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First Ever Meet - any offers?
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"i get bad for asking, i get bad for saying just dinner n drinks, how does this site work  "
ok, this is a forum, use it to join in others posts and see how things go, see how the site works. Dont take offence its all new to you and its understandable.
Look at profiles that you think match what you are looking for and send them a nice message. See how it goes from there. x |
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over a year ago
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"i get bad for asking, i get bad for saying just dinner n drinks, how does this site work "
Am I just really old? "I get bad" - can someone translate please?
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"i get bad for asking, i get bad for saying just dinner n drinks, how does this site work
Am I just really old? "I get bad" - can someone translate please?
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No idea!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, if you really want to use the Forums for meet requests, there is a Meet Requests Forum - that's the best place for it.
Alternatively, you can put up a 'meet today' notice on your profile....
Alternatively, you can browse the profiles of people in your area and approach them through THEIR profiles ....
Alternatively you can sign-up for one of the organised parties or socials in your area......
Alternatively, you can join the Chat Room and get to know people that way .....
There are lots of routes to getting meets! But saying "Here I am, come and get me!" really doesn't work for single guys on Fab. Sorry!  |
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"OP, if you really want to use the Forums for meet requests, there is a Meet Requests Forum - that's the best place for it.
Alternatively, you can put up a 'meet today' notice on your profile....
Alternatively, you can browse the profiles of people in your area and approach them through THEIR profiles ....
Alternatively you can sign-up for one of the organised parties or socials in your area......
Alternatively, you can join the Chat Room and get to know people that way .....
There are lots of routes to getting meets! But saying "Here I am, come and get me!" really doesn't work for single guys on Fab. Sorry! "
So what's the alternative?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, if you really want to use the Forums for meet requests, there is a Meet Requests Forum - that's the best place for it.
Alternatively, you can put up a 'meet today' notice on your profile....
Alternatively, you can browse the profiles of people in your area and approach them through THEIR profiles ....
Alternatively you can sign-up for one of the organised parties or socials in your area......
Alternatively, you can join the Chat Room and get to know people that way .....
There are lots of routes to getting meets! But saying "Here I am, come and get me!" really doesn't work for single guys on Fab. Sorry! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I feel many that have posted above have given you really good advice... don't see it as an hostile attack towards you. Like many have said, people on this site understand you are new (at the moment). My suggestion is to take the advice(s) that has been given and put them to use.
Don't come on the site looking solely for sex, you will tend to most likely come across aggressive or disrespectful. If you want solely sex you can do well going on Plenty Of Fish.
OK for starters, take time to write a good profile... I can't give you good pointers in this area as I too am not very good at it.
Do contribute to the forum discussions and have fun making new friends and where ever and when ever possible go for the social meets, that way people will know you better and you might find individuals you have things in common with which increases your chances of a meet.
I hope this helps mate. All the best buddy. |
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"i get bad for asking, i get bad for saying just dinner n drinks, how does this site work
Am I just really old? "I get bad" - can someone translate please?
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Its this new pathetically idiotic saying that has sprung up from the film Ted. When people do something or say something wrong and get found out, they say 'my bad' blooming stupid if you ask me  |
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"anyone fancy coming to my flat in newcastle for a meal and a few drinks
open to offers
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You have probably realised by now that this wasn't the best place to put this request. However I think that.starting out with dinner and drinks is a very nice way to go about a meet and says a lot about your willingness to make someone comfortable. I hope you find what you're looking for here. One more thing I would say is that a single woman might be a bit wary of going to a mans flat alone so a drink in a neutral place might be a good idea.
The other thing is being young isn't a crime although some people seem to think that it's a reason to be intolerant of your inexperience. |
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"Your straight but have a tv/ts as a friend, rather confusing my friend "
Try not to worry about this person's narrow minded advice though?
What's confusing about having friends? Whether they be men, women, or TV's? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hes just down with homeboys and keeping it real in his hood or is that "my bad" and i am wrong."
he might not be from the hood, maybe hes from the ghetto??? |
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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago
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"Your straight but have a tv/ts as a friend, rather confusing my friend "
Nothing wrong with that
I am straight, but i have one bloke on my friend list. Does that make me gay? Not at all
Yes he post in the " wrong place", he hurt nobody and will take on board all the good advises.
But to question his friends list is a bit......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your straight but have a tv/ts as a friend, rather confusing my friend "
I don't understand that comment at all? Are straight men not allowed to have tv/ta friends? What next? Won't be able to have gay ones? Or coloured?
Very odd. |
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