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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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I've recently found myself being fascinated by women who can squirt or gush, but I've also found out this is off putting to a certain number of men. What are people's general thoughts on it? Like I say, for me it's a total turn on |
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"I've recently found myself being fascinated by women who can squirt or gush, but I've also found out this is off putting to a certain number of men. What are people's general thoughts on it? Like I say, for me it's a total turn on "
It’s a massive turn off for me |
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By *CLM87Woman 40 weeks ago
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All the men I've spoken to and my male friends love it... apart from the clean up after lol.
The first time it happens it's like wow, what was that.
There has been some studies on it and it is different to urine. Obviously some girls fake it... but the ones who do, the chemical make up isn't urine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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" I've also found out this is off putting to a certain number of men.
How did you find this out ?"
Just chatting to guys on here. I was surprised by how many don't like it |
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"I've recently found myself being fascinated by women who can squirt or gush, but I've also found out this is off putting to a certain number of men. What are people's general thoughts on it? Like I say, for me it's a total turn on "
It’s piss and can be rectified with some pelvic floor exercises! |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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In my bicurious phases for women in past I found it hot, maybe as it felt like an association of what I was used to with a man. But it seems weirdly erotic to me. I cannot understand why a straight male would be turned off but all individuals obviously |
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"I've recently found myself being fascinated by women who can squirt or gush, but I've also found out this is off putting to a certain number of men. What are people's general thoughts on it? Like I say, for me it's a total turn on
It’s piss and can be rectified with some pelvic floor exercises!"
Correct, it is piss.
Some enjoy that, that’s cool.
It’s not for me personally |
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The clean up afterwards is a pain but I have never had anyone complain. One of my FWBs actually complains when I don't squirt enough.
I don't care what the liquid is as long as it's a turn on for whoever I am with.
And my pelvic floor is very well, thank you very much (to the poster stating squirting can be fixed by pelvic floor exercise). |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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I personally am glad I don't squirt..
I have seen vids of squirting here & elsewhere & it was visibly clear the 'liquid' was coming from the urethra & not the vagina. Because of this.... until very recently I always believed squirting was pee....
I've been proven wrong though.... Because a few weeks ago I saw a vid on here & the 'liquid' was coming from the vagina....so that proved it wasn't pee....but many 'squirters' are actually pissing themselves during sex not squirting.
Look closely....It's quite simple really....If the liquid is coming from the urethra it's pee....if it's coming from the vagina it's a 'squirt'. |
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By *unchalMan 40 weeks ago
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"I've recently found myself being fascinated by women who can squirt or gush, but I've also found out this is off putting to a certain number of men. What are people's general thoughts on it? Like I say, for me it's a total turn on
It’s a massive turn off for me"
I’m with you missus. |
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Met a lovely couple on here pre covid, we chatted for a while and they visited me one afternoon. On arrival she had a bag with a bed sheet which I found to be strange.
Anyway we were just talking and her husband said take her to the bedroom and give her good fucking and I will follow you in a few mins.
In the bedroom we were kissing and undressing and she stopped and placed the sheet onto the bed, I asked her what’s that for, and she said you will see soon enough.
I was soon laid on my back and she took my cock into her mouth then mounted me- and then I found out why, my legs and balls were soaked as she took control of the situation, she couldn’t talk just panted away, her husband arrived after about ten minutes naked, and as soon has she took his cock into her mouth it totally finished me off-
I enjoyed meeting them again once or twice and each of them on their own after this. |
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"I’m a squirter and the men I’ve played with have never complained and my pelvic floor is working fine and very tight "
Do so such like a squirter. Love to see you do that if I was very privileged XXX |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Also squirting is not an orgasm. I was always led to believe that any liquid coming out comes from the bladder. So where does it come from if its not pee amd a well hydrated pee
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Quote - "Squirting is not an orgasm"....
Yes I know of women who have said "squirting is not an orgasm" & they have also said it does not feel like one in anyway. I don't squirt so I've no personal idea what it's like or where the liquid comes out of....whether it's the Urethra (bladder) or Vagina (womb).
I've seen many many vids of the 'liquid' coming out of the Urethra so I always assumed it was pee & I still do believe it is pee.
