"Obviously you need to meet and chat with people how do you start the conversation? Do you cum here often lol"
Pretty much, yes. It’s the same as anywhere else. Hello, is this your first time here, compliment on outfit, etc etc.
It amazes us how many couples and singles sit in a corner all evening. Clubs are what you make of them xx |
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"Obviously you need to meet and chat with people how do you start the conversation? Do you cum here often lol
Pretty much, yes. It’s the same as anywhere else. Hello, is this your first time here, compliment on outfit, etc etc.
It amazes us how many couples and singles sit in a corner all evening. Clubs are what you make of them xx"
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Obviously you need to meet and chat with people how do you start the conversation? Do you cum here often lol
Pretty much, yes. It’s the same as anywhere else. Hello, is this your first time here, compliment on outfit, etc etc.
It amazes us how many couples and singles sit in a corner all evening. Clubs are what you make of them xx"
Usually us lol sometines we venture to a chat. We tend to chat more in the hot tub then get out and sit with each other again. |
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Just be smiley and friendly, and don't be worried to approach people. It usually all starts a bit tame (nice outfit, have you been here before, have you been to other clubs, how long have you been swinging, etc) before moving on to other stuff!
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By *mmaleiaWoman 40 weeks ago
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It amazes us how many couples and singles sit in a corner all evening. Clubs are what you make of them xx"
That’s fine if you’re not socially awkward, I’m going to my 1st club next month & although a confident, chatty person in my circle of friends, I’m dreading not being able to find things to talk about with total strangers, so people watching maybe a safer option for some I guess |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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It's shockingly easy. Don't be pissed and just be very honest. Read responses, Don't take rejection personally and if you do strike up a conversation with people you want to play with Don't procrastinate, you can hit the friends zone very quickly in clubs so we always decide if we want to play within 20 minutes, if we don't we politely move on, if we do we ask if they want to join us in a room |
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"It's shockingly easy. Don't be pissed and just be very honest. Read responses, Don't take rejection personally and if you do strike up a conversation with people you want to play with Don't procrastinate, you can hit the friends zone very quickly in clubs so we always decide if we want to play within 20 minutes, if we don't we politely move on, if we do we ask if they want to join us in a room "
Dont be pissed is very good advice i dont getvpissed but the wife does and then falls asleep in the toilets lol but its noticeable to others and not nice to see. |
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"So this might seem a daft question, but whats the dress code? Do you wear normal clothes, just a bathrobe or towel...? "
It all depends upon the clubs dress code, those that I have been to, it's dress smartly for the gents and sexy for the ladies. While others have a dress down code (ie towel only). So you do need to check beforehand. |
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