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Married yes or no
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"Yes, it does. And the same if the female was cheating. " Exactly. Don't matter what sex cheating is cheating full stop. | |||
"If the guy is married. Does that bother you" Does their partner know? If yes, male or female thats not accepted for me | |||
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"Male or female, I don’t care what the nature of your other relationships are. I just don’t want drama so be smart about your arrangements. I find it ridiculous that swingers get precious about people cheating but want to keep their lifestyle private and secret… if everything is aboveboard and your choices are so correct, what is the problem. Hypocrisy Just let me know what your status is but what you tell or don’t tell others… I don’t care about." I don't think I'm being a hypocrite or precious because I won't entertain a cheating partner - male or female. Just one of the standards I have that I won't be involved in potentially hurting anyone. I don't judge the cheaters but I won't be part of the circus either S | |||
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"The martial status does not bother us , but the consent does. I would only meet a guy who had his partners consent. Cali " We're exactly the same, we won't play with cheats. | |||
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"The martial status does not bother us , but the consent does. I would only meet a guy who had his partners consent. Cali " Yes that is different if there is consent  | |||
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Otherwise yes | |||
Unless you don’t care  | |||
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 we've turned down some otherwise amazing offers from people because they was cheating, it's definitely not for us | |||
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"Yes, it matters if a person is married and their spouse is unaware that they are actively looking to meet and cheat. Having said that, on the occasions we've had sex with singles at clubs, I didn't ask about their marital status. Nita" exactly so you will pump a married in a club but no in here lol, a find most folk on here attached an lie , at least am honest and still get crucified lol | |||
"Male or female, I don’t care what the nature of your other relationships are. I just don’t want drama so be smart about your arrangements. I find it ridiculous that swingers get precious about people cheating but want to keep their lifestyle private and secret… if everything is aboveboard and your choices are so correct, what is the problem. Hypocrisy Just let me know what your status is but what you tell or don’t tell others… I don’t care about." It's slightly different, most couples swingers or not, don't openly discuss their sex lives with family and colleagues etc. We are all entitled to privacy, whatever a relationship status. So I don't think it's makes anyone a hypocrite because they choose not to meet someone who is on here behind their husband or wife's back. Maybe trying to out them may be seen as hypocritical, if you're comparing it to couples wanting discretion. | |||
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"If the guy is married. Does that bother you" Nope | |||
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"People are on here for a lot of different reasons and I don't think it's mysplace to judge. " I'm not judging. I am just chosing not to meet for fun those that are cheating | |||
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"Yes, it does. And the same if the female was cheating. Exactly. Don't matter what sex cheating is cheating full stop." Exzonkly! You hit the nail in the head, it’s cheating no matter what. For me I would just rather skip the whole drama and avoid the whole thing regardless of gender as I don’t believe in cheating or being with cheats x | |||
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