"I think it’s easier to find a hookup on the normal dating apps than it is here. So I wasn’t expecting that.
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It seems to be a common theme for the men on here.
Although I will say, yes there's alot more men than women, but many don't approach it in the best way! |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"Do you feel like you are getting what you want from fab?"
Not really we have been blown out more times than a wind sock that’s why the fem part of us is not playing for now we have met a few great ppl but the keyboard swingers on here give the genuine ones a bad name |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"I think it’s easier to find a hookup on the normal dating apps than it is here. So I wasn’t expecting that.
It seems to be a common theme for the men on here.
Although I will say, yes there's alot more men than women, but many don't approach it in the best way!"
I think there’s a taboo factor with being on here which the traditional dating apps don’t have. I think that keeps a lot more women away from FAB as it’s still a societal double standard.
Just my 2 cents though |
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"I think it’s easier to find a hookup on the normal dating apps than it is here. So I wasn’t expecting that.
Oh you're absolutely right there is definitely still double standard out there...nit that I care haha
It seems to be a common theme for the men on here.
Although I will say, yes there's alot more men than women, but many don't approach it in the best way!
I think there’s a taboo factor with being on here which the traditional dating apps don’t have. I think that keeps a lot more women away from FAB as it’s still a societal double standard.
Just my 2 cents though "
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By *oxy jWoman 46 weeks ago
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yes ... fab works well has done all the time ive been on here and thats from the beginning i get from fab what i want with this account and what we want from our joint account fab is not a guarantor its a platform that provides the tools to get swinging meets fab are not and never has been responsible for your meets or lack of them...
the problem is so many rely on fab but its only a small part of the swinging scene as a whole if you rely on it then your limited to loads and loads of non swingers too and alot of swingers tend to avoid them when you weight up that that is 95% of the site the the ocean becomes a pool most single women and men admit they are here for the hook up only and then you have those that want dates and those who use the site as a adult social media ... oh and in my book nothing wrong with any of that..
lone men looking well thats a subject on its own (sheer numbers) most want hook ups or empty balls service that turns alot of swingers away and they want it with no effort lucky for us looking for guys there are more than enough who totally get swinging ...
i get my meets via private cuckold forums / fab / clubs / private parties friends never put all your eggs in one basket but as it is if i want a meet from fab i find it and its what i want ..fab is king for online .... those saying dating sites / hook up sites are easier well thats because they have zero to do with swinging and if they are that good why stay here and moan why not go where its good 
oh and i cant remember the last time i or we where let down ...  |
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"Do you feel like you are getting what you want from fab?
Not really we have been blown out more times than a wind sock that’s why the fem part of us is not playing for now we have met a few great ppl but the keyboard swingers on here give the genuine ones a bad name"
You can only give yourself a bad name. Nobody is accountable for other people’s actions. If you get disillusioned with the whole process of finding someone genuine that’s understandable but it doesn’t make it their fault. |
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By *enatton2Couple 46 weeks ago
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No but it’s not the fault of Fab, when we’ve needed it we have always had success. It’s life that keeps getting in the way, illness, work, Covid, pregnancy, family…. There’s always something for us these last few years |
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Quite simply no
Been here a while, been to some clubs in the past not much luck there.
Not 1 single meet or msg/reply although any sent msgs are proper ones.
I'm open about the fact I have cfs so need notice to meet
Unfortunately can't attend clubs really anymore as due to health i cant work so can barely afford to eat let alone 30 quid for a club night (plus fuel) plus many clubs are members only which is more cost and only 2 clubs within 2 hours of me of which I've not had much success. |
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"Do you feel like you are getting what you want from fab?"
No, far from for the most part but that doesn’t mean what I have gotten out of fab isn’t special as I’ve been very fortunate meeting and getting to know some incredible people that I feel lucky to meet through here. Even without the much larger number of guys on here that’s still going to be the case for many guys in truth. Freedom and ability to openly explore and enjoy a full and happy sex life just doesn’t exist for a lot of blokes, which I guess is why there are so many more guys on here to begin with. Just the way of things, same in nature. I’m sure for many though, regardless of being a good or nice a person they’ll go their whole lives never knowing or experiencing what it like to have a happy, fulfilling sex life, like wise with companionship. Such is life and fabs no different  x |
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At the min yes,
I'm not looking to meet, I just like the forums, keeping in touch with friends and the odd social event.
If I was actually wanting to meet, probably not, as its hard to get that attraction and connection, even if people think women have it easy here. |
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