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Greedy Boy Party… Even a thing or not?
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So as we all do, I recently had a fantasy that popped into my head. That fantasy being a greedy girl party reversed. So one guy and multiple woman. Intrigued to see if it was even a thing I checked the internet to see. Know if you type greedy girl party into Google, from the very first result option your in business. However typing in greedy boy party, hoping I didn’t just get a load of guy on guy gangbangs . I was surprised though, there was less than nothing in the results. The only results were for an educational book on a boy who is greedy and needs to change his ways lol.
Now I know a lot of people would say the reason being is it just couldn’t work if was a guy with a group of woman in comparison. However I think the idea is still solid, it’s just some of the dynamics, goals and how everyone would approach it if a wife, gf, fwb arranged a greedy boy party. So as one quick example it would be a smaller group of other woman along with wife/ gf/ fwb then it could be if it was a greedy girl party. Anyone else ever had this fantasy? Ladies what do think of it as an idea if your husband/ bf or playmate suggested it? Guys what are your thoughts, do you think you could make it work? |
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The logistics just don’t work. Most guys can’t get off multiple times in quick succession. Plus women tend to need their bodies warming up with foreplay before they’ll orgasm, which means not many women will get a go.
Whereas the fantasy for guys at greedy girls nights is that they get to “use”* a woman after she’s already had loads of guys (and if bareback that she’s got “sloppy hole”* filled with other guys loads*) it doesn’t work in reverse.
Who wants a tired guy who can’t get it up because he’s already had sex with three or four women?
*Not my terminology, I find those phrases repulsive. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"The logistics just don’t work. Most guys can’t get off multiple times in quick succession. …."
But I keep getting told it’s not all about the orgasm from some women, and I can certainly enjoy all the sex before the climax. …  |
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"The logistics just don’t work. Most guys can’t get off multiple times in quick succession. ….
But I keep getting told it’s not all about the orgasm from some women, and I can certainly enjoy all the sex before the climax. … "
Yeah that’s true for sure.
I suppose if you look at GG nights (I can’t even bring myself to write the grim term out again) then it’s about the quantity of men getting off on/in the woman.
So for the equivalent to be the case it would be about quantities of women getting off on the man.
The problem here is, I guess, that most women don’t orgasm through penetrative sex, and it’s like to take a while to figure out how to make a woman orgasm. So the other women will just be… standing around tapping their feet until the “boy” figures out which combo of foreplay and/or sex makes a woman get off? |
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I suppose the other part of this, aside from the logistics, is that GG parties play on reclamation of the shame placed on women by society.
Women are taught by society (and purity culture) that having more than one man is bad. Very bad. Very shameful. So GG parties push back against that expectation placed on women by society.
There’s no such stigma for men. Men are told by society that having more female partners is great. There’s no shame attached.
It’s the same reason that nights about whites women and black men are popular - there’s still a huge culture of (racist) shame about white women sleeping with black men, so the theme is a kink/popular because it is “taboo.” |
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As mentioned by GymAndIcedCoffee, there are various practical reasons why it isn't common. I've had FFM and FFFM meets but if the ratio was higher I'd struggle to give everyone attention! In the fantasy land of porn it's popular and known as a 'reverse gangbang'. |
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"The logistics just don’t work. Most guys can’t get off multiple times in quick succession. Plus women tend to need their bodies warming up with foreplay before they’ll orgasm, which means not many women will get a go.
Whereas the fantasy for guys at greedy girls nights is that they get to “use”* a woman after she’s already had loads of guys (and if bareback that she’s got “sloppy hole”* filled with other guys loads*) it doesn’t work in reverse.
Who wants a tired guy who can’t get it up because he’s already had sex with three or four women?
*Not my terminology, I find those phrases repulsive."
Yeah that’s where some of the dynamics would need to change. It would have to be approached with a different view set of quick succession of getting off over a condensed period of time. It would have to be more chilled approached, with things happening throughout the evening with breaks in between with everyone relaxing, chatting, having a drink like any normal evening party. Think everyone willing to get involved and play with each other impart as well rather then forming a queue would also be key so no one is left out and excluded as well as being more interesting and charged atmosphere like a orgy or ffm threesome. Think everyone also understanding that it’s not meant to be about focusing on trying to make the guy ejaculate again and again by every woman but exploring and being apart of exploring multiple ways of sharing and giving pleasure. There’s lots of ways to do it, edging, prostrate orgasm or sensory stimulation for example off the top of my head. Having that joint, group involvement so it doesn’t become about everyone getting a turn filled with loads and the guy looking like a shrivelled raisen after an hour lol. It’s just approaching it differently and knowing what the guy desires and gets out of the experience will be very different from what a woman desires and gets out of a greedy girl experience. It’s just sadly doesn’t seem like it’s been tried as it approached with the same approach a greedy girl meet would be done and I completely agree that just wouldn’t work  xx |
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"The logistics just don’t work. Most guys can’t get off multiple times in quick succession. ….
