"Why would people be on here if they didn't both want it.... "
You'd be surprised.
We've met couple's socially where it's very clear the woman is just going along with it. The guy is usually oblivious.
We met a couple at their house where it became obvious the guy wasn't interested. Which was quite awkward because his wife was obviously having a great time with Mr N while he sat there almost shuddering when I touched him .
Then there was the woman who kept saying "oo he doesn't like that" when I was with her husband.
So yeah, plenty go along with it then sabotage of a meet becomes unavoidable |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Ellen had fantasies about being in an orgy and being watched etc. I probably did 'go along' with it to a certain extent but I have no complaints, we've had some great times.
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I very much doubt anyone would admit openly to being pushed into it or just going along with it.
We both want to explore but ATM I'm not feeling it, I just don't feel sexy so our meeting is on hold, when I feel ready again we'll be back to it, I'd never be pushed into something like this, it sounds like a 1 way ticket to disaster if you both aren't game.
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It was the Mrs who suggested it. We tried out a poly lifestyle first but didn't have the time to put into seperate meaningful relationships and so, it started to become unethical. We broke that off, had a couple of years of just us and then she suggested something more along the lines of Swing.
We've both been heavily in the kink community so knew the score with clubs/events/private parties etc.
I've never been personally interested in other women. I just can't focus on them, to me, L is the only woman in the room. But adding single guys in has unlocked fantasies and fun that I never imagined. I didn't "go along with it", the idea of an MFM moment has always intrigued me, as soon as we tried it, we both knew that was our dynamic and we've had an amazing time |
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By *andb69Couple 38 weeks ago
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If either of us didn't equally want to swing, or one of us had decided we wanted to stop then we would both stop. We share each other's enjoyment, and without that enjoyment there is no reason to continue. |
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Conversations were initiated by Mr and rules mutually agreed
After a few meets, rules were massively renegotiated by Mrs to allow a LOT more
Both having a great time and thoroughly enjoying the lifestyle |
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We both met at a dogging meet some 20 years ago Ben was taking part and I was there with then boyfriend just spectating seeing what was going on.
I saw Ben in a club a few days after and we chatted and got on and had a good chat about digging a year later boyfriend cheated so I left him and me and Ben got together and I was very interested in the swinger lifestyles so that’s when we made the plunge.
We both set the rules and we stuck to them to this day and our love is solid. |
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"Was boobs idea originally and I've been liking the forums just wish we could do more but it can be difficult as we've young kids and don't get much free time "
We know just how that feels. Keep with it, you will find a way (and the time) eventually |
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By *oxy jWoman 38 weeks ago
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we both were open n honest in our dating stage that we wanted open sex lives so we knew right from the start ...
its a good question and its the main reason we have couples blocked as there are so few real 50/50 couples on fab and the scene as a whole most are male led / male pushed and foe me / us thats a turn off big time ... we see it in clubs often too ... its not good ..
even us as a cuckold couple we are both here we have our joint account he has his account |
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we talked about a ffm for about 2years then got told about fab then joined but we still havnt had the ffm lol mfmfmf ye but not mmf or ffm x
