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"I don't mean it in a rude way at all. I love bigger women and think they are so much better in bed than skinny women "
that's a little rude... I have swung at size 6 to 36 and all sizes in between
. I'm the same whatever..it's not the size of someone |
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Every time I post a item on here I get abuse and shut down. I'm sorry my words don't make everyone happy but I'm allowed to say what I want. I have not once said anything bad about chunky women or skinny women. I'm allowed my opinion and I so much prefer fucking a fat woman. Or should I say a women with a dress size between 16 18 to be correct |
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By *nnCeeWoman 45 weeks ago
East of Eden, West of Hell |
"You do know "obese" is a medical term and used for anyone with a bmi of over 25. So even chubby women are obese and very large women are morbidly obese. Both medical terms"
BMI 25-30 is classed as "Overweight", actually... |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Some girls are bigger than others.
Some girls mothers are bigger than other girls mothers.
My preference too, love those soft curves whatever term people use.
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"I don't mean it in a rude way at all. I love bigger women and think they are so much better in bed than skinny women "
Dude you offended bigger women with the title, and slim women with this comment. I think your best hope is to target completely average women next |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"I don't know why everyone is going crazy over my post. I have said I prefer my women with a beautiful natural body and my wife is even a bigger woman "
Don't worry about it, some people are too sensitive even to a compliment. That's the wacky world we live in. |
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"I don't know why everyone is going crazy over my post. I have said I prefer my women with a beautiful natural body and my wife is even a bigger woman
Don't worry about it, some people are too sensitive even to a compliment. That's the wacky world we live in."
totally agree |
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Guys reading this thread, don’t DM women by pressing the “reply privately” button. It’s a big rude anyway, but -more pressingly- means I now have a string of messages entitled, “fat woman” it feels a bit offensive |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"Guys reading this thread, don’t DM women by pressing the “reply privately” button. It’s a big rude anyway, but -more pressingly- means I now have a string of messages entitled, “fat woman” it feels a bit offensive "
In my mind it's a complement, deleted mine just in time lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"Are there more men wanting big women than women wanting big men? There's always posts from men expressing their love for BBWs but I don't think I can remember seeing any for BBMs  "
From my own experience definitely more men looking than women, across whole the spectrum.
All I see is women looking for BBC lol |
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"Are there more men wanting big women than women wanting big men? There's always posts from men expressing their love for BBWs but I don't think I can remember seeing any for BBMs "
_ello can I say that you look awesome |
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By *elloWoman 45 weeks ago
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"I don't know why some people have gone crazy over this. I love bigger women or what ever the politicly correct term is "
You've reached 40 years of age and haven't gained the awareness that calling women fat even if they are fat is not the gentleman thing to do |
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"Are there more men wanting big women than women wanting big men? There's always posts from men expressing their love for BBWs but I don't think I can remember seeing any for BBMs "
Probably cos a lot of guys on here are porn addled and have to tuck women into neat and tidy porn categories |
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"Guys reading this thread, don’t DM women by pressing the “reply privately” button. It’s a big rude anyway, but -more pressingly- means I now have a string of messages entitled, “fat woman” it feels a bit offensive "
I will never understand the need to reply privately when the content of the message could be said on the forum! |
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Well I think I have worked most of you out. You don't like people who have a opinion or a way of talking. I have only used the words fat women and you have all burnt me down. I'm sorry for saying fat women.( Which I adore ). Grow up |
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I like larger curvier ladies but the chemistry and how you click has to be right too. If I met a very slim lady and we got on well, then I wouldn’t send her packing! There are certain features I like-but it’s not the be all and end all. |
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I don’t mind been called fat it doesn’t offend me, but sometimes a choice of wording is better.
My issues are a lot of guys don’t want to be associated with us chunkies and feel like some dirty little secret. Or we are a pity fuck. |
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"You can't call a fat woman a fat woman!
You need to dance around the facts using nicer, more sensitive words. "
You absolutely can. But then don't be surprised if it makes her drier than the Sahara.
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This insistence on doubling down baffles me. A whole load of women of the sought-after body type post to say that they don't really like the terminology being used. And rather than think "ah, this is useful information in my quest to have sex" the man becomes even more resolute. Genuinely baffling.
J |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"You can't call a fat woman a fat woman!
You need to dance around the facts using nicer, more sensitive words.
You absolutely can. But then don't be surprised if it makes her drier than the Sahara.
J"
Why does it matter how dry they are? |
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"You can't call a fat woman a fat woman!
You need to dance around the facts using nicer, more sensitive words.
You absolutely can. But then don't be surprised if it makes her drier than the Sahara.
