 have we been brainwashed by religion & conformity that is's wrong to have sex with others when married or sex before marriage for that matter.
For me it's simply a control mechanism & we adhere to many other control's as it's normal to be patriotic and support the king, if you don't you are branded as outcasts or not quite normal.
Once you step away from the norm you will always bee seen as an outcast but is it wrong for me to watch someone pounding my wife.
I like it, she likes it & he likes it surely that can't be wrong |
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" have we been brainwashed by religion & conformity that is's wrong to have sex with others when married or sex before marriage for that matter.
For me it's simply a control mechanism & we adhere to many other control's as it's normal to be patriotic and support the king, if you don't you are branded as outcasts or not quite normal.
Once you step away from the norm you will always bee seen as an outcast but is it wrong for me to watch someone pounding my wife.
I like it, she likes it & he likes it surely that can't be wrong "
I agree with you |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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" have we been brainwashed by religion & conformity that is's wrong to have sex with others when married or sex before marriage for that matter.
For me it's simply a control mechanism & we adhere to many other control's as it's normal to be patriotic and support the king, if you don't you are branded as outcasts or not quite normal.
Once you step away from the norm you will always
bee seen as an outcast but is it wrong for me to watch someone pounding my wife.
I like it, she likes it & he likes it surely that can't be wrong "
Correct it’s all brainwashing on how to be and how to act etc the whole system is control |
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If anything we would suggest it makes our marriage stronger as there are no hidden secrets or desires, more honest. Monogamy is different as, by practice, we’re having sex with other people. However, if we stopped this tomorrow we could return to a monogamous marriage as we only do this as a couple. |
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By *ddyMan 32 weeks ago
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From a man who's been with multiple couples here's what I've seen and noticed.
All the couples I've met with were very nice people and loved eachother a lot! Their chemistry between them was immaculate by itself. Them inviting me into their relationship as a 3rd person to either fuck the wife or have a MFM was alwayss an honor for me. A lot of people think it's taboo or whatever, but it's what works for some people and other not understanding that is non of the people who do swing that way. I see it as a sign of deeper bonding and open communication. It can only make a marriage stronger considering everyone is having fun. |
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" have we been brainwashed by religion & conformity that is's wrong to have sex with others when married or sex before marriage for that matter.
For me it's simply a control mechanism & we adhere to many other control's as it's normal to be patriotic and support the king, if you don't you are branded as outcasts or not quite normal.
Once you step away from the norm you will always bee seen as an outcast but is it wrong for me to watch someone pounding my wife.
I like it, she likes it & he likes it surely that can't be wrong "
Exactly this, we are more closer because of how open we are about sex.
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With my wife and I and with another female partner when we met other people in for sex, it was an extension of our lovemaking not something apart from our relationship.
Similarly now when I meet couples I join them on their terms, a sort of 'rent a cock'. No emotional involvement. |
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"From a man who's been with multiple couples here's what I've seen and noticed.
All the couples I've met with were very nice people and loved eachother a lot! Their chemistry between them was immaculate by itself. Them inviting me into their relationship as a 3rd person to either fuck the wife or have a MFM was alwayss an honor for me. A lot of people think it's taboo or whatever, but it's what works for some people and other not understanding that is non of the people who do swing that way. I see it as a sign of deeper bonding and open communication. It can only make a marriage stronger considering everyone is having fun. "
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"I wouldn't say it does. To me, marriage is a lifelong commitment with a very deep bond and strong love. That will never change.
We agree with this too.
Exactly this for us. Nothing more to say.
Pretty much says it all really."
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If the act of sharing your wife changes anything in a negative way you weren’t in the right frame of mind to do it in the first place. If you’re in the right frame of mind it’s totally liberating. All the rules that have been created about how a society should behave are all about his to control society. If you really love someone you’d be really invested in their pleasure. |
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In some ways we are still clinging to social norms established by the Victorians when it comes to sex. However, given the advent of social media and how younger generations approach the subject of relationships it is seems that views are becoming more liberal. |
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