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By *ezandCCouple 44 weeks ago
Telford |
To be honest this is something that surprised us, we aren’t into it, its not something we want to do, but we honestly thought more people would be into mff scenarios that mmf, I’m not saying those that like it wouldn’t want the other just surprised.
Is it that more people are into that or is it that this site is male dominated so it’s the most likely scenario?
Just thinking out loud |
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By *enatton2Couple 44 weeks ago
West Midlands |
When we first started out I think my obsession was introducing another fem to our play. I get two women and also get to watch Tani play bi. The more time passed and the more meets we had, I realised watching her get fucked by another guy was my biggest turn on and still is. Although I’m no cuck, I like to be amongst the action too  |
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By *eyeYCouple 44 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"To be honest this is something that surprised us, we aren’t into it, its not something we want to do, but we honestly thought more people would be into mff scenarios that mmf, I’m not saying those that like it wouldn’t want the other just surprised.
Is it that more people are into that or is it that this site is male dominated so it’s the most likely scenario?
Just thinking out loud"
Fair point! It's the far easiest scenario to facilitate.. So.. |
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"To be honest this is something that surprised us, we aren’t into it, its not something we want to do, but we honestly thought more people would be into mff scenarios that mmf, I’m not saying those that like it wouldn’t want the other just surprised.
Is it that more people are into that or is it that this site is male dominated so it’s the most likely scenario?
Just thinking out loud"
I'm always suprised by how many couples and men are looking for ffm (maybe because I'm straight)
I think many couples resort to mmf, because it's so hard to get that attraction between 4 people and meeting ladies for an ffm doesn't seem to be easy either. |
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"When we first started out I think my obsession was introducing another fem to our play. I get two women and also get to watch Tani play bi. The more time passed and the more meets we had, I realised watching her get fucked by another guy was my biggest turn on and still is. Although I’m no cuck, I like to be amongst the action too "
I'm very similar so I'd struggle to be in a long term relationship if my partner didn't need extra cock in her life too. |
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I think a lot of guys in the vanilla world would love to see their wife with another guy but they are told scared to make the jump. The great thing about fabs is that it is full of couples who are confident in their relationships and they know what they both want - I love that! |
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I think only extremely insecure and jealous people don't at least think about it. Before we started this in January it was part of our bedroom talk. We loved talking about past sexuall experiences as it turned us both on. We thought for a while we were weird but now I think it's completely normal and like someone else said previously i think most vanilla couples just don't admit it.  |
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By *WB85Man 44 weeks ago
Staffordshire |
There's so many different types of swingers.
Me and the wife play with couples and singles but not in the same room.
I like to hear all about it afterwards but I don't want to see it. |
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"I think only extremely insecure and jealous people don't at least think about it. Before we started this in January it was part of our bedroom talk. We loved talking about past sexuall experiences as it turned us both on. We thought for a while we were weird but now I think it's completely normal and like someone else said previously i think most vanilla couples just don't admit it. "
Interesting post x
Message me to chat further x |
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I was chatting to some old friends about my own experiences.
When I first discovered the scene as a single the expectation was that all the couples easily find other couples to play with regularly.
But it was the open and frank discussion with friends who explained that the mmf meets are so much better for the lady of the couple. She knows the connection is going to be there and will work well, unlike the mfmf meets where there are four strong variables.
So the take away from that enlightenment was the ladies are the centre of all of this which seems to be quickly forgotten. |
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"I was chatting to some old friends about my own experiences.
When I first discovered the scene as a single the expectation was that all the couples easily find other couples to play with regularly.
But it was the open and frank discussion with friends who explained that the mmf meets are so much better for the lady of the couple. She knows the connection is going to be there and will work well, unlike the mfmf meets where there are four strong variables.
So the take away from that enlightenment was the ladies are the centre of all of this which seems to be quickly forgotten."
Very well put
MMF is way easier for a couple to achieve
Four way attraction variables are so tricky |
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By *enatton2Couple 44 weeks ago
West Midlands |
"When we first started out I think my obsession was introducing another fem to our play. I get two women and also get to watch Tani play bi. The more time passed and the more meets we had, I realised watching her get fucked by another guy was my biggest turn on and still is. Although I’m no cuck, I like to be amongst the action too
I'm very similar so I'd struggle to be in a long term relationship if my partner didn't need extra cock in her life too."
