So just wondering as anyone had a secret meet up with someone they swung with. Like two couples swap partners then they have a secret meet without the other half knowing. I'm guessing it must happen.. |
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"My view, well I think it must be very tempting for a number of reasons. And from the pms I'm getting it happend more than people think. "
I'm under no illusions as to how often it happen.
I can only think of one reason why people would want to meet secretly if they don't need to |
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"My view, well I think it must be very tempting for a number of reasons. And from the pms I'm getting it happend more than people think.
I'm under no illusions as to how often it happen.
I can only think of one reason why people would want to meet secretly if they don't need to"
They're c**ts? |
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"So just wondering as anyone had a secret meet up with someone they swung with. Like two couples swap partners then they have a secret meet without the other half knowing. I'm guessing it must happen.."
it happens. I had it happen to me with a former partner...
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"So just wondering as anyone had a secret meet up with someone they swung with. Like two couples swap partners then they have a secret meet without the other half knowing. I'm guessing it must happen.."
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The whole point of swinging as a couple is you can be open and honest about enjoying sex with others.
If swinging isn’t enough for someone then nothing and nobody ever will.
I cannot understand why anyone would feel the need to cheat in this lifestyle. Sadly quite a few do. |
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I agree with most here, if in the Swinging Lifestyle with your partner then why have secret meets unless you aren't happy with that partner and wanting to move on. But then it's better to just come clean and break up.
On the other hand if partnered and the other doesn't want to be in a swinging lifestyle then secret meets is the way to go. Spoken to many people on this subject and it's very very possible, even normal, for one partner to be highly sexed and the other not And lol for them to be happy in their vanilla relationship but sexually need more. The problem though, is when the secret meets become a relationship and that is the beginning of disaster and hurt.
During the Ex wife and I swinging, we met with many married / partnered people and as far as we knew and some we still know, are continuing in a good strong relationship with their partners. It always made us laugh at those who say they would never meet with partnered singles as its wrong lol. |
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"The whole point of swinging as a couple is you can be open and honest about enjoying sex with others.
If swinging isn’t enough for someone then nothing and nobody ever will.
I cannot understand why anyone would feel the need to cheat in this lifestyle. Sadly quite a few do."
Agree totally with your take on this. If you are a cpl in the swinging lifestyle and you cheat then you will always cheat as one person is not and never will be enough for them. I think they are scum myself.
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"I agree with most here, if in the Swinging Lifestyle with your partner then why have secret meets unless you aren't happy with that partner and wanting to move on. But then it's better to just come clean and break up.
On the other hand if partnered and the other doesn't want to be in a swinging lifestyle then secret meets is the way to go. Spoken to many people on this subject and it's very very possible, even normal, for one partner to be highly sexed and the other not And lol for them to be happy in their vanilla relationship but sexually need more. The problem though, is when the secret meets become a relationship and that is the beginning of disaster and hurt.
During the Ex wife and I swinging, we met with many married / partnered people and as far as we knew and some we still know, are continuing in a good strong relationship with their partners. It always made us laugh at those who say they would never meet with partnered singles as its wrong lol."
Why does it make you laugh. We would never meet married lady or single guy ever. |
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"Why does it make you laugh. We would never meet married lady or single guy ever."
So your choice is only other couples. Nothing wrong with that at all, each to their own swinging lifestyle. The laughing is about those couples or singles that state they will only meet singles if they are not partnered. |
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