I woman know fellas.
Those who are bi and or curious and state straight I your profile. Do you ever have the moment to play woth cock
I've met guys at bi events who state straight, yet in play will happily play with cock
As bi male play is becoming more open would you change your profile to state your openness |
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We won't meet guys who don't say bi, mainly for two reasons, trust and choice.
If someone can't be honest about beitbi on here then there's no way to trust them with any other information.
There's so many bi guys to pick from there's no reason to settle for a guy who can't be honest. |
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I think it’s 100% important to state you are bi or bi curious on your profile if you are.
As the post above. If you can’t be honest with yourself then that’s not a good sign.
Plus I don’t buy the comment regarding men saying they are straight because some couples say they don’t meet bi men.
How about respecting their wishes then? If they don’t want to meet bi people that’s their choice and should be respected. Not to mention the fact that as a bi man myself I only want to meet couples or singles that want to meet like minded people.
It’s actually sad that this needs to be explained.
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I don’t judge and it’s each to their own people can do what they like and I can only express my own personal view but I respect others even if they differ.
I just think if your profile reflects you accurately then you are more likely to attract people that are like minded.
By putting straight when you are bi also restricts you the other way as some only look for bi so this could actually be negatively effecting you too.
Like I say. This is just my view and everyone has a different view and that’s what makes us humans. |
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Agree. Today why can't guys not be open more so
There are so many couples openly looking for bi male play yet when messaged from a straight profile .it does give those red flags
Equally when in a club chatting and or playing it has been known the straight profile guy isnt actually as straight as said to be.
Although turning it all around.
I was in a club room with a few guys at a bi night and I guided him to suck the other guy. Well that was it. He jumped up and said get the fuck off. This putting an end to the play session
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"We won't meet guys who don't say bi, mainly for two reasons, trust and choice.
If someone can't be honest about beitbi on here then there's no way to trust them with any other information.
There's so many bi guys to pick from there's no reason to settle for a guy who can't be honest. "
Exactly this! |
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This is something I feel quite passionate about.. OK maybe the wrong choice of words lol
Tge amount of tines I reply to a message saying sorry I'm looking for bi male and oh. All pf a sudden they are really come on . Own it |
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I'm bi and clearly states on my profile. Most guys that have straight on their profile but say they are bi I think are just lying to get to meet couples. Me and my wife had this load of times meeting guys. Would say they are happy playing with cock and when they turn up they are not up for it |
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"Agree. Today why can't guys not be open more so
There are so many couples openly looking for bi male play yet when messaged from a straight profile .it does give those red flags
Equally when in a club chatting and or playing it has been known the straight profile guy isnt actually as straight as said to be.
Although turning it all around.
I was in a club room with a few guys at a bi night and I guided him to suck the other guy. Well that was it. He jumped up and said get the fuck off. This putting an end to the play session
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Doesn’t know what he is missing |
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"Good to read your views fellas
I want to change my filters and block single guys. But that blocks all of em "
Good point, surely fab could make it so “straight” guys can be blocked but not bi guys. |
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By *llonsoMan 42 weeks ago
Lincolnshire,Peterborough & Grantham |
I am fine admitting i am bi as my female lover is the same , bisexual and happy to admit that both sexes appeal. The usual povisors exist, such as chemistry and finding them attractive. Nice smooth cock or smooth pussy and fun approach also helps.... Those that cant include their tendencies amd preferences cant be relied on! |
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If a profile says straight but claim to be bi in the messages we absolutely will not meet them.
Their reasons can be whatever but thats a dealbreaker for us. |
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Although turning it all around.
I was in a club room with a few guys at a bi night and I guided him to suck the other guy. Well that was it. He jumped up and said get the fuck off. This putting an end to the play session
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We went to a bi night a few years ago and every guy there was straight, just bi women which is ridiculous because that's basically every normal club night! |
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Although turning it all around.
I was in a club room with a few guys at a bi night and I guided him to suck the other guy. Well that was it. He jumped up and said get the fuck off. This putting an end to the play session
We went to a bi night a few years ago and every guy there was straight, just bi women which is ridiculous because that's basically every normal club night! "
Where abouts was this?
.I have been to bi days/nights at Quest and Clubf |
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"This is something I feel quite passionate about.. OK maybe the wrong choice of words lol
Tge amount of tines I reply to a message saying sorry I'm looking for bi male and oh. All pf a sudden they are really come on . Own it "
Two possible reasons
1. They are straight and bitending to be able with you with no intention of playing with another guy
2. They are bi but want to not cut down their chances with straight couples who have prejudices against bi guys |
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Although turning it all around.
I was in a club room with a few guys at a bi night and I guided him to suck the other guy. Well that was it. He jumped up and said get the fuck off. This putting an end to the play session
We went to a bi night a few years ago and every guy there was straight, just bi women which is ridiculous because that's basically every normal club night!
Where abouts was this?