Yeah I do wonder about that! So lucky to have Tani  |
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"When we first started out I think my obsession was introducing another fem to our play. I get two women and also get to watch Tani play bi. The more time passed and the more meets we had, I realised watching her get fucked by another guy was my biggest turn on and still is. Although I’m no cuck, I like to be amongst the action too
I'm very similar so I'd struggle to be in a long term relationship if my partner didn't need extra cock in her life too.
Yeah I do wonder about that! So lucky to have Tani "
You are indeed. I know what I want and need so I'm very up front when considering new relationships now.
Partners need to be ethically non monogamous as a bare minimum and also cool about me being bi curious ?? |
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"'Horses for courses'. I love watching my wife being fucked hard especially after loads of foreplay!
You left out
Except by "blacks and asians" like your profile says.
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They also have other criteria aswell, age , shaven etc |
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Love when we get the chance to share Mrs McGee. Nothing hotter than watching her play with some one else.
We started with Ff play which was great. But watching her with another man is the biggest turn on.
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"As swingers we think it’s the most normal thing in the world to look over at our wife and see her with her legs wide open, being ploughed by another dick.
Are we just wired up differently on here?"
Doing just this later on today and going to be in our marital bed too  |
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By *andb13Couple 43 weeks ago
Bradford |
It's probably a fantasy of way more people than you think.. but the actual going through with it is a while different thing.. the worry of what each other will think afterwards being the biggest thing from the people we have talked with. |
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"I would love to share the mrs. We’ve spoken about it but she said she only would if we were abroad on holiday as she’s afraid of people knowing ha she loves her pics being shared tho "
Rather than go abroad, bring her to Doncaster for an overnight or weekend break. Nobody would know her here and I'd love to share her 
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We enjoy sharing but it's not for everyone.
You have to trust each other, be open with each other about how you feel before and after.
Our first mfm was nerve wrecking for me (Mrs R) but having a few drinks in a bar helped ease the nerves.
The banter, flirting and innuendos help and we're a turn on sat there thinking both these men want to have me and I get to play with two cocks...mmm mmm
Apparently my hubby watching me give the other guy a bj is a turn on.
We have had a couple of meets but it's not easy getting the timing right for a meet and definitely not easy finding a relatively local regular.
A lot of potential matches just want to meet instantly and fuck and go.
Whilst we enjoy mfm meets we have a very good sex life without sharing but if we did finds the right match we both feel it adds some fun so why not. Xx
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"To be honest this is something that surprised us, we aren’t into it, its not something we want to do, but we honestly thought more people would be into mff scenarios that mmf, I’m not saying those that like it wouldn’t want the other just surprised.
Is it that more people are into that or is it that this site is male dominated so it’s the most likely scenario?
Just thinking out loud"
I think that, unless you're bi, mff's are extremely boring and gets too vanilla...
All about mmfs though
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"'Horses for courses'. I love watching my wife being fucked hard especially after loads of foreplay!
You left out
Except by "blacks and asians" like your profile says.
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Those kind of statements and other preferences don't phase me I mentally thank them for saving my time and helping me filter.
I'm always going to be black and I'm always going to be a short arse and if a person doesn't like facial hair much as I live to eat pussy I'm rather fond of my goatee and I'm not shaving it off for anyone lol |
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"It's probably a fantasy of way more people than you think.. but the actual going through with it is a while different thing.. the worry of what each other will think afterwards being the biggest thing from the people we have talked with."
Once upon a time knowing that someone else was fucking my partner was a challenge that I really struggled with.
These days it's one of my biggest turn ons and boy is that a bonus. I used to think that nothing could top the thrill I used to get from fucking another mans wife in his presence. It's still a massive turn on but now it's slightly overshadowed by the rush I get when it's my partner being fucked. |
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Sex is just an act of pleasure so why wouldn’t you want to let your wife enjoy the pleasure of receiving other cocks and the attention she gets knowing other guys want her !
To us it seems the most natural thing in the world ! |
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Yup, I think we must be wired differently - and as far as we’re concerned, we’re blessed. For us, there’s no greater pleasure than seeing each other play with others. We got onto this for MFM play, but we’re lucky enough to have played with full swap couples and have some FFM encounters too. Basically, we’re a pair of filthy buggers who just love sex x |
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