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I am notorious bad at flirting .... I have to get Mr to do a lot of the chats as I am just blunt and if someone says something flirty with me I can't reply
So can you...? Do you need flirty banter before you would meet.
I am great at being friendly and welcoming and saying " shall we have some fun" but can't do the small talk flirty stuff lol...
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By *T89Man 38 weeks ago
Llandudno |
"I am notorious bad at flirting .... I have to get Mr to do a lot of the chats as I am just blunt and if someone says something flirty with me I can't reply
So can you...? Do you need flirty banter before you would meet.
I am great at being friendly and welcoming and saying " shall we have some fun" but can't do the small talk flirty stuff lol...
Cali "
I'm good at flirting if the other person is doing it also,but trying to hold a conversation, if there ain't much coming back is hard. Flirting is fine but knowing what to say first to someone on here is my issue. Never get a reply  |
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By *avin77Man 38 weeks ago
camberley |
"I am notorious bad at flirting .... I have to get Mr to do a lot of the chats as I am just blunt and if someone says something flirty with me I can't reply
So can you...? Do you need flirty banter before you would meet.
I am great at being friendly and welcoming and saying " shall we have some fun" but can't do the small talk flirty stuff lol...
Cali "
I'm awful lol. Always polite but awful hahaha |
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By *ularliWoman 38 weeks ago
Worcester |
"I am terrible over the phone or in messages, I'm good at dropping some sexual innuendos, but I much prefer to do my flirting in person. "
Oh on the phone and in person I’m quite good at it. Online….nope. I would much rather talk to someone as texting just becomes boring. |
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By *rs spicyCouple 38 weeks ago
Chesterfield near centre |
I'm awful at noticing when someone is flirting with me when I'm on a night out. People have to point out that someone is flirting.
I'm out on Friday night so I will see if I pick up on it!
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I have many skills (without sounding too cocky), but flirting is one skill I have never mastered.
I am oblivious to attention from women and when I try to flirt, more often then not end up putting my foot in my mouth |
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I’m a massive fan of flirting and teasing and giving banter and taking it back to begin with when first speaking to someone.
Looks will fade eventually so I always want someone that I can bounce off perosnality wise in my opinion anyway |
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"I’m a massive fan of flirting and teasing and giving banter and taking it back to begin with when first speaking to someone.
Looks will fade eventually so I always want someone that I can bounce off perosnality wise in my opinion anyway"
We agree  |
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"I'm awful at noticing when someone is flirting with me when I'm on a night out. People have to point out that someone is flirting.
I'm out on Friday night so I will see if I pick up on it!
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Phew it’s not just me then.
Haha
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"I am notorious bad at flirting .... I have to get Mr to do a lot of the chats as I am just blunt and if someone says something flirty with me I can't reply
So can you...? Do you need flirty banter before you would meet.
I am great at being friendly and welcoming and saying " shall we have some fun" but can't do the small talk flirty stuff lol...
Cali "
I'm exactly the same so leave a lot of messaging to the Mr. Sometimes I can chat back and forth with people for a while and then a message will completely throw me and I literally have no idea how to reply. I can't do flirty conversation in person either. Or sexy talk |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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I can do it and do recognise when flirting is happening, but J doesn't pick up on the signals so I have to take her aside and tell her when someone is interested. |
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By *-jonMan 38 weeks ago
London |
You’re already there with being friendly. Keep that trait, they’re both closely attached. Then just let your attraction shine through your friendly nature. Maybe add a little more cheekiness and you’re there  |
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"I am notorious bad at flirting .... I have to get Mr to do a lot of the chats as I am just blunt and if someone says something flirty with me I can't reply
So can you...? Do you need flirty banter before you would meet.
I am great at being friendly and welcoming and saying " shall we have some fun" but can't do the small talk flirty stuff lol...
Cali "
Very bad when I get nervous, but when I'm feeling tip top i'll flirt the night away |
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"I can do it and do recognise when flirting is happening, but J doesn't pick up on the signals so I have to take her aside and tell her when someone is interested."
Mr has to do the same with me on this as well. It's amazing we get up to anything in club's |
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"I am notorious bad at flirting .... I have to get Mr to do a lot of the chats as I am just blunt and if someone says something flirty with me I can't reply
So can you...? Do you need flirty banter before you would meet.
I am great at being friendly and welcoming and saying " shall we have some fun" but can't do the small talk flirty stuff lol...
Cali "
Good god no. In either the written word or face to face. In fact I don't know how the Mr happened, thank god he could see past the lack of flirting (shrug)
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We discovered early on that hedgehog wasn’t particularly good at flirting when we discussed it she realised men don’t exactly need a lot of work so she never really had to bother, for most of our messaging I’ve done the flirting but she’s gotten a lot better at it now |
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"We discovered early on that hedgehog wasn’t particularly good at flirting when we discussed it she realised men don’t exactly need a lot of work so she never really had to bother, for most of our messaging I’ve done the flirting but she’s gotten a lot better at it now "
this is what we are doing... Mr does most of the flirting and I'm learning slowly |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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I am awfully blunt, the older I get the less time I've got for pissing around 
Do you wanna join us for some fuckery or not? That's my chat up line. Its simple enough right?
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"I am awfully blunt, the older I get the less time I've got for pissing around
Do you wanna join us for some fuckery or not? That's my chat up line. Its simple enough right?
Mrs "
Straight to the point, wish everyone was |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"I am notorious bad at flirting .... I have to get Mr to do a lot of the chats as I am just blunt and if someone says something flirty with me I can't reply
So can you...? Do you need flirty banter before you would meet.
I am great at being friendly and welcoming and saying " shall we have some fun" but can't do the small talk flirty stuff lol...
Cali "
In the same boat as you chick! I'm neurospicy, so being straightforward and direct is the only way for me, although I can sometimes tell if someone is being flirty, but I never know what to respond with. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"I am awfully blunt, the older I get the less time I've got for pissing around
Do you wanna join us for some fuckery or not? That's my chat up line. Its simple enough right?
Mrs "
Sounds fine to me. I don't see the issue. |
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Absolutely terrible at online flirting in my opinion and probably equally bad in real life.
Not overly confident in that regard so just tend to try and be me and hope my odd ball humour is endearing. |
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By *eliWoman 38 weeks ago
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I'm not sure.
Sometimes I think I can but that's more to do with connecting with another rather than flirting, if that makes sense? I'm probably sometimes a bit flirty but if there being any finesse to it is questionable. |
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By *rBobbMan 38 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"I'm not sure.
Sometimes I think I can but that's more to do with connecting with another rather than flirting, if that makes sense? I'm probably sometimes a bit flirty but if there being any finesse to it is questionable. "
You have said it perfectly and I totally get where you are coming from |
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Yes, however my flirting and flirtatious behaviour is masked behind the nuances and safety of messaging and written correspondence, which I enjoy (without being overbearing).
In real life it's a little more subtle... sometimes even non-existent unless there's clear and present chemistry. |
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Initially I'm absolutely shit at flirting, I never know when anyone's flirting with me unless it's obvious & I need to know someone a bit to be able to "attempt" to flirt so in the 1st few messages I'd struggle, later down the line if I was comfortable and knew it was mutual I'd relax a little more.
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