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Body type preference based on someone's verifications/pics?
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So we look for men for group sex and we sometimes get interest from guys who have profiles with action shots from previous meets and/or verifications detailing how "perfect" and "fit" the women they've slept with are.
Of course people can have different body type preferences and can like more than one type but they often choose to highlight one type- and it's not at all what Mrs. is, leaving her to wonder if they just want any hole to fuck.
We often ignore them - not out of personal body shame but more because it's a bit of a turn off to see someone gush about someone else's model-like physique... Makes her feel a bit like a consolation prize akin to the misguided mindset that some guys have that larger women are more desperate and "want it more". 
Just wondering if anyone else feels similarly? | |||
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Group sex is a very different vibe to 1 on 1/ couples + 1 meets imo | |||
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"why does it matter in a group sex scenario tbh .. I have always found in a group sex situation like. 8+ people you barely spend anytime talking /flirting etc its more just fucking and getting down and nasty
Group sex is a very different vibe to 1 on 1/ couples + 1 meets imo "Sorry to clarify, group to us means more than two. We're talking mainly about MMF/MFM here | |||
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"Couldn't think of a shorter thread title
So we look for men for group sex and we sometimes get interest from guys who have profiles with action shots from previous meets and/or verifications detailing how "perfect" and "fit" the women they've slept with are.
Of course people can have different body type preferences and can like more than one type but they often choose to highlight one type- and it's not at all what Mrs. is, leaving her to wonder if they just want any hole to fuck.
We often ignore them - not out of personal body shame but more because it's a bit of a turn off to see someone gush about someone else's model-like physique... Makes her feel a bit like a consolation prize akin to the misguided mindset that some guys have that larger women are more desperate and "want it more".
Just wondering if anyone else feels similarly? "For me, as cringe inducing as it seems, the personality of the couple is 1,000,000 more important. If you can have a laugh, and share sexual kinks, body shape/colour really has like a 0.5% impact | |||
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"I think if someone shows interest in me why would I care who they've met previously? I'm confident enough in my skin to know I'm awesome and they obviously see that in me. " Totally agree about the confidence bit- this isn't a self-esteem issue. It's more about questioning intent. As in, do they really see the awesomeness or do they think fatter women are grateful for the attention (a totally unfortunate common refrain)
We simply can't *not* wonder about that, especially when given certain signs:
For example, we've been with guys before who have gone on to verify other (athletically fitter) women and have said things such as, "they are easily the most beautiful woman they've ever met on Fab" or "their body is pure perfection - 11/10.. no one can compare"
And then they try to land a meet with us again.. I mean.. c'mon. How is that supposed to make someone feel? | |||
"If someone is interested & they stipulate a certain body type that isn't me or all past verifications have been gym fit model like then I'll avoid, it's my own insecurities but I'll think I don't fit the bill, despite them showing interest. Mrs " Fair play. It's the "all past" bit that we often get hung up on. There are plenty of other guys who genuinely appreciate Mrs' body type. We don't need to entertain guys who are looking for an easy ride just because she's chubby | |||
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"From a woman's perspective Firstly, Mrs is absolutely gorgeous! She's shaped like a woman, an actual real woman! And that is H.O.T!!! Secondly, there is more to sex than physical attraction, I obviously can't speak on behalf of the men folk, because I'm not one. But, Personally, if someone is physically a '10', but theyre as thick as 2 short planks, i just cannot even begin to imagine having sex eith them, i also cant have sex with someone who isnt up for a good laugh either! We've all (even the solid 10's) got body confidence issues and bits we aren't keen on! Ive had sex with people who are incredibly attractive physically, but if I had to pick between them and someone less physically attractive who can have a laugh, and hold a relatively intellectual conversation, who's company I feel relaxed in I'd pick the latter all day long! Everyone brings something different to the table, wether that be a banging blow job, Good banter, decent conversation, a mind blowing fuck, or jusr having a great vibe!" I agree totally. I’ve had sex with really ‘fit’ people, punching well above my weight, and I’ve had sex with people who are curvy, or BBW, or however you want to frame it. For me too it isn’t just body type = sexiness. It’s that flirtatious look, that bit of self-confidence someone has in who they are, being comfortable in their skin, that’s what, for me, is really sexy. | |||
" For example, we've been with guys before who have gone on to verify other (athletically fitter) women and have said things such as, "they are easily the most beautiful woman they've ever met on Fab" or "their body is pure perfection - 11/10.. no one can compare" And then they try to land a meet with us again.. I mean.. c'mon. How is that supposed to make someone feel?" Ah if I bothered to check out verifications I might agree with you. I would be put off anyone who wrote verifications like that, as to me, that means that they like to compare who they're meeting with others and I'm not into anyone who openly does that. It's a real passion killer. | |||
"Couldn't think of a shorter thread title
So we look for men for group sex and we sometimes get interest from guys who have profiles with action shots from previous meets and/or verifications detailing how "perfect" and "fit" the women they've slept with are.
Of course people can have different body type preferences and can like more than one type but they often choose to highlight one type- and it's not at all what Mrs. is, leaving her to wonder if they just want any hole to fuck.
We often ignore them - not out of personal body shame but more because it's a bit of a turn off to see someone gush about someone else's model-like physique... Makes her feel a bit like a consolation prize akin to the misguided mindset that some guys have that larger women are more desperate and "want it more".
Just wondering if anyone else feels similarly? "I do, if someone's verifications all white/slim women I probably won't meet them as I'm the complete opposite of that | |||
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"why does it matter in a group sex scenario tbh .. I have always found in a group sex situation like. 8+ people you barely spend anytime talking /flirting etc its more just fucking and getting down and nasty
Group sex is a very different vibe to 1 on 1/ couples + 1 meets imo
Sorry to clarify, group to us means more than two. We're talking mainly about MMF/MFM here "ok you mean a threesome which is more intimate as will ensue dedicated time between 3 of you .. group sex is vastly larger number | |||
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"Couldn't think of a shorter thread title
So we look for men for group sex and we sometimes get interest from guys who have profiles with action shots from previous meets and/or verifications detailing how "perfect" and "fit" the women they've slept with are.
Of course people can have different body type preferences and can like more than one type but they often choose to highlight one type- and it's not at all what Mrs. is, leaving her to wonder if they just want any hole to fuck.
We often ignore them - not out of personal body shame but more because it's a bit of a turn off to see someone gush about someone else's model-like physique... Makes her feel a bit like a consolation prize akin to the misguided mindset that some guys have that larger women are more desperate and "want it more".
Just wondering if anyone else feels similarly? "So obviously after a post like this, the 1st thing I did was have a look at your profile and then the pictures. What I can say is your Mrs should not have anything to worry about. From the pics I have seen my view is she has a cracking figure, nice curves in all the right places. I personally do not like seeing "action" shots of someones profile unless it is with there partner, I am not interested in how many men have been there before me. So in closing, keep your chin up, your Mrs is a hot sexy lady and if I was 3 years younger and in Ireland I would be messaging you guys | |||
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"Couldn't think of a shorter thread title
So we look for men for group sex and we sometimes get interest from guys who have profiles with action shots from previous meets and/or verifications detailing how "perfect" and "fit" the women they've slept with are.
Of course people can have different body type preferences and can like more than one type but they often choose to highlight one type- and it's not at all what Mrs. is, leaving her to wonder if they just want any hole to fuck.
We often ignore them - not out of personal body shame but more because it's a bit of a turn off to see someone gush about someone else's model-like physique... Makes her feel a bit like a consolation prize akin to the misguided mindset that some guys have that larger women are more desperate and "want it more".
Just wondering if anyone else feels similarly? "Obviously it’s not necessarily an issue I personally have as it’s rare I’m contacted first anyway… … However, I do think you’re correct in some respects in that there certainly are people here who would penetrate a hole in the wall if it was damp enough! Having said that, people’s appreciation of body types is as varied as the body types themselves. One person’s fit is another person’s meh or even ick. Ultimately if they’re only showing themselves with ultra gym bod types, they’re probably doing that for show, and you’re probably correct to avoid them. Mrs IS gorgeous however… | |||
