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By (user no longer on site) OP    38 weeks ago

I seem to be in a quandary. I am always respectful to women when I interact with them when speaking with them online. I see women complaining that men treat them like meat on here but also seem to get annoyed if you are not forthright in what you want sexually or don’t get straight to the point. Am I just an unlucky anomaly or have others noticed this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    38 weeks ago

Must be an anomaly. I’ve never been great with small talk. I’m a great conversationalist but I always struggle to know what to begin with. Love advice

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By *ickD80Man 38 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"I seem to be in a quandary. I am always respectful to women when I interact with them when speaking with them online. I see women complaining that men treat them like meat on here but also seem to get annoyed if you are not forthright in what you want sexually or don’t get straight to the point. Am I just an unlucky anomaly or have others noticed this."

Being respectful and being forthright in what you want sexually aren’t mutually exclusive. It is possible to talk about sex in a respectful and civilised way. Sending a dick pic and saying you want to fuck her in every hole as a first message isn’t respectful and is treating a woman like a piece of meet. Politely introducing yourself and asking whether she’s comfortable discussing what we’re looking for sexually straight away or whether she’d prefer to get to know each other better first and that there’s no pressure either way from you as you’re happy to do either would be a respectful and polite way to be forthright.

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