show much more of the lady than of the guy which seems pointless.
I guess it’s down to whether the photo is trying to suggest “i’m having a good time” or “look at the hot woman I had, so I must be good enough for you, too”. If it’s the latter, it should probably be a no. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"It's their own profile do what they like, dont listen to anyone's bullshit, there's some who will like it and some wont.
The one's who don't like it probably weren't up for meeting anyway and the one's who like it may be.
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100% agree. There will be always somebody who is negative, fuck them lol |
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Is it hot? For me - no - why - because I always wonder if the other party knows they are on here.
Same goes for couples with 'extras' in their profiles
But do I find it a turn off - no
It's your profile do what the hell you want with it, you won't please everyone
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"I don't like to see action shots with other people on any single persons profile.
I also don't like being referred to as female. To me it comes across as dehumanising. I'm a woman."
Not quite as dehumanising as being referred to as a body part as men usually are on here. |
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By *oxy jWoman 35 weeks ago
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it thier profiles to do as they wish as all should as long as within the rules if some dont loke what they see then use that as a filter n block ..
i have a couple action pics on my profile if people dont like they thats great as its likely they are not for me anyway ... profiles should be personal to the person/ s |
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