.I have been to bi days/nights at Quest and Clubf"
Last Tuesday at my local |
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"This is something I feel quite passionate about.. OK maybe the wrong choice of words lol
Tge amount of tines I reply to a message saying sorry I'm looking for bi male and oh. All pf a sudden they are really come on . Own it
Two possible reasons
1. They are straight and bitending to be able with you with no intention of playing with another guy
2. They are bi but want to not cut down their chances with straight couples who have prejudices against bi guys"
Point 2 I just don't get
Why can't people just own their preferences instead of lying |
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"I woman know fellas.
Those who are bi and or curious and state straight I your profile. Do you ever have the moment to play woth cock
I've met guys at bi events who state straight, yet in play will happily play with cock
As bi male play is becoming more open would you change your profile to state your openness "
If they have straight but state they are bisexual in a message they are not for us. Same as orally bi only guys are not for us either. |
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"This is something I feel quite passionate about.. OK maybe the wrong choice of words lol
Tge amount of tines I reply to a message saying sorry I'm looking for bi male and oh. All pf a sudden they are really come on . Own it
Two possible reasons
1. They are straight and bitending to be able with you with no intention of playing with another guy
2. They are bi but want to not cut down their chances with straight couples who have prejudices against bi guys
Point 2 I just don't get
Why can't people just own their preferences instead of lying "
So I've been guilty of 2. At the time I was getting into the lifestyle and wanted to meet couples. I enjoyed mfm threesome with no mm contact.
The are more mf couples with straight m.
The are loads of single guys on here. So to increase my chance of a meet it made sense to apeal to the largest group of couples.
Now that I've had some great threesome I'm really just looking to explore my bi side. So openly bi |
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"This is something I feel quite passionate about.. OK maybe the wrong choice of words lol
Tge amount of tines I reply to a message saying sorry I'm looking for bi male and oh. All pf a sudden they are really come on . Own it
Two possible reasons
1. They are straight and bitending to be able with you with no intention of playing with another guy
2. They are bi but want to not cut down their chances with straight couples who have prejudices against bi guys
Point 2 I just don't get
Why can't people just own their preferences instead of lying
So I've been guilty of 2. At the time I was getting into the lifestyle and wanted to meet couples. I enjoyed mfm threesome with no mm contact.
The are more mf couples with straight m.
The are loads of single guys on here. So to increase my chance of a meet it made sense to apeal to the largest group of couples.
Now that I've had some great threesome I'm really just looking to explore my bi side. So openly bi "
It's becoming more open for couples seeking bi guys as the 3rd .
It's often said they will not respond to those profiles that say straight and they message they are bi oral bisexual
We just think liar . |
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It's often said they will not respond to those profiles that say straight and they message they are bi oral bisexual
We just think liar . "
Absolutely and I'm loving it. Now this isn't a complaint but us guys are in big competition with each other. The are a lot of men on here. So I see why guys try to apeal to the most amount of people.
But yeah it could just as easily be a straight guy looking for an in with the F half. |
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It's often said they will not respond to those profiles that say straight and they message they are bi oral bisexual
We just think liar .
Absolutely and I'm loving it. Now this isn't a complaint but us guys are in big competition with each other. The are a lot of men on here. So I see why guys try to apeal to the most amount of people.
But yeah it could just as easily be a straight guy looking for an in with the F half. "
Get that. The male population on here is vast.
Equally as you said your in competition so why not broaden your port folio so to speak.
You'll be amazed at how many couples are openly looking for a bi male as a 3rd |
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It's often said they will not respond to those profiles that say straight and they message they are bi oral bisexual
We just think liar .
Absolutely and I'm loving it. Now this isn't a complaint but us guys are in big competition with each other. The are a lot of men on here. So I see why guys try to apeal to the most amount of people.
But yeah it could just as easily be a straight guy looking for an in with the F half.
Get that. The male population on here is vast.
Equally as you said your in competition so why not broaden your port folio so to speak.
You'll be amazed at how many couples are openly looking for a bi male as a 3rd "
Yeah I've done the searches the sore are a lot of great bi couples.
However a few less with bi top males |
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It's often said they will not respond to those profiles that say straight and they message they are bi oral bisexual
We just think liar .
Absolutely and I'm loving it. Now this isn't a complaint but us guys are in big competition with each other. The are a lot of men on here. So I see why guys try to apeal to the most amount of people.
But yeah it could just as easily be a straight guy looking for an in with the F half.
Get that. The male population on here is vast.
Equally as you said your in competition so why not broaden your port folio so to speak.
You'll be amazed at how many couples are openly looking for a bi male as a 3rd
Yeah I've done the searches the sore are a lot of great bi couples.
However a few less with bi top males "
Maybe
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Get that. The male population on here is vast.
Equally as you said your in competition so why not broaden your port folio so to speak.
You'll be amazed at how many couples are openly looking for a bi male as a 3rd "
Unfortunately there’s more that state no bi males than there is that say bi males welcome |
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Get that. The male population on here is vast.
Equally as you said your in competition so why not broaden your port folio so to speak.
You'll be amazed at how many couples are openly looking for a bi male as a 3rd
Unfortunately there’s more that state no bi males than there is that say bi males welcome "
Yet there's forum threads full of couples waving their hands looking for you all |
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Get that. The male population on here is vast.
