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By *irtym OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Scotland |
Like real genuine question is it just me or is everything in sex just meh like nothing fully excited me or has me in the state of last I would have in my youth? Like I mean I have done alot so there's not much fantasy that I can say thats what I wanna do and trying to find something im into is a pain its like everytime I masterbate they are meh and ok but not really busting the nut any advice or have other came across this? |
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I'm getting more excited and finding more enjoyment in sex as I get older. If anyone told me I would be having the best sex of my life in my mid 50s I would have laughed at them. But I am, and hoping it continues to improve. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"Like real genuine question is it just me or is everything in sex just meh like nothing fully excited me or has me in the state of last I would have in my youth? Like I mean I have done alot so there's not much fantasy that I can say thats what I wanna do and trying to find something im into is a pain its like everytime I masterbate they are meh and ok but not really busting the nut any advice or have other came across this?"
I feel your pain too. So to speak.
I have recently started seeing a masseuse. It is definitely not a sexual service but is very teasing satisfying and tantric I guess. The only thing she doesn’t do and I would not want her to do is make me climax xx |
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By *irtym OP Couple 42 weeks ago
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"Whats alot do I look at naked people daily yes as do most im just feel like everything is lik missionary its good but not exciting
Do you feel that way about the rest of your life or just sex?"
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"Whats alot do I look at naked people daily yes as do most im just feel like everything is lik missionary its good but not exciting
Do you feel that way about the rest of your life or just sex? In what way do u mean?"
That it's all a bit mundane and ordinary, flat and grey |
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As someone who suffers from depression my sex drive went from me wanting it loads to now hardly ever. Even having a wank is pointless. So I feel your pain. Are you on medication for anything that would suppress your drive? I know my happy pills do that. Xx
Charlotte x |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"As someone who suffers from depression my sex drive went from me wanting it loads to now hardly ever. Even having a wank is pointless. So I feel your pain. Are you on medication for anything that would suppress your drive? I know my happy pills do that. Xx
Charlotte x"
Quite agree here and with my meds it can be hit and miss x |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"As someone who suffers from depression my sex drive went from me wanting it loads to now hardly ever. Even having a wank is pointless. So I feel your pain. Are you on medication for anything that would suppress your drive? I know my happy pills do that. Xx
Charlotte x"
Dysthymia can affect a lot of people without them realising. People sometimes live with it for decades. I’m not saying this is what’s affecting the OP but this is an insightful post worth thinking about. |
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"As someone who suffers from depression my sex drive went from me wanting it loads to now hardly ever. Even having a wank is pointless. So I feel your pain. Are you on medication for anything that would suppress your drive? I know my happy pills do that. Xx
Charlotte x
Dysthymia can affect a lot of people without them realising. People sometimes live with it for decades. I’m not saying this is what’s affecting the OP but this is an insightful post worth thinking about."
Yeah it’s sucks for females though as UK doctors won’t prescribe anything to help me xx so I just grin and bear it.
Charlotte x |
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By *io--Man 42 weeks ago
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"Like real genuine question is it just me or is everything in sex just meh like nothing fully excited me or has me in the state of last I would have in my youth? Like I mean I have done alot so there's not much fantasy that I can say thats what I wanna do and trying to find something im into is a pain its like everytime I masterbate they are meh and ok but not really busting the nut any advice or have other came across this?"
Im 21 and I get bored of anything sexual now and then too. Usually after 3 months or so being horny simply loses the appeal and Id have to go out my way to get in the mood. I could still fuck or wank and enjoy it sure, but theres no comparison to having the urge naturally. I usually have a break for a few weeks from everything, and it naturally comes back : ) |
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