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Can you spot other swingers ?
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By *andDebs OP Couple 40 weeks ago
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Does anyone think when you’re in a packed pub or meeting lots of people in a meeting room “I bet there swingers” etc, do it quite a lot now ?
We’ve been asked by other swingers without them knowing randomly if we are! Does it stand out haha |
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I wouldn’t say we could, but have! We were in a local bar (on a rare night with no kids), saw another couple…something about them, loving but with wandering eyes as well - made us check fab and…very proud of ourselves lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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I think one way to solve this issue is for everyone on fab (as a community) to agree collectively (perhaps as a poll through a cheeky picture on a profile) to a specific unique design on a bracelet which would be the notifier of a swinger in public. As long as people start to use them and share the meaning with other swingers, it should start to make traction. |
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By *oxy jWoman 40 weeks ago
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people have tried for years to have a ''sign'' and failed for good reason real swingers dont want there private lives pestered by what would be mainly men ...cant think of anything more yuk if im honest ...you can 100% believe none of those that approach would be remotely hot |
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"I think one way to solve this issue is for everyone on fab (as a community) to agree collectively (perhaps as a poll through a cheeky picture on a profile) to a specific unique design on a bracelet which would be the notifier of a swinger in public. As long as people start to use them and share the meaning with other swingers, it should start to make traction."
Then one of the red tops would get hold of it and every chance would be using it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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But I thought that swingers doggers etc were dirty pervs till I realised how great it is and that there’s a community and normal people do it so I was wrong to stereo type everyone  |
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I like to look on who's near and play spot who the cock belongs to.
But in all seriousness no, people wouldn't look at us & think swingers, if anyone approached me outside of fab I'd not be impressed.
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"people have tried for years to have a ''sign'' and failed for good reason real swingers dont want there private lives pestered by what would be mainly men ...cant think of anything more yuk if im honest ...you can 100% believe none of those that approach would be remotely hot"
That's a fair point Foxy. I'm probably not the only one that thought, it may be helpful for swingers to have some kind of universal signal to know each other by. But yea, I totally understand the point you made about possible unwanted attention. |
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"Does anyone think when you’re in a packed pub or meeting lots of people in a meeting room “I bet there swingers” etc, do it quite a lot now ?
We’ve been asked by other swingers without them knowing randomly if we are! Does it stand out haha "
It’ll be the frequency of energy that’s generated by the individuals and others ability to tune into it, consciously or even subconsciously? |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Does anyone think when you’re in a packed pub or meeting lots of people in a meeting room “I bet there swingers” etc, do it quite a lot now ?
We’ve been asked by other swingers without them knowing randomly if we are! Does it stand out haha
It’ll be the frequency of energy that’s generated by the individuals and others ability to tune into it, consciously or even subconsciously? "
This is an interesting point. |
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By *oxy jWoman 40 weeks ago
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we have had people well couples guess and not only here in the uk been aproached in spain a few times on vanilla holiday and germany & holland where people are genuinely more open .... gay and bi women seem to have a knack too so giving off a hint that your naughty must be a thing..
and lets be honest a night out even as a couple it dont take a great deal to let a guy know your interested ....
people i work with think im a prude lol only because i have to behave in a professional manner at all times and im their boss .... |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Does anyone think when you’re in a packed pub or meeting lots of people in a meeting room “I bet there swingers” etc, do it quite a lot now ?
We’ve been asked by other swingers without them knowing randomly if we are! Does it stand out haha "
Only if your zip is undone  |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"we have had people well couples guess and not only here in the uk been aproached in spain a few times on vanilla holiday and germany & holland where people are genuinely more open .... gay and bi women seem to have a knack too so giving off a hint that your naughty must be a thing..
and lets be honest a night out even as a couple it dont take a great deal to let a guy know your interested ....
people i work with think im a prude lol only because i have to behave in a professional manner at all times and im their boss .... "
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Of them have deffo thought about fucking you though lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"I can often spot people, but mostly because I’m pretty easily recognisable, and I clock them looking and discussing x"
Different for a guy if I was looking over and they wasn’t swingers might end in bother, but if a woman was looking over and paying as much attention to the other woman it would t be an issue I do t think |
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We do check to see who's near. And then look to see if we can make out who it could be.
If we are chatting we drop the word FAB into the conversation and look to see if we get a reaction or response, normally it's the gentleman of the couple who gives it away.
Then when the ladies are away things are said, if they are. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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As someone who went to a social and people thought I’d accidentally walked in and no one had picked up on it for the first HOUR
I’d say spotting a swinger is occasionally difficult  |
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I’d say spotting a swinger is occasionally difficult
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We went to a social last year. Our first time there and we thought we might be a little early, so got a drink and sat at a tall table near the bar of the big pub. After a while we clocked a smart looking couple at a similar table 5 yds away who were chatting, but looking around fairly regularly.
Dead certs we thought, so the best looking (bravest) of us strolled casually over. "Excuse me asking but are you in town for the show?" I ventured,slightly vaguely.
"No" they replied. "We're locals here to watch the swingers...It's quite entertaining and you should stay and watch, but they don't usually show up for another hour or so...".
Hmmm
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If we are staying at a hotel before going to a club, it’s fairly easy to spot the couples probably heading in same direction. Not necessarily because of what they are wearing.
Breakfast the next morning can be fun thinking about who you saw where in what position |
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"We’re people watcher’s when we go out and many times we’ve spotted the people we actually know who are on fab. We don’t dive into a frenzy when we see them, but we do give a polite nod. "
Love this |
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