Equally as you said your in competition so why not broaden your port folio so to speak.
You'll be amazed at how many couples are openly looking for a bi male as a 3rd
Unfortunately there’s more that state no bi males than there is that say bi males welcome
Yet there's forum threads full of couples waving their hands looking for you all"
If fab was that easy lol.
Clubs however. That's where the real fun is   |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"If you have straight on your profile you are straight no matter what you excuse you use. If you are bi oral only we would pass. I get my kicks watching the Mr fucking and being fucked with another fully bisexual guy. Then once I had my fill I will
Join them for them to tag team fuck me  "
Not my cup of tea but each to their own.
Orally bi and could never fuck a bloke. |
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"If you have straight on your profile you are straight no matter what you excuse you use. If you are bi oral only we would pass. I get my kicks watching the Mr fucking and being fucked with another fully bisexual guy. Then once I had my fill I will
Join them for them to tag team fuck me "
This is exactly what I'm interested in |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Curious on my profile as I'm exactly that and very interested in trying it out
I get why some guys put straight but really what's the point? I'd rather only talk to people that accept I'm curious than people who are completely not interested in bi |
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Get that. The male population on here is vast.
Equally as you said your in competition so why not broaden your port folio so to speak.
You'll be amazed at how many couples are openly looking for a bi male as a 3rd
Unfortunately there’s more that state no bi males than there is that say bi males welcome
Yet there's forum threads full of couples waving their hands looking for you all
If fab was that easy lol.
Clubs however. That's where the real fun is "
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"We have loads of “straight” guys message us and when we say we prefer bi guys most reply they are bi but don’t put on profile ????? We want honesty too . Puts us off getting to know them "
I feel ya on that i really do |
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We are totally in agreement here there is nothing more off putting than a guy who can't be open with their sexuality. They say it's cause of discrimination but hiding who you are just strengthens this. If everyone was more open more fun could be had and less prejudice would happen. Make it the norm not the anomaly  |
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"We are totally in agreement here there is nothing more off putting than a guy who can't be open with their sexuality. They say it's cause of discrimination but hiding who you are just strengthens this. If everyone was more open more fun could be had and less prejudice would happen. Make it the norm not the anomaly "
That I can agree with but there still is a fair bit of stigmatism around it |
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"Loads of guys lie because loads of couples and some women say they won't meet bi men.
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Very true, even if bi themselves tbf. Many a time I’ve message a bi lady and told they don’t like bi men. Something of a catch twenty two really with being open or adventurous with sexuality as a single guy it seems  |
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By *rNightMan 42 weeks ago
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I used to hide it on here because I was worried couples/fems would be put off by it. Then I realised I was getting zero meets anyway, so I changed it and hoped at the very least couples/fems would see a couple of veris and know I was serious about meeting. |
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"I used to hide it on here because I was worried couples/fems would be put off by it. Then I realised I was getting zero meets anyway, so I changed it and hoped at the very least couples/fems would see a couple of veris and know I was serious about meeting."
I was nervous to start with as well to be fair. In the end though I figured on reflection I don’t want to meet people that don’t like or accept me for me as despite the fact that I accept them for them. I’d rather meet people that are mutually accepting of others as they are of wanting people to broad/ open minded as swingers as well if that make sense lol |
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I've met a few couples kn a bi mmf whilst in male form and once or twice dressed and I don't think it's fair to say why don't they tell the truth because some don't want anyone to know and that's fair enough its their business and only theirs to know discretion is a must and it will make them feel more easy to try it with you men are judged for being bi where as women are fantasised over see the big picture ? |
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"I've met a few couples kn a bi mmf whilst in male form and once or twice dressed and I don't think it's fair to say why don't they tell the truth because some don't want anyone to know and that's fair enough its their business and only theirs to know discretion is a must and it will make them feel more easy to try it with you men are judged for being bi where as women are fantasised over see the big picture ? "
My original point been that straight profiled guys message me. I message back saying I orefer bi guys in group play
Then oh they are bi
Well of your bi state I hour profile
Clearly they all happy to tell fababedmrs they are bi so why not state it
Equally on the other hand
Many people receive messages.from straight male profiles who have stated in bio they looking for bi only sp its an instant block
Clearly o ly seems to be guys who do not own there own sexuality tgw ladies can so why can't the men we are I 2024
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"I get an awful lot of "Straight " guys sending me messages.
Be honest guys please. "
I had " if your straight please don't message me" in my profile but that didn't work to well.
Now I have " ill block you" seems to work well.. |
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I'm bi and proud of it.
Nothing nicer than a mmf.
Also love occasional mm meets.
Kissing a man was a bit scary the first time.
Never spent a night with a mf or m yet but would love to kiss, cuddle, wank together all night. |
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It took me years to admit to myself as bi, now I have no shame about it. I've met loads of guys on the other fab site and got verifications unfortunately no woman seems to be interested in bi guys round my area or I'm just ugly |
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I just state bi, if they like it great, if they don’t great! I get contacted daily by guys stating straight and when I was with my ex, we used to meet guys that stated they were but when it same to it they were reluctant and it was obviously a ploy, but hey ho! |
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