However only very recently I saw another squirting vid & it was so visually obvious the liquid was coming out of the Vagina....I now do believe that squirting is a thing..but only when the liquid is from the Vagina. |
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"Also squirting is not an orgasm. I was always led to believe that any liquid coming out comes from the bladder. So where does it come from if its not pee amd a well hydrated pee
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For me, squirting equals orgasm- I can cum without squirting but I can't squirt (or, as some prefer to call it, "pee myself because of my poor bladder control and very weak pelvic floor", supposedly) without an orgasm. I guess every woman is different. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"I love a girl that squirts and I must say most girls do with the right amount of pleasure
I am 57 and never yet done it"
Neither have I, (I've ever squirted) & tbh I'm glad I don't squirt. Fk that.. I'd much rather not.
I can understand why men like it though. The surge of warm liquid over their cock must be quite pleasant while they're Fking. |
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By *oxy jWoman 40 weeks ago
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their no point in proving what squirting is as some will have you believe they are so special that science does not cover them or that the come from a different planet ...
its been proven time and time again what it is and where it from and even the fuild have been 100% broken down to whats in it and how alot of women cant squirt and how alot of women who think they are squirting are not ... for those who squirt heavy might want to find oput more as its very unlikly to be squirt related at all ....
there only one place in womans body that can hold these amounts of fluid ie the bladder ..
to those who say they've seen videos proving its not wee then please link us to them ... it been known that in the porn industry that most sqirt scenes are 100% wee and some add water to the vagina to make it look more spectacular ...
but here the real thing who cares if you enjoy then enjoy does it really matter if it is mostly wee but dont be silly and change medical facts by claiming your special it is what it is and it seems alot enjoy it |
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By *oxy jWoman 40 weeks ago
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ps im a squirter by small amount but i can squirt im also one of those that can switch off from it .. nothing worse than a guy thinking he can is rather just do it with guys i know well now and then but its nothing compared to a orgasm |
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By *oxy jWoman 40 weeks ago
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"If you are educated, you know
It's amazing, and nothing to do with pissing
Women know "
well if your educated then maybe give us the magic links that tell everyone in medical science that they are wrong ... |
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"If you are educated, you know
It's amazing, and nothing to do with pissing
Women know "
I’m a woman, have read some of the research, and I’m pretty confident it’s mostly just piss. Especially since it only happens if a guy basically doesn’t listen to me and pounds my non-empty bladder. |
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"Can’t do it have tried but maybe I’m trying too hard lol
Hubby gets others to squirt so it’s definitely a me issue and he loves it - I totally applaud the ladies that can!! "
So, this is the kind of statement that I find really problematic.
All women are built differently. Women have different requirements for stimulation and pleasure.
I’ve had a man tell me that I was “broken” and that it was all me because his technique that worked with “every other woman” didn’t get me off.
It’s not “your issue” that your partners technique for getting some women off doesn’t work on you. It’s his issue for not working out that you might enjoy something different.
And not all women are built in a way that a man can stimulate fluid for “squirting” just as not all women can have an orgasm by being pounded away for half an hour from behind. |
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"Can’t do it have tried but maybe I’m trying too hard lol
Hubby gets others to squirt so it’s definitely a me issue and he loves it - I totally applaud the ladies that can!!
So, this is the kind of statement that I find really problematic.
All women are built differently. Women have different requirements for stimulation and pleasure.
I’ve had a man tell me that I was “broken” and that it was all me because his technique that worked with “every other woman” didn’t get me off.
It’s not “your issue” that your partners technique for getting some women off doesn’t work on you. It’s his issue for not working out that you might enjoy something different.
And not all women are built in a way that a man can stimulate fluid for “squirting” just as not all women can have an orgasm by being pounded away for half an hour from behind."
I very much agree! Just because I can squirt, it doesn't mean I am going to regardless of whether the other person has "immaculate technique that works on others". I am not others, every woman is unique and what makes one of us tick may as well be a huge turn off for another one. |
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"If you are educated, you know
It's amazing, and nothing to do with pissing
Women know "
I've squirted a few times. It feels different from peeing and the liquid is definitely different in texture (more watery and also more viscous) because it's pee mixed with whatever fluid we create when aroused. It's absolutely pee though. There is no possible way a woman's body could produce that much liquid from anywhere else. It's a different sensation to peeing but the actual liquid is mostly pee. |
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I love it, if a woman ‘lets go’ in this way, and I’ve had some standout experiences along the way; gushing straight in to my mouth, exploding past my cock as I fucked her, gushing when I fucked her anally in missionary, destroying two beds in a club one night and having to stand the mattresses up to drain off…..
