What would you guys consider the correct winking etiquette, As we have had several times we get winked, wink back and then everything is silence should we just message them and take the reigns or is it a sign the other part of the couple was probably like actually no thanks lol |
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By *avin77Man 22 weeks ago
camberley |
"What would you guys consider the correct winking etiquette, As we have had several times we get winked, wink back and then everything is silence should we just message them and take the reigns or is it a sign the other part of the couple was probably like actually no thanks lol"
Confuses me to if honest
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By *MandMMCouple 22 weeks ago
Welwyn garden city |
"What would you guys consider the correct winking etiquette, As we have had several times we get winked, wink back and then everything is silence should we just message them and take the reigns or is it a sign the other part of the couple was probably like actually no thanks lol"
We've had this many times, so we just don't bother with winks. It feels like they are saying we're interested, but want you do send the first message |
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By *lhr1061Man 22 weeks ago
Warwickshire |
If I receive a wink and like what I see, I'll wink back and message if they haven't messaged me soon after. Having said that, I received a wink a couple of days ago, fabbed a few of my pics too, sent a polite message thanking them and asking would they like to chat, and heard nothing back  |
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By *n2YouMan 22 weeks ago
Notts somewhere |
If I get Winked at, I will send a message, hoping it's a sign that the door for chatting is open.
However; I've spoken to some guys on here and other sites where winking is a thing..
Most guys will wink, because they don't want to waste the effort on an "amazing opening message" - only for it to be deleted or ignored. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"If the profile takes our fancy then we will reach out with a message.
Out of every 10 we get maybe 2 messages back."
that is less than i would have thought - bit rude not to even get a response |
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By * and BCouple 22 weeks ago
Durham |
"What would you guys consider the correct winking etiquette, As we have had several times we get winked, wink back and then everything is silence should we just message them and take the reigns or is it a sign the other part of the couple was probably like actually no thanks lol"
We don't even look at winks anymore for that exact reason. It says on our profile, so if people do wink, it just shows they haven't even taken the time to read our profile |
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By *stwo60Couple 22 weeks ago
Hampshire |
We’ve had winks from couples, we will always respond, normally with a message thanking them for the interest even if it’s not what we’re looking for. Some we have responded to really politely have then just completely blanked us. Just don’t fucking wink then! |
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By * and BCouple 22 weeks ago
Durham |
"I would just message regardless, both parties are clearly interested.
Might as well strike up a conversation first"
We never did wink back, used to follow up with a message but still nothing came back. Hence what we said above, just don't bother looking anymore   |
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By *ast_jjMan 22 weeks ago
Dublin and London |
"If we get a wink we check out their profile, if we're interested we wink back and follow that up with a polite thank you for the wink and hopefully start to chat.
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This is how I do it also.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"If we get a wink we check out their profile, if we're interested we wink back and follow that up with a polite thank you for the wink and hopefully start to chat.
This is how I do it also. "
That, winks are a nice gateway. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"Our system is on our profile.
We wink, and you wink back, we say hi.
You wink and we wink back, you say hi....This seems to work OK. "
That is the system that works the best I think  |
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"Our system is on our profile.
We wink, and you wink back, we say hi.
You wink and we wink back, you say hi....This seems to work OK. "
This is the wink etiquette I use too, especially as it seems logical and sensible to me  |
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"Our system is on our profile.
We wink, and you wink back, we say hi.
You wink and we wink back, you say hi....This seems to work OK. "
This makes the most sense, but I don't really like winking, just say hello. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"What would you guys consider the correct winking etiquette, As we have had several times we get winked, wink back and then everything is silence should we just message them and take the reigns or is it a sign the other part of the couple was probably like actually no thanks lol"
The winking option for me is like the “ like” button of the faces of books some people pay attention to it or they don’t , personally I think it’s there to test the waters and always respond accordingly |
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I like what a few people have said here already….
-1st party winks if they are interested
-2nd party reciprocates with a wink back if they are also interested
-1st party then messages to introduce themselves |
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Yeah we seem to be the same as most people.
If we wink and they wink back then we message.
If they wink and we like what we see then we wink back to show we are interested and presume they will message.
If we wink and no reply then we move on, and if someone winks us and we aren't interested we don't reply
Pretty simple really |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"What would you guys consider the correct winking etiquette, As we have had several times we get winked, wink back and then everything is silence should we just message them and take the reigns or is it a sign the other part of the couple was probably like actually no thanks lol"
Who wouldn’t wink. You look stunning |
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