J
Why does it matter how dry they are? "
Not one to care about her pleasure then? |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"You can't call a fat woman a fat woman!
You need to dance around the facts using nicer, more sensitive words.
You absolutely can. But then don't be surprised if it makes her drier than the Sahara.
J
Why does it matter how dry they are?
Not one to care about her pleasure then? "
Not really. Not unless I'm sleeping with them. I was talking about describing someone, not sleeping with them. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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This thread is a rollercoaster.
I don't mind being called fat because fat isn't a dirty word.
That being said, being fat doesn't make me better in bed, it just aligns with what your preferences are so yoi would enjoy it more. |
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OP, however you worded it someone would have been offended, I'm aware I am fat, infact it was pointed out to me by my ex fuck buddy about 6 months ago and I was very upset by it, to the point I started eating alot better and as a result lost 3 stone already but at the end of the day, the guy wasn't lying, he only told the truth and while not nice to hear, his choice of worded probably saved my life a bit. |
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By *iss.ddWoman 44 weeks ago
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"Everyone's entitled to their preferences, what I don't think is cool is pitting one group of people against another. We're all fabulous, whether we're fat or not."
You can't build one group up by putting another down.
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Bosomy, busty, buxom, curvaceous, full-bosomed, sonsie, stacked, voluptuous, shapely, having a well-proportioned and pleasing shape.
There you go OP. I have no issue with the word fat. It’s a descriptor and I am fat. Society has turned it into a negative word.
But this may save you in your next post 
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By *eren4891Woman 44 weeks ago
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"Think you could have worded the title better 
What is wrong with the title? Why is it so bad to use the word fat? "
I guess as its used usually in a derogatory manner and how many are bullied through life being called "fat" "fatty" etc |
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"Think you could have worded the title better
What is wrong with the title? Why is it so bad to use the word fat?
I guess as its used usually in a derogatory manner and how many are bullied through life being called "fat" "fatty" etc "
But he went on to say how much more he enjoys a bigger girl, I get your point though |
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if you love bigger women, how could you say that slim ones are better, if you have choice you will always choose what you like and is better for you,is not a problem if you like both,but only one will be better,dont get me wrong but otherwise it doesn't make sense |
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they do ned to be defined becouse is wrong,every person with a profile here specifies their preferences what they like and what they expect.for example i could ask why man need to be defined,you looking man 30 47so how many 48yo or more gents is frust rated,another lady well bild muscular,next well endowed,what we like does not mean that we discriminate others. |
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"You do know "obese" is a medical term and used for anyone with a bmi of over 25. So even chubby women are obese and very large women are morbidly obese. Both medical terms"
Over 30.
Three categories. |
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Could have said how he'd like to smash in my gunt.
I've had one of those in the last few weeks, silvery tongue devil made me so wet.
I literally pissed myself laughing at the cheeky sod before blocking him.
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I am s size 18, personally am not offended by the term fat woman. However, if someone was wanting to get me into bed and they referred to me as a fat woman then it would very much kill the mood and make me feel self conscious. Regardless as to the man liking it or not. Fat is not an attractive word that makes you feel sexy. Maybe curvy is a more acceptable word eg "I love your curves".
Especially if you want to get anywhere lol |
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By *rpeggioCouple 44 weeks ago
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"my word young man choose your words more carefully,, why should I choose my words differently "
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You don't have to choose differently, but you could. It's your choice to be the kind of person that does not care about offending others without a reason. Clearly many people here felt that your choice of fat instead of large is offensive and some women in the thread said they felt offended. Then, it's been also your choice, again, how to respond and you chose to double down and ignore people who said they felt offended for your use of a word that is very insensitive of how some people (not all) may feel about their body sizes and looks. |
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By *rpeggioCouple 44 weeks ago
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"I’m fat you saying fat women doesn’t offend me 
Ditto. Why would facts offend?"
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Being fat is not a fact, it's a subjective judgement. Weighing more than the average or median person in a population is a fact. The choice of word to describe that person can be offensive or not, and there are many more choices than fat. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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I like slim, or curvy and athletic women. Fat for me is when you have folds and unrelated to dress size as we are all different, again unrelated to BBW ETC I have been with some wonderfully big women but was not fat. |
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"I’m fat you saying fat women doesn’t offend me
Ditto. Why would facts offend?
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Being fat is not a fact, it's a subjective judgement. Weighing more than the average or median person in a population is a fact. The choice of word to describe that person can be offensive or not, and there are many more choices than fat."
Saying I am a fat woman = I have excess adipose tissue, I may have extra visceral fat, I may have extra triglycerides = I have excess fat. Fact. I don't know the weight of an average person, but I bet I weigh less than the average.
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