There was one woman though, who got so wet, that I just couldn’t orgasm myself, because there was simply no friction/stimulation to my cock through the condom….. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Love when people that have no idea tell me I’m not squirting, it’s a myth and that it is urine. It isn’t, trust me! "
Hi, I've never squirted ever....so I've no personal experience of it whatsoever & I'm very curious to know..& I hope you don't mind me asking.. But did the liquid come from your Urethra or your Vagina ? |
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"I love it, if a woman ‘lets go’ in this way,"
It's not really about "letting go". I squirt when I'm tense and not relaxed (because some guy is hammering away and that's not relaxing). There's no orgasm there and no pleasure.
But when I actually "let go" and have an orgasm it's great - and it doesn't come with associated floodwater. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Love when people that have no idea tell me I’m not squirting, it’s a myth and that it is urine. It isn’t, trust me!
Hi, I've never squirted ever....so I've no personal experience of it whatsoever & I'm very curious to know..& I hope you don't mind me asking.. But did the liquid come from your Urethra or your Vagina ?"
Far as I'm aware it comes from your urethra but from a different gland.
So it will always have some percentage of urine, but it should be generally clear.
However. Even when it's clear and comes with intense orgasm, in my experience of can still smell quite wee-like afterwards on the bed sheets.
Also girls that I have experienced squirting have been different. But in the heat of the moment, I think squirt fanatics don't really care to be frank haha.
I genuinely think there is a fine line between the release of incontinence and squirting orgasms and I'm not convinced all women always know what's happening either. (Sorry to say)
Especially when you look into male squirting. Which also releases a delightful sensation but apparently IS just piss. In comparison
So.
Who fuckin' knows hahaha
Since even 'scientific studies' on Google seem a bit wishy washy. The only thing I'm convinced of is that we should all pee before sex, be healthy and hydrated, and then just enjoy ourselves and stop worrying haha.
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Can’t do it have tried but maybe I’m trying too hard lol
Hubby gets others to squirt so it’s definitely a me issue and he loves it - I totally applaud the ladies that can!! "
In reply to this. I squirted once with my very first BF - neither of us knew what it was and I freaked out and was SO embarrassed. Never squirted again until my late 20s (and trust me, I had some crazy sex inbetween so it wasn't that it wasn't good) but it happened once I met someone I truly experimented comfortably with and now I can't stop.
So. FYI. I believe all women CAN squirt. Yes. But there is so much psychological pressure we put on ourselves that things don't always happen even if we 'think' we are relaxed.
I suggest you stop 'trying' and just simply go with what feels good. |
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Always a topic for debate. I can squirt and gush whilst orgasming and both are completely different. Squirting definitely comes from the urethra don't think anyone is debating that but I can completely empty my bladder of piss before sex and then squirt all over his face 2 mins later a liquid clearly different in taste, smell and consistency. I gush like a thicker creamier liquid from my vagina at orgasm which different again. I've read some evidence to suggest that it's fluid from the skenes gland mixed with urine etc I think part of the problem is porn making it look like women can shoot jets out |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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" I think part of the problem is porn making it look like women can shoot jets out "
Nope. Squirting a fire hose is definitely a thing. Sometimes it builds up and when the dick slides out suddenly it comes out like a burst pipe under pressure for a good few seconds.
Rarely though. But I definitely reckon someone could have rinsed their shampoo out in the timeframe though haha
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" I think part of the problem is porn making it look like women can shoot jets out
Nope. Squirting a fire hose is definitely a thing. Sometimes it builds up and when the dick slides out suddenly it comes out like a burst pipe under pressure for a good few seconds.