But I keep getting told it’s not all about the orgasm from some women, and I can certainly enjoy all the sex before the climax. … "
It’s not to be fair and not really the right way to approach something like that. Plus the numbers would need to be smaller in comparison for certain. Plus there nothing stopping there bing more then one guy there just as some greedy girl parties have more then one woman, it would be more about striking the right balance and ratio of men and woman of looking to go bigger lol |
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It may be rare but never say never. Nobody there called it a greedy boy anything, but there were several women and a very, very happy me. This for two birthdays some time ago, so more of an indulgence for a special occasion thing. Let's just say I enjoyed being indulged. |
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"Just not enough cock. It ain't never gonna fly"
They said the same to the right brothers lol. Nah in all seriousness, it’s just finding the right people and right mindset like anything on fab. It just would need more planning and effort to find other swingers then normal gangbangs and greedy girl party. Just cos it not so easy to make happen doesn’t mean it’s not possible, just rare haha x
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"I suppose the other part of this, aside from the logistics, is that GG parties play on reclamation of the shame placed on women by society.
Women are taught by society (and purity culture) that having more than one man is bad. Very bad. Very shameful. So GG parties push back against that expectation placed on women by society.
There’s no such stigma for men. Men are told by society that having more female partners is great. There’s no shame attached.
It’s the same reason that nights about whites women and black men are popular - there’s still a huge culture of (racist) shame about white women sleeping with black men, so the theme is a kink/popular because it is “taboo.”"
Can we push back the stigma that one man wouldn’t be able to satisfy more than one woman at a time? |
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"Can we push back the stigma that one man wouldn’t be able to satisfy more than one woman at a time? "
I’ll join that crusade Woody. I’ve definitely kept two women happy at the same time. More than once. Three was a challenge, I’ll grant you. But two’s totally doable. |
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On the first Milf Monday at Townhouse (god knows how long ago), a all female group turned up and after a while went up to the big room on the top floor.
They started to play together and as the assembled watching men just stood there, i got pulled in to join them. Over the next hour I was ridden and half drowned by all of them. Amazing experience that wiped me out, whereas they carried on playing for the rest of the party |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"Can we push back the stigma that one man wouldn’t be able to satisfy more than one woman at a time?
I’ll join that crusade Woody. I’ve definitely kept two women happy at the same time. More than once. Three was a challenge, I’ll grant you. But two’s totally doable."
I’m not going to let pessimistic women squash my sexual hunger.  |
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By *ornycougaWoman 42 weeks ago
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"Just not enough cock. It ain't never gonna fly
And women just can’t take not being the centre of attention….."
Utter bollocks. But unless the women are all bi and *completely* content with amusing each other, even the most accomplished man can multi task to that extent. I'm very happy to share but I want a look in on the dick action too |
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By *ornycougaWoman 42 weeks ago
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"Just not enough cock. It ain't never gonna fly
And women just can’t take not being the centre of attention…..
Utter bollocks. But unless the women are all bi and *completely* content with amusing each other, even the most accomplished man can multi task to that extent. I'm very happy to share but I want a look in on the dick action too"
* can't ffs |
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"The logistics just don’t work. Most guys can’t get off multiple times in quick succession. Plus women tend to need their bodies warming up with foreplay before they’ll orgasm, which means not many women will get a go.
Whereas the fantasy for guys at greedy girls nights is that they get to “use”* a woman after she’s already had loads of guys (and if bareback that she’s got “sloppy hole”* filled with other guys loads*) it doesn’t work in reverse.
Who wants a tired guy who can’t get it up because he’s already had sex with three or four women?
*Not my terminology, I find those phrases repulsive."
This ! |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"Just not enough cock. It ain't never gonna fly
And women just can’t take not being the centre of attention…..
Utter bollocks. But unless the women are all bi and *completely* content with amusing each other, even the most accomplished man can multi task to that extent. I'm very happy to share but I want a look in on the dick action too"
Sure… I’m in |
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"Just not enough cock. It ain't never gonna fly
And women just can’t take not being the centre of attention…..
Utter bollocks. But unless the women are all bi and *completely* content with amusing each other, even the most accomplished man can’t multi task to that extent. I'm very happy to share but I want a look in on the dick action too"
Let’s put it to the test then, shall we? All we need is a swinger club, advertise the world’s first ‘Reverse Gangbang’ event, and see what happens.
“If you build it, they will cum……..”
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By *ornycougaWoman 42 weeks ago
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"Just not enough cock. It ain't never gonna fly
And women just can’t take not being the centre of attention…..
Utter bollocks. But unless the women are all bi and *completely* content with amusing each other, even the most accomplished man can multi task to that extent. I'm very happy to share but I want a look in on the dick action too
Sure… I’m in "
I'd eat you alive! |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"Just not enough cock. It ain't never gonna fly
And women just can’t take not being the centre of attention…..
Utter bollocks. But unless the women are all bi and *completely* content with amusing each other, even the most accomplished man can multi task to that extent. I'm very happy to share but I want a look in on the dick action too
Sure… I’m in
I'd eat you alive! "
I wish |
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Well there definitely seems to at least to be some interest, which is always a good start. Though not as simple or as easy as GG and GB at least it looks like there willingness to explore and try by a few people. After all it’s not that far out there of an idea and if It helps in any part or way with breaking down some of the stigma guys have to tend with when it comes to sex and exploring their fantasies then it worth trying. The worst that happens is people decide not to try it again like any meet they come away feeling a bit disappointed with, however on the other hand they may be pleasantly surprised just who much more fun and different it was than what they imagined as well as a more open view to how guys are viewed when it comes to sex. Naturally though, like all things it won’t appeal to some due to their personal preferences while for some it will I’m guessing. Likewise I know I’ve been to a disappointing go before with to many guys and with even the most talented of skills with multi tasking, was it possible to please so many at the same time, so I don’t think it so widely different as people think it might be. Really appreciate as well where people who have tried something like this have shared their experience on here. |
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