What percentage of UK adults are swingers? On here we all seem accepting of deviant behaviour from the norm that includes sharing your partner, secret meets and illicit encounters that we can’t always share with non swingers. Are we all like minded, are some more deviant than others? What makes us naughtier than vanilla people? |
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"What percentage of UK adults are swingers? On here we all seem accepting of deviant behaviour from the norm that includes sharing your partner, secret meets and illicit encounters that we can’t always share with non swingers. Are we all like minded, are some more deviant than others? What makes us naughtier than vanilla people?"
The first thing to remember about kink, is that everyone has a different opinion of what is "kinky". For some people, sex with the lights on is unthinkable, for others using their partner as a toilet is "just normal".
In general, the average FAB member is looking for fairly "vanilla" sex... just with different or multiple partners.
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"What percentage of UK adults are swingers? On here we all seem accepting of deviant behaviour from the norm that includes sharing your partner, secret meets and illicit encounters that we can’t always share with non swingers. Are we all like minded, are some more deviant than others? What makes us naughtier than vanilla people?"
I think it's very rare to see deviant behaviour on fabs.
Most swinging isn't kinky, it's just non-monogamous. |
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"Dont things often go hand in hand?"
not particularly.
When it comes to "kinky", there is often an extra level trust required. Knowing that limits will be understood and respected, that everyone knows that eachother's definition of the kink is, having a safety plan incase something goes wrong, etc... this can be all difficult with strangers and often requires a lot of time, conversation, and experimentation to develop within established relationships.
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