Rarely though. But I definitely reckon someone could have rinsed their shampoo out in the timeframe though haha
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That's not quite what I meant, I probably didn't explain very well. I can squirt a lot, sometimes as much as in porn haha but so much squirting porn is fake/forced and like every other category of porn confuses real sex, bodies, expectations etc enforcing the idea that any who squirts during sex is just drinking a lot and pissing themselves either intentionally or due to pelvic floor issues as others have suggested |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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" ... any who squirts during sex is just drinking a lot and pissing themselves either intentionally or due to pelvic floor issues as others have suggested "
I've genuinely never considered that anyone has ever fake squirted by pissing themselves. Is that a thing? Haha. Wow
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" ... any who squirts during sex is just drinking a lot and pissing themselves either intentionally or due to pelvic floor issues as others have suggested
I've genuinely never considered that anyone has ever fake squirted by pissing themselves. Is that a thing? Haha. Wow
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Haha not as far as I know but according to a lot of posters everyone that squirts has a bladder weakness, I guess I was just giving the hypothetical squirter some ownership over it rather than it being something everyone is doing through lack of control haha
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Haha not as far as I know but according to a lot of posters everyone that squirts has a bladder weakness, I guess I was just giving the hypothetical squirter some ownership over it rather than it being something everyone is doing through lack of control haha
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Yeah but clearly a lot of people on here have no idea what they're talking about about and have 0 facts hah. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Lots of club playroom are now stinking of piss.
Thanks for that. "
Lol. Yet another reason I've never liked clubs. Rolling around in strangers juices. No thanks haha |
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" ... any who squirts during sex is just drinking a lot and pissing themselves either intentionally or due to pelvic floor issues as others have suggested
I've genuinely never considered that anyone has ever fake squirted by pissing themselves. Is that a thing? Haha. Wow
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In porn - absolutely a thing. If you look at what's happening properly you can see the liquid coming out of the urethra. |
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By *oxy jWoman 40 weeks ago
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for those claiming bladder is empty again read the science facts when you empty your bladder it starts filling your kidneys dont stop just because you've had a wee its a fact that during sex your bladder will fill more rapidly than normal...
the fluid when you squirt will be made of of very small amounts of fluid from the skene glands and the rest being urine the heavier you squirt the more its wee ...
the % percentage of women who can squirt is still not very well known but they do know alot cant estimates are between 10% to 60% so if they are correct then thats alot who cant ....
Sexual Incontenence aka Coital Incontinence is a very interesting subject that feels the same as squirting ..
it dont smell like wee well heres the thing apart from your first wee of the day when you wee it should not smell if your wee is smelling from the start then its time to vist the drs wee only smell as it ages so of course squirting dont smell ..also when you say it dont look like wee well it wont if its made up of 5% of other stuff
there is no other organ in the womans body that can hold that amount of fluids other than the bladder ...unless of course your not of this earth
information is easy to find lots of real biology science proof out there
if you enjoy it then who cares if it wee i think alot of the problems with squirtiing is pressure from men who hold it like some badge of honour
and yes i squirt i enjoy with guys i know well with others i shut it of and will bluntly tell guys its off the menu nothing worse than a guy basshing your fanny to a raw state of non pleasure
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By *oxy jWoman 40 weeks ago
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"Lots of club playroom are now stinking of piss.
Thanks for that. "
this really pisses me of there no excuse not to clean the room up after people that do this are all self just clean it up so others can also enjoy ... never nice having to go to management to tell them one of there rooms is dirtyu or stinks |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Good to see all the "experts" are here to inform us what squirting is and isn't. "
Haha, to be fair mate, its 2024 and most people still don't understand what it even is. It's a little odd really.
Did you have an opinion on squirt to add to the mix, sir? |
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"I've recently found myself being fascinated by women who can squirt or gush, but I've also found out this is off putting to a certain number of men. What are people's general thoughts on it? Like I say, for me it's a total turn on " I absolutely love it and hearing it, however I’ve never experienced it so maybe a along with those other fellas that don’t like it, but it really does turn me on
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"When a women squirts its just from her bladder ! Dont get the obsession
Makes bed stink "
Haha, I like your honesty.
And tbh, if you asked a man outright if they like getting pissed on. They'd say no. But if its squirt, they're like - *open wide* haha
Silly really. But. The things we do when were horny, eh? |
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