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By *cs74 OP Man 38 weeks ago
enniskillen |
So I have been here a while and now have female friend (who is not on Fab nor does she want to join) she is interested in a mfm but doesn’t want a whole arrangement set up. But says she would love it if it just “Happens ”. How do I find the right guy? |
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No decent man will want to get involved without knowing the woman is 100% aware and in full agreement. I suggest that if your friend has no interest in joining fab and 'just wants it to happen ' that you both go somewhere like a club and approach a man. Otherwise you're going to attract all sorts who will be willing to 'help you out' |
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By *ister_EMan 38 weeks ago
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Invite her out for a drink with a mate. Afterwards, assuming the guy is still interested, ask her what she thinks of him, if she finds him attractive, then ask if she would like to have a 3sum with him....
Don't try to get cleaver or set up a surprise 3sum. |
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I always liked the idea of doing this type of situation with an ex. I think before even considering you need to know for sure that’s what she wants to try so you’re not inadvertently forcing her into something.
If she is interested personally id suggest having it somewhat staged so you can vet the other guy. Make sure they’re going to be a right fit and not a total dick. I appreciate there’s an element of dishonesty here but it would be for her benefit more than anything. If she’s truly keen to do this |
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