Of late I have just decided to go for it.
I am a member of the other Fet site, and several clubs, but I've always tried to keep the Fetish and kinky side to a minimum on here. Lately though I have decided to just bare all and only do meets and clubs events with similar interests. I found my self enjoying kinkier events catered more towards the fetish community rather than just swing.
I am afraid it is a little too out there for most on this site. I do have a vanilla side as I do not like to scare people off.  |
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By *oxy jWoman 44 weeks ago
somerset |
i find alot of men think they are more horny or more kinky or want sex more its all bullshit there will be women off the scale just as there will be men ...
in fact more than often those who like to tell others they are kinky or more horny or want more sex when they meet who they think are their match guess what they are none of what they say they are ...
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By *ylvieMWoman 44 weeks ago
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I'm kinky too, and your profile would put me off because it looks more fetishy than kinky.
A kink is something you enjoy and enhances the scene, a fetish is something you can't get off without.
Also kink relies on some trust between partners, and I absolutely would not play a hard-core scene without getting to know what someone is like being vanilla.
You also say you do have a vanilla side, but you haven't written that in your profile so people are gonna go off the fact you want solely kink based meets and hour kink based pictures. |
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"I take all points, my question was just pointing out is it too much for this site?
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If it's too much for the site your content will be rejected.
If they're letting it fly, it's obviously vanilla enough for them. |
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By *eeveeTV/TS 44 weeks ago
Doncaster |
"Of late I have just decided to go for it.
I am a member of the other Fet site, and several clubs, but I've always tried to keep the Fetish and kinky side to a minimum on here. Lately though I have decided to just bare all and only do meets and clubs events with similar interests. I found my self enjoying kinkier events catered more towards the fetish community rather than just swing.
I am afraid it is a little too out there for most on this site. I do have a vanilla side as I do not like to scare people off. "
Just be careful unzipping those shorts - unless CBT is one of your kinks! |
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No matter how kinky you think you are, remember, there’s a German out there willing to eat you…
In all seriousness, the site is what you make of it. We are all Venn diagrams, the more circles, the smaller the intersection thus the smaller the pool of options. You haven’t asked for profile advice, so shall not give it. But even on the other site which isn’t meet oriented, you’d be advised to get to munches and socials first before expecting play.
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