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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What do u ladies really think about being kinky? Meaning the so called taboo subjects like rimming, water sports, being tied up and having all control taken from u? Personally I have recently had my kinky side released and am after opinions and idea's,what do you ladies want from a hot kinky night!
p.s. I always use two safety words one as a stop and one as an amber light  |
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"What do u ladies really think about being kinky? Meaning the so called taboo subjects like rimming, water sports, being tied up and having all control taken from u? "
They aren't kinky or taboo!!! I can't mention the kinks I'm into, because they aren't allowed on here (not animals or children).
I personally think that kinky has a place in swinging, but there are many that don't, including most kinksters. |
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Kink or kinky is a matter for the individual. Some people would regard swinging as kinky...some may regard anal as kinky - for others it is mainstream...
it is all about being comfortable with what you deem kinky....
Apart from the illegals of course... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do u ladies really think about being kinky? Meaning the so called taboo subjects like rimming, water sports, being tied up and having all control taken from u?
They aren't kinky or taboo!!! I can't mention the kinks I'm into, because they aren't allowed on here (not animals or children).
I personally think that kinky has a place in swinging, but there are many that don't, including most kinksters. "
Haha ...now we need to know what you're talking about  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really I didn't know we would get a forum ban for talking about in depth bdsm... Good job I keep this one for nsa and use my other one for the other stuffs.
Will keep stum then, but I don't think rimming or ws is kinky, it is a good start into investigating the wider scene though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really I didn't know we would get a forum ban for talking about in depth bdsm... Good job I keep this one for nsa and use my other one for the other stuffs.
Will keep stum then, but I don't think rimming or ws is kinky, it is a good start into investigating the wider scene though."
Rimming is kinky?????  |
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As I've just said in a private message, some of the stuff I enjoy (with the right person, not someone who read 50 shades, and now thinks they are a Dom), makes experienced kinksters raise their eye-brows and steer the conversation towards their kids school rankings.
It's what you enjoy. Have fun doing it, and stay safe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thought I was well KINKY till I ran a fetish/bdsm club.
First few events made my eyes water a little.
Now I just go with the flow and enjoy some if not all of it.
Its only kinky the first time, after that its "lets try something more next time". |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Isn't this the danger. You have to go further each time?"
No, we all have boundaries and a good Dom always knows more about you than you do youself! That is why you need someone experienced not someone who have just read 50 shades! I would never put myself in their hands
But saying that, I am glad to already have someone to fulfil my needs as have been trying to find others for the last two years and so far NOTHING!
It's not the easiest kink to find someone to enjoy with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All Doms at some stage was new, so its more to do with trust than experience, when we got first on the scene we was new, but I wouldnt do stuff that I considered dangerous breathplay, hard impact play, eletro, needle etc etc
though we played at other stuff I could and we could learn together, rope, wax, restraints, flogging, so not all newbies are stupid.
A little read up and listen to others, watch and then a pratice. and anyone with the right mentality and attitude can become Dom and in time a good one, depending how far they want to go. and the rest comes with experience on the scene. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One persons kink is another's norm! I don't think I am kinky at all  "
If you're not kinky I'm not bi 
The op could always try the market in Birmingham, the bizarre one, third sunday of each month.... I'll be taking a certain lady along, as soon as she books her flights!!!!
I agree with what the others have said really, read, read and read some more.
Learn the lingo, (cnc, tpe, cp, etc) then munches, demo's and exploration.  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I think the lady in question will be booking the flights soon...So bring on the fun and yes, it is always a learning curve and I think it always will be as long as we all want to learn more and push certain boundaries |
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