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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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We were rock solid before we even considered swinging. The couples we are friends with in the scene are rock solid too.
You have to have that base to make it a success. |
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As a cuckold couple, Dee has had a couple of intense hotwife/bull relationships over the years but you have to trust each other before you venture into this lifestyle otherwise you should serious consider if it’s the right thing for your relationship. |
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"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?"
Most are solid, but just because a couple swing together and that element of life may be e good for them both there are always other parts of a relationship that may not work for a couple. |
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"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?"
The percentage of swinging couples that split up is probably very similar to the percentage of non swinging couples that split up. |
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"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?
The percentage of swinging couples that split up is probably very similar to the percentage of non swinging couples that split up."
Was going to say this 
I guess if a persons interest in wanes and the others doesn’t then it becomes an issue |
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"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?
The percentage of swinging couples that split up is probably very similar to the percentage of non swinging couples that split up."
We probably concur with that ! |
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We don’t think they’re any more or less secure than any other relationship. 50% chance of divorce in first marriages raising to 75% in second marriages: and that’s not taking swinging into account. |
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Our relationship is amazing. Sounds so cliche but we are actually best friends too. We can talk about anything to each other. In fact both of have said since being on here or relationship has gotten better and there was absolutely nothing wrong with it before here lol
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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I typically maintain longer-term relationships with my partners. The longest I've been in began ten years ago. I've had 2-5 year long relationships in the meantime. I could not continue them, because partners moved too far to make it practical to see each other on a regular basis (for reference, Manchester is not too far Australia is) |
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"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?"
Perhaps the reason they are exes has nothing to do with the swinging side. Relationships end for all sorts of reasons |
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I tend to meet couples and, in my experience, they all say that adding a third to their relationship makes it stronger. The reclaim sex is amazing apparently (I wouldn’t know that part  )
If a couple does split up then I would guess it is just to normal life rather than explicitly due to swinging. |
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"We don’t think they’re any more or less secure than any other relationship. 50% chance of divorce in first marriages raising to 75% in second marriages: and that’s not taking swinging into account. "
Wow ! We would have thought 2nd marriages would last longer if not forever! Well that’s defo the case for us, learn your mistakes first time round so second is so……… much better  |
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Ours is rock solid. When we got together we discussed our kinks straight away and decided to get into the lifestyle together. We talk and discuss everything and swinging is not something that will cause issues |
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By *oxy jWoman 43 weeks ago
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most who say my ex partner are fantasies and made up so to join in ...
most swinging couples and kink couple are solid relationships who swing for the right reasons ie extra fun ..
there are a group of swingers who do it to try and improve or mend the relationships its these that will fail simply because to swing as a couple you need to know each other inside out love each other inside out be mentally together inside out thats why not all couples will ever be cut out for swinging because it will expose any weak links in a relationship ...
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We met through swinging so it’s always been part of our relationship. We’ve found it’s allowed us to have amazing communication we can discuss anything there’s never any secrets or things we feel off limits and the whole experience strengthens our connection |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?"
Solid as a rock, definitely not good for long term relationships if your not solid from the start |
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Hubby here were solid, but only really play as a threesome with guys. I’m totally not jealous if another guy fucks her I love it. Not sure if she would be happy for me with another woman. But that’s fine with me, I love her more and more every time I see her fucking another guy. |
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"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?"
Why wouldn't they be. Ours is and don't see how it differs to those not on the scene. Kind of ridiculous